The Production house has been potraying Kokila as the righteous lady, The lady who believes in standing for ethics. I agree But there are other substantial reasons to term her the most hypocrite lady in indian TV
Reasons
- Kokila Modi talks too much about culture, sanskar, sabhyataas. Hell with her. She has taught Ahem to call her MOM not Maa. What culture is this then?
- Kokila lectured Ahem for not supporting Pregnant Gopi. By the way she should look what blunders she did.. She was too possessive whenever Ahem was getting close to Gopi. Especially in the episode where all family go to watch cinema, she distanced Gopi from ahem. She went and occupied Ahems seat.
- Kokila from day 1 expected her bahus to be adarsh bahu's , sitting up and down whenever the mother in law instructs, and be like a subservient wife to their husband. Bravo Kokila so many expectations. Kokila treats her husband like a dog. Kokila's husband is so gentle yet just because he followed his passions Kokila hates him Moreover Kokila forgot that she has got this modi family and her son working in modi business just because she married a modi son. So hypocrite.
I never saw Kokila talking at a low voice near Baa. She is paasing orders like a tyrant, but expects her bahus not to talk loudly, play loud music. Sic
- Kokila could not give proper values to her daughter Kinja but she has all problems with Rashi. Kokila has no problem if her daughter wears Salwar Suit in her in laws home but rashi and Gopi should strictly wear Sarees and Gopi especially with Ghunghat. What Double standards.
- She always tells that she loves her bahus. What a lie. Not even a single episode has been shown where she can gently tell that Rashi and Gopi you both sit at dining table I and mota bhabhi will serve u food. But we always find That fatso kokila sitting in table to eager for her nonsense breakfast. If she considers them daughter than I don't think mothers are like that. Mothers always want their children to get all comfort.
OTHER CHARACTER PROBLEM OF KOKILA MODI
We know Urmila has done wrong in the past, But whenever urmila comes modi house Kokila talks to her rudely, passes Sarcastic comments. Whatever be Urmi is her Samdhan and moreover its not Indian culture to treat guests like that. Hetal is warm towards Urmila.
She has all time on earth to wear those costly banarasi sarees at home and putting Bindis from forehead till nose. Is this her age to do all that? But she always talks about simplicity and proper usage of money and things. Why doesn't it apply to her.
And most ridiculously what family is this. She enters kitchen and then directly enters Puja place. Generally when people do aarti or stuff related to worshipping God in morning , people have separate clothes for that. Not the daily wear clothes they wear and moving around kitchen , rooms, washroom .While worshipping one has to maintain purity and sanctity.
INJUSTICE TO RASHI
Rashi has been painted the villain of the show. But her all actions are due to Kokila modi.
Yes Rashi had done wrong things, blunders But whenever she tried to correct herself she just faced disappointment from Kokila.
- Kokila from day 1 kept doing partiality. Meri Gopi bahu aisi hai, this and that. Rashi might not be xpert in kitchen activities, but that doesn't mean Kokila should judge her on that. God has given Every person some talent. She might be good in other household work, education, or some other talent. That's the problem of the society , if a bahu knows cooking then she is best and good. Kokila's such old fashioned ideas are not at all praiseworthy. Kokila should Value humans. Decide Urself You brought Bahus to be kitchen Chefs and servants or to be ur family members and be the life long saathiya of Modi sons.??
- Never ever praised Rashi. Fine Kokila knows Rashi is mischevious. Being the elder she should try to change her through love and care. Love can melt mountains.
Kokila's interference has ruined the life of two modi sons. Both lack confidence in every work whether be it from office till bedroom. They don't have any personality. All the men in modi family are not at all men in nature. They don't know to distinguish between right and wrong. Being respectful doesn't mean to tolerate the wrong even if its ones own mother. In Ramayana , "Bharat " Ram's brother went against his mother Kaikei because he knew his mother was wrong. One should 100 % follow elders but there is nothing wrong in going against elders if u know their actions are wrong
JAI SHRI KRISHNA