Will Rashi appreciate ...

Rashi,.. she got everything on her platter... all served...

she got the a very sweet husband.. and more sweeter MIL .. and very luxurious life style and the tag of being a Modi bahu... she got them so easily and she never appreciates any of these.. neither her husband or in-laws... she takes everything for granted...

she got everything without really yearning for it...

Will she be pregnant and be blessed with the child - just because it is her wish for a selfish reason to get pampered ..

if she is pregnant will she appreciate and love and take care of the child .. i guess not..

you appreciate anything only when you get it after trying it and yearning for it and patiently waiting for it..

Gopi has got everything .,. husband.. in-laws .. family .. relations.. only after yearning and only because of her good nature.. so she appreciates every single thing .. every single relation ... every single memory ...

but rashi .. i guess she will not even love her baby .. because the baby is not out of her motherly affection or out of love .she will not appreciate and love and pamper the baby...

so my wish is Rashi should not get pregnant any time soon.,. she should try hard.. she should yearn for a baby .. shed tears before god and plead him to give her a baby .. only then will she appreciate the baby ... rashi needs to go through a tough phase .. it should be like.. yes she asked for it.. she will get it 😕

just as you cannot appreciate light without darkness and success without failure... rashi needs a few dark moments in her life .. for her to appreciate the light

- hope there is some sense in the post😛

I dont want rashi to have a baby either but for different reasons 😛. She is not mature to take care of the baby. Oh god i have another stupid thought in my mind - what if gopi looses the baby and its decided rashi has to give her kid to gopi 😕 hmmm but anyways even if she has a baby i dont know what she will do just play with it and boss . Susu potty kaun saaf karega?? But her yearning for a baby is really sad and i dont wanna see it ever.

I think maybe a baby could be the making of Rashi. She'd have to be responsible because that baby would rely on her and it would bind her to her family.

I wholeheartedly agree with you post and Vibs.

Originally posted by: NazmaJ

I think maybe a baby could be the making of Rashi. She'd have to be responsible because that baby would rely on her and it would bind her to her family.

Also if Gopi has a brush with danger and almost loses her baby, or does lose it, then Rashi will realise the importance of what a baby means and will feel the weight of resposibility that she won't want to give to someone else. I doubt if she'd want Gopi to bring up her child becasue she would want her child to love her more than anyone else.

I hope if Rashi is pregnant then it is a positive experience for her that builds her character.

Munni, a big HMT hug 🤗 for this wonderful meaningful post !!

I agree with you that we cannot appreciate light without darkness and success without failure. iF we have had only wonderful things happen to us all the time how will we learn to deal with pain and despair?
Rashi, needs some dark days in her life to understand Jigar & Hetal's worth in her life.

I know this God blesses us all in our darkness & Gopi is the living example of that!!

A HMT hug Munni, Tina🤗 It has been quite sometime😛

What a fab topic Munni. 👏 Want to write a lot but in a hurry.. So here is my take..

I totally agree with you 😃 We appreciate something that we work for, fight for.. Rashi hence never appreciates things that come to her.. Do I want her to understand the importance of a baby, the responsibilities and duty that comes with it? Yes please.. Not for Rashi but for the child..

For every child needs to be loved and cared for.. It is not fair to the child to have a mother who cares naught for it. And I do not want Gopi to be the caretaker while Rashi goes off to enjoy.. Not fair to the child or Gopi.. Further more I do not want Rashi to take care of the child only because she does not want Gopi to be praised again.

Rashi needs to change before becoming a mother, She needs to realize the worth of those around her. If she does not, we will another Rashi in the form of the child or a Gopi.. NO.. For once, let there be justice for all.. Rashi needs to change before she is pregnant, both for herself and the child in question..

Let us see..😊

She can really go both ways, but I'm siding more with what Nazma said. Sometimes responsibility awakes the conscience. I've seen chichora desi boys sudhrofy after marriage. Maybe a baby will do it for her.

Well, I guess I am the eternal pessimist and sceptic when it comes to Rashi 😡.

which mother won't luv her child yaar?Agreed she wants a baby 4 selfish reasons but how can u say dat she won't love and take care of her child?A mother's love 4 her child is different,which cannot be explained.After experiencing da 9 months period,any mother,no matter how much stonehearted she may be,will definitely luv her child.