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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well said Muni, life is really really short, we can't say what will happen in the next few minutes. In the same way Gia left and went, thrown out. So all of you people try your best to bring her back and we are still hoping. But in the mean time why fight, the show is still sns, there are other actors, so we just put all in God's hands and enjoy the show and especially the forum.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Can we stop it please. Can we all stop pointing fingeres.

This whole Giaa replacement debacle has hurt all parties, Everyone is hurt in some way. Even the ones sitting on the fence are feeling hurt. We all say mean things when we are hurt and angry. We all tend to get ill-logical. So all of us have said things to each other that were perhaps unneccessary. Its been two weeks, since Giaa has left and were are fighting like kindergarten kids. Lets face it she is not comming back, so let us not fight with each other for no reason. if we face the fact, it will be easier to forgive each other.
Munni showed courage by admitting her fault on a public forum, we should respect her for that. How many of us even feel that we have done any wrong? At least she feels that she has wronged and is ready to apologize.
I urge everyone, let us try and be cordial if cannot be the best of friends just yet.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sandy914

Maddy I really wanna know what do u mean by that 😛


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Does this post make any difference? People to whom this post is meant still assume the post is fake😆
People from both sides should have some control over what they had written in first place rather than posting apologies later. May be it was all in anger or frustration but some people crossed the line way too much
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maddy311


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Does this post make any difference? People to whom this post is meant still assume the post is fake😆
People from both sides should have some control over what they had written in first place rather than posting apologies later. May be it was all in anger or frustration but some people crossed the line way too much

Maddy, dear, mistakes have been been by all sides no doubt about that, the question is can we all move on? Can we forgive each other?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: A2ZV


Maddy, dear, mistakes have been been by all sides no doubt about that, the question is can we all move on? Can we forgive each other?


am I stopping anyone from moving on? Everyone's free to do what they want, who am I to interfere? I just said what I felt
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maddy311


😉
Does this post make any difference? People to whom this post is meant still assume the post is fake😆
People from both sides should have some control over what they had written in first place rather than posting apologies later. May be it was all in anger or frustration but some people crossed the line way too much


Which is why there will be no apology from me for anything i said. Cos i meant what i said. If i didn't i would not have said it in the first place. Besides the truth never needs an apology.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA


Which is why there will be no apology from me for anything i said. Cos i meant what i said. If i didn't i would not have said it in the first place. Besides the truth never needs an apology.


I second your views Ashwin... I am not apologising.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maddy311


am I stopping anyone from moving on? Everyone's free to do what they want, who am I to interfere? I just said what I felt

Even I felt the same that's why I asked what do u mean by that.. Well thanks u replied me.. Every one is free to do what they want...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maddy311


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Does this post make any difference? People to whom this post is meant still assume the post is fake😆
People from both sides should have some control over what they had written in first place rather than posting apologies later. May be it was all in anger or frustration but some people crossed the line way too much

agreed maddy ...

the damage has been done long back ... a little bit of sensitivity as well as sensibility was the need of that hour, but alas!! it was all forgotten and anger and frustration won over ... which resulted in hurting several people ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni, thanks for making this post. I believe it takes a lot of courage and you have to be a big person to realize your mistakes and apologize for them. It is hard to bend down and apologize, but it is even harder to forget and forgive. I am glad I was never involved in those hurtful posts from both sides and chose not to read through most of them. So I am not sure how I would have felt if I was the one who had said insensitive things or was on the receiving end.

What I can say here is wounds run really deep when they are inflicted by someone who you trusted and considered as your friend. They take a long time to heal. Even when you are willing to forget the hurts of the past and move on, you still carry that feeling of betrayal and pain in the back of your mind. You are always afraid and are almost expecting the same wounds to reopen and same hurts to be inflicted at the next go round again.

Munni, If some members choose not to take your post seriously, please don't take it personally. It just means they have been wounded deeply and at least, you tried. Members, if you choose not to take Munni's post seriously, please don't make fun of her apology. That's what got us all in this mess to begin with and you know how it feels to be mocked. It's your prerogative to not accept this apology. All, please give yourselves some time. Time is a great healer and hopefully, in this case too, time will heal us all.

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