Ahem and love: reality vs fantasy - Page 2

Originally posted by: Debalina_Paul

superb analysis swasthi.. how do u manage to write so brilliantly with all colorful words?? 👍🏼

and yes, rightly mentioned.. nazim and rupal were too good today..

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Fantastic Analysis.


Ahem has always had it too easy. Sure he has come a long way from being the angry young man to the person he is today, but even then he did not think about the changes that comes along with changed feelings.

When he realized he and Gopi were going to be parents, he was not aware of the changes that would come along with this, he was thinking he still had the time to be with her, think about her, come close to her, but circumstances prevented him from doing this.

His encounter with the kids left bad impression of children and he realized not only that but he will no longer be the priority for his wife.

As his frustration mounted, the trigger of toy going off made him blow up. Once again, he let his anger get better of him and he spoke without thinking and crossed all limits.

He regretted it immediately, but it was too late this time. This time he went too far, and have lost everything dear to him.

How he mends his way will be interesting to watch.

I agree, Nazim and Rupal were both brilliant today and gave a very powerful performance and gave us a fantastic episode.

Originally posted by: kafa

Brilliant post, Swasthi and Shilpa. This time Ahem digs his own grave, and as you said he have had everything easy, being pampered by Koki, and others. But I think that somewhere along the line, the fact that Gopi is pregnant, has been mentioned time and time again by at least one member of the family and how Gopi will not be able to give him time. So, the angry young man thought he has the right to voice whatever he is thinking and looks, where that has lead him to. Alone, without Mom and wife.

Originally posted by: Xarina

Brilliant post Swasthi. Ahem's saturation levels had reached an all time high. With the cocoon Gopi in cotton wool attitude, the constant talk of the changes he will have to accept when becoming a parent, the child from hell with a behaviour problem, the parent not capable to discipline said brat and his tendency to fly off the handle without thinking. I don't really blame him. Have not seen the epi today but can imagine how he felt when he realised what he had said out loud.

Originally posted by: 5cents

Swasthi awesome analysis!! Both Koki & Ahem were superb in the sc.
It was about time that Koki gave this bitter & harsh pill to her darlingh son. Somebody had to show him the harsh result of his harsh judgmental thinking. Thx to Koki's upbringing that Ahem has become SELFISH!! He has no patience and thinks only about himself first and is very short tempered and gets short circuit very fast. ...with this jhatka Koki will fix all his volts & amps.

Many were upset that Ahem did not apologize to Gopi properly and had everything served on the platter...Chalo Lets Party now coz we know the future😉
AHHH this is exactly what happens when you didn't want to visit and confront the past: the past starts visiting and confronting you lolz Ahem ji

Originally posted by: Parvathy_sns

Fantastic analysis swasthi...

Originally posted by: angelirebelli

Fab post as usual Swasthi and brilliant points by everyone else..

I cant help but feel for Ahem at this juncture, what he did was not acceptable. He has never had a chance to even talk to his wife without being disturbed.

This definitely isnt stemming out from his feelings for Gopi and he doesn't mean it.. but its about people constantly reminding him of his changing equation with Gopi, his responsibilities and the distance ppl are creating between them just by mentioning and talking about his impending fatherhood. His time for joy, laughter and togetherness is being laden with unwanted thoughts of separation.

The unborn child in this case is being shown not as a unifier but as a divider. Ahem may not be scared of sharing Gopi and her love with the child but its this constant talk which is nagging him. He, wont be wrong in seeking some timeout with Gopi to strengthen their bond and prepare for parenthood.

Kokila should have given him a chance to explain but then even she has had enough and the unfeeling way he mentioned that wasnt looking forward to fatherhood was probably a reminder to her of his past actions with respect to the vows and separation et al.

P.S - in the midst of too many things that I don't even know if I made any sense.. 😳