What's up with Ahem??

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ruchisahay

@ruchisahay

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Posted: 13 years ago

I understand he is resentful and frustrated, angry and confused but that does not explain his behavior with Gopi.

I thought he was past treating Gopi as a punching bag - at least that is what Gopi's prolonged silent treatment in Anita's track was supposed to achieve. But no, he's back to his yelling mode when she's awake and staring at her lovingly and longingly when she's asleep.

Seriously, he needs lessons in communication and anger management.

He hurt Gopi when he hated her, hurt her when he liked her (Holi / Valentine's day) and continues to hurt her when he's in love with her. Poor Gopi - can't he see that she's distressed. She would need lots of therapy if continues this way.

The way he brushed her aside when he was angry with baa and his mom for waking him up shows how insensitive he is. Gopi wanting to speak to him is not an everyday matter (that in itself is weird 😊) and her fear and awkwardness was visible - he could have at least listened to her. I too am curious about what Gopi wanted to ask.

About Raji, the less said the better. Their closeness irritates me (esp Rashi's expressions as if she is suffering Jigar for some noble cause of 'baby making') and I don't even see humour in failed attempts. Poor Jigar - I want another nicer girl for him but in SNS world that won't happen.

What do good guys finish last in SNS?

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Rachna

@Chaccha

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think that Ahem is just feeling insecure over the baby. Everyone's yapping about the Little Modi even before he/she is here, not to mention that he already had issues with not spending time with Gopi (and her morning/afternoon sickness was no help). I don't excuse his behavior with Gopi. Today, he should've stopped to listen to her, but he didn't of course. Also, I think that he's more comfortable showing his love to Gopi when she's not aware of it, which is explained by the way smitten way he looks at her when she's sleeping.

As for Raji, it was Jigar's third try just this week alone to consummate their marriage. I think that it will happen soon. 😆 It has to, otherwise it's time for all of us to worry.

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megustajalebi

@megustajalebi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ruchisahay
I understand he is resentful and frustrated, angry and confused but that does not explain his behavior with Gopi.

I thought he was past treating Gopi as a punching bag - at least that is what Gopi's prolonged silent treatment in Anita's track was supposed to achieve. But no, he's back to his yelling mode when she's awake and staring at her lovingly and longingly when she's asleep.

Seriously, he needs lessons in communication and anger management.

He hurt Gopi when he hated her, hurt her when he liked her (Holi / Valentine's day) and continues to hurt her when he's in love with her. Poor Gopi - can't he see that she's distressed. She would need lots of therapy if continues this way.

The way he brushed her aside when he was angry with baa and his mom for waking him up shows how insensitive he is. Gopi wanting to speak to him is not an everyday matter (that in itself is weird 😊) and her fear and awkwardness was visible - he could have at least listened to her. I too am curious about what Gopi wanted to ask.

About Raji, the less said the better. Their closeness irritates me (esp Rashi's expressions as if she is suffering Jigar for some noble cause of 'baby making') and I don't even see humour in failed attempts. Poor Jigar - I want another nicer girl for him but in SNS world that won't happen.

What do good guys finish last in SNS?

I agree that Ahem needs lessons in communication, anger management, and how to deal with a pregnancy (good job Baa for giving him a CD).

He's going through an extremely insecure phase right now. He may not even realize how much he's affecting Gopi because he's so confused about his own place in Gopi's priorities. And since Gopi is the only person in the family that he can take his frustrations out on, she suffers. I personally didn't like how he went off on his "I hate kids" speech to Gopi ,especially the part about "I don't understand why people give birth to kids".

As for RaJi... sigh.

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ANJ4

@ANJ4

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Posted: 13 years ago

There is a say ... YOU HURT THE ONES YOU LOVE. Ahem fits the description.🤣

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Nandita / Tina

@5cents

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ruchi, resentful, confused , frustrated and angry Ahem am I surprised?? Lolz , Nope not at all 😳

Ahem Modi is a arrogant, selfish yet sympathetic and believable character. He seems very human as he flounders about, making mistakes. 😳

WELL, Kokila has raised Ahem in a princely manner 😈 We learn to be selfish by the way we are raised, and what made an impact in our life while growing up. So we all know he was the prince of MM, apple of everyone's eye. Ahem has been raised with preferential treatment 😉 that's why such dysfunctional thoughts 😛
But Being with Gopi he has turned a new leaf but still needs some more work. He is still rough around the edges and this makes him unique & special😳.

Now that he was venting his frustration and anger on Gopi was more his helplessness at Gopi's throw-ups lol ..HaI MAI kYA kAROON? How do I ease her pain. How can I help her. His frustration was at his helplessness and yes, he is scared of fatherhood too.

But this track will make him grow out of his negative attitude and make him realize that how selfish he was with Gopi. He'll learn better communication skills

it is impossible to hate Ahem Modi as he has the potential to achieve greatness as best hubby in MM. He'll become a very good & dependable dad, he just needs some anger management lessons.😉

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mona05

@mona05

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Posted: 13 years ago

I ma really not surprised at his behaviourr...this is who he is...he is elfish...right now all he can think aboutishis needs...hewants his wife...not getting her...so angry...his love is selfish..gopi's is selfles...this track will teach him how to love someone and think of their needs first...loving it all the way..goi will cry...what to do..she is an inseparable part of ahemji...