Thanks Guys ...

This house has turned from being a happy home to one that is full of discord. I am at the stage where I don't care who started it. Pro Dev or Pro Gia. But it has got to stop. Sort it out among you. I understand that Nafisa has organised an offline fb campaign so why are people still coming on here and venting against other members? As a people we have got to rise above the petty and snide comments and do what is right for us, whichever side we are on. We have not always agreed on issues in the past but we have never achieved this level of mud slinging. I cannot believe that friendships have turned into fiendships just because of a serial. So sad.

I want the fun forum back please.

We are all unhappy with the changes but we do have to start putting things back to normal.

It takes a while for everyone to adopt somlets call it a truce please.

Peace is desirable...but how long can one exercise restraint while being targeted. Can't shake hands when the other party holds forth a clenched fist

People definitely need to keep calm and carry on.

We're on the SNS forum so let's stick to that.
From both sides it would be nice if they could refrain from writing personal messages/taunts to other members because that definitely is instigating people.
The insults have gotten really personal with the language being used utterly ridiculous.
Let's remember the old adage, if you can't think of anything nice to say then don't say anything at all!!

I work in primary schools and we often tell our children that you can't like everybody and no one expects you to however you can't call people names because you disagree with them. No one can tell you off for what you feel and think it's when you say it and bring it out into the real world that's when fighting starts.

Pro Giaa's created a closed fb page, because we want to chat about our campaign without Shaun and Vidishaa and others coming in to belittle our ideas by making a snide remark Xarina.

Awh...Wonderful defense...poor souls are aggrieved so much that they have opened threads in our names and use bad language...good justification for all the venom spat out...fully understandable...We weren't punished by the mods so you guys are perfectly justified in giving your version of "justice"

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

Pro Giaa's created a closed fb page, because we want to chat about our campaign without Shaun and Vidishaa and others coming in to belittle our ideas by making a snide remark Xarina.

The answer why Pro Giaa's are coming on and still coming to bash Shaun and Vidisha now is because they feel aggrieved as they didn't get Shaun and Vidishaa punished by the Mod's, you know when you are made a mockery of, you want your pound of flesh as revenge to tell those people where to get off.

But Xarina, you have got to take that in and accept that everyone on our side is upset with Shaun and Vidishaa and the rest of you. It will take time to heal those wounds.

We did have a truce this morning, no more interference of each group in the others affairs.

But this forum is a public forum so both Pro Giaa's and Pro Dev's are welcome to come here, so please Xarina don't tell Pro Giaa's not to come here, because this is exactly what upset our group in the first place. Telling us what to feel, get over it, stop feeling the way you are doing. You can't tell people how to live their lives. So please don't feel aggrieved for Shaun and Vidishaa because they were bad, and Shaun has put his hands up in several posts, at least two I've noticed his referred to speaking to queenyuks.

So in the interes of the truce to carry on Xarina try and ignore what happened.

It is not a case of feeling aggrieved for Shaun or Vidisha. I am seeing what was once a friendly forum turn into a mire. Some of us who were non committal were are dragged in the fray when all we want is a place to come to relax. It is good that you are standing up for what you and the pro Gia fans believe in Nafisa. I have no wish to stop you in that, even I signed the online petition and emailed various individuals at SP. I wish you the very best with your campaign. But once we have vented our frustrations can we please move on. No more name calling or bashing from either side. The truce was brokered this morning. Can we have an end to hostilities by the end of today?

Originally posted by: Xarina

This house has turned from being a happy home to one that is full of discord. I am at the stage where I don't care who started it. Pro Dev or Pro Gia. But it has got to stop. Sort it out among you. I understand that Nafisa has organised an offline fb campaign so why are people still coming on here and venting against other members? As a people we have got to rise above the petty and snide comments and do what is right for us, whichever side we are on. We have not always agreed on issues in the past but we have never achieved this level of mud slinging. I cannot believe that friendships have turned into fiendships just because of a serial. So sad.

Now I am off to lunch so see you guys when I get back.