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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think ostrich should have realized by now that what she has for aham is not love. the moment she saw the fire she froze. she can never give the selfless love of gopi. to sacrifice herself to save aham. she should realize that gopi is the best for aham and buzz off. any normal human should do that. i worried if ostrich is normal

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Posted: 13 years ago
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yup Ostrich shud get lost. . chop her own head off . . .

but no. . .I have a feeling she is gonna stoop lower. .. but this time she may do it in front of all ,. . .a possible surprise attack on Gopi. ..

if AHem stants in the way. . she might go 1000000% psycho and try to harm AHem saynig that if he cant be hers then cant be anyone else.s. LOL. . .SNS is different and this is a cliche.. but we all know Anita mentality is cliche. . .she belieevs in fairy tales and made for each other stories and thinks that even she has a story like that. . . she is in la la la land that never existed. . . that unknowingly over concerned AHem gave fire to . . .and psycho went even more mad. . .

i cant wait to se the complete kick out of Anita. . . cant stand her now. . maximum this can go on is 2 weeks if CVs drag. . . but if Koki and Rashi join all pieces 2gether. . Anita will be busted. .. So this might as well be the last week for Anita. . .I hope. .
shruthi2010 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinder90

yup Ostrich shud get lost. . chop her own head off . . .

but no. . .I have a feeling she is gonna stoop lower. .. but this time she may do it in front of all ,. . .a possible surprise attack on Gopi. ..

if AHem stants in the way. . she might go 1000000% psycho and try to harm AHem saynig that if he cant be hers then cant be anyone else.s. LOL. . .SNS is different and this is a cliche.. but we all know Anita mentality is cliche. . .she belieevs in fairy tales and made for each other stories and thinks that even she has a story like that. . . she is in la la la land that never existed. . . that unknowingly over concerned AHem gave fire to . . .and psycho went even more mad. . .

i cant wait to se the complete kick out of Anita. . . cant stand her now. . maximum this can go on is 2 weeks if CVs drag. . . but if Koki and Rashi join all pieces 2gether. . Anita will be busted. .. So this might as well be the last week for Anita. . .I hope. .


i think i saw "i can never do this for aham" look in her face yesterday. now with sherklock koki on the prowl she is a goner. koki can bear anything but not a scratch on her dikra and anita had sent him to inferno
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If the woman were normal she wud realize but there's no hope for this witch. No greater love has a woman that she laid down her life for husband . Does anybody more proof of gopis great love ,Ahem should be
Humbled that he is the recepient of that great love. Gopi was a lioness yesterday she neva allowed anybody to stop her to get to her love .ostrich must have been afraid her plastic face will melt in the fire .she doesn't know wot a roasting she's in for once koki puts the pieces together.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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for that we have to send some 1kg of sense and brand new brain to her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She just stood there, all that fighting for this man and she would have let him die so easily, talk is cheap, all that bragging about how much she loves Aham and she can't lift a finger to help him when he is laying there staring at the jaws of death, that she created, no remorse for what she has done nothing.

She was in shock, but snap out of it madam, where was the self sacrifice for the man she loves, how can she now say that her love for Aham is stronger then Gopi's love for him? She can't possibly say that now.

Gopi was a real heroine yesterday, reacted quickly and went to the take the blanket and as she was running to come down stairs the Saathiya title song in slow motion and the whole time she got in the kitchen, the blanked was alight put out that fire then put out the fire on Aham's back, pulled the gas pipe from the gas bottle, took a glass of water and splashed on Aham and woke him up and they came out of the fire that whole sequence of events was so beautiful. Her presence of mind when Hetal, Rashi, Kokila were freaking out, only when Gopi came downstairs did Hetal react to call the fire brigade. But Gopi was as calm as always, and took charge of going in there risking her own life for the one she loves.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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she shuld by know tht gopi is perfect 4 ahem n now she shuld tke a leave bt this stupid girl is no way gna understand this she nearly killed gohem she is jealous of gopi bt she wnt understand tht gohem are made for each other... i will kick her out...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Im sorry guys but I have to say this. I used to be such a big GoHem fan two months ago but with the introduction of this track my every bit of love for them has disappeared and the reason is Anita - and the cvs. Kokila had split Ahem and Anita for her own selfish reasons in the beginning. When Anita tried to move on in life Ahem became a hurdle (even unknowingly) again. I cant imagine the pain she must have gone through. I feel life has been extremely unfair to Anita - GoHem relationship has been built on her pain. What she is doing now is despicable but somewhat a desperate cry for help - there comes a time when mentally a person snaps - and now the cvs have turned her into a vamp and makes everyone abuse her and question whether she ever loved Ahem. Why???

Nor can I side with her nor can I bear her tears. Until she is settled in life I'm sorry but I cannot see GoHem together either and this surprises me so much. Kokila cannot get away with ruining someone's life and then poving Anita inferior in cooking and singing contests. Is this why she split Ahem and Anita in the first place? Until Anita's life does not settle I will not watch GoHem happily either. Ahem and Kokila are responsible for ruining Anita's life. They cannot just get away with it. They need to make up for their mistakes also. Anita is vehemently wrong nobody is denying that. But that does not make up for Ahem and Kokila's deeds either.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Im sorry guys but I have to say this. I used to be such a big GoHem fan two months ago but with the introduction of this track my every bit of love for them has disappeared and the reason is Anita - and the cvs. Kokila had split Ahem and Anita for her own selfish reasons in the beginning. When Anita tried to move on in life Ahem became a hurdle (even unknowingly) again. I cant imagine the pain she must have gone through. I feel life has been extremely unfair to Anita - GoHem relationship has been built on her pain. What she is doing now is despicable but somewhat a desperate cry for help - there comes a time when mentally a person snaps - and now the cvs have turned her into a vamp and makes everyone abuse her and question whether she ever loved Ahem. Why???

Nor can I side with her nor can I bear her tears. Until she is settled in life I'm sorry but I cannot see GoHem together either and this surprises me so much. Kokila cannot get away with ruining someone's life and then poving Anita inferior in cooking and singing contests. Is this why she split Ahem and Anita in the first place? Until Anita's life does not settle I will not watch GoHem happily either. Ahem and Kokila are responsible for ruining Anita's life. They cannot just get away with it. They need to make up for their mistakes also. Anita is vehemently wrong nobody is denying that. But that does not make up for Ahem and Kokila's deeds either.


I was with you until half way through your post...I know you are unhappy with the track, and it's been annoying to me too, but Anita has snapped I agree but I also side with Kokila, she knew what would bring happiness for her home, what girl would match for her home, Anita is not that girl...look at Anita's realisation when she sees Rashi being instructed to make the pickle yesterday, she understood that this is how the Modi's organise themselves meaning Kokila instructs the bahus and they obey without answering back or being cheeky (Rashi rebels and you see where it gets her).

Anita would not have managed to live in that way, she's too western in her thinking, possibly her parents died too early in her life and she has not taken orders from an elder but she has a problem with authority, I've noticed it several times, she does not like to take advice from anyone, independence that is what she has, and to be a Modi bahu you cannot be that way. So Kokila I agree with you is bringing that home to Anita, so that she should understand, that the Modi's are traditional and Kokila is the law in the house, and also Kokila doesn't like all this Aunty calling, the Modi's like they Gujurati rituals and foods as well, the sarees that they way. Anita is struggling to adapt to this now and she would never have done so.

Kokila told her yesterday move on with your life, meaning choose a husband and get married, that Arvind guy or another choice. So no-one is stopping her from finding a like minded guy and moving forward with her life, so lets not feel too sorry for her. Initially I did so also but I noticed something in her on her wedding day though she was marrying Nilesh she had a moment during the wedding before they went in the cloakroom where she were breathing hard on having a glance from Aham. Just one glance from Aham made her hot and bothered, so she herself is the one not moving her affections from Aham, after all this time and never seeing him, still pining for him and that too on her wedding day...bothersome baggage she is. Sorry for the tirade, it's just Anita has had opportunities in her life to find a husband but is refusing to be happy just wants to be wound up and unhappy and cause everyone unhappiness also.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms


I was with you until half way through your post...I know you are unhappy with the track, and it's been annoying to me too, but Anita has snapped I agree but I also side with Kokila, she knew what would bring happiness for her home, what girl would match for her home, Anita is not that girl...look at Anita's realisation when she sees Rashi being instructed to make the pickle yesterday, she understood that this is how the Modi's organise themselves meaning Kokila instructs the bahus and they obey without answering back or being cheeky (Rashi rebels and you see where it gets her).

Anita would not have managed to live in that way, she's too western in her thinking, possibly her parents died too early in her life and she has not taken orders from an elder but she has a problem with authority, I've noticed it several times, she does not like to take advice from anyone, independence that is what she has, and to be a Modi bahu you cannot be that way. So Kokila I agree with you is bringing that home to Anita, so that she should understand, that the Modi's are traditional and Kokila is the law in the house, and also Kokila doesn't like all this Aunty calling, the Modi's like they Gujurati rituals and foods as well, the sarees that they way. Anita is struggling to adapt to this now and she would never have done so.

Kokila told her yesterday move on with your life, meaning choose a husband and get married, that Arvind guy or another choice. So no-one is stopping her from finding a like minded guy and moving forward with her life, so lets not feel too sorry for her. Initially I did so also but I noticed something in her on her wedding day though she was marrying Nilesh she had a moment during the wedding before they went in the cloakroom where she were breathing hard on having a glance from Aham. Just one glance from Aham made her hot and bothered, so she herself is the one not moving her affections from Aham, after all this time and never seeing him, still pining for him and that too on her wedding day...bothersome baggage she is. Sorry for the tirade, it's just Anita has had opportunities in her life to find a husband but is refusing to be happy just wants to be wound up and unhappy and cause everyone unhappiness also.



But my problem is that at that time Koki never had any honest intentions choosing Gopi as her bahu. I still remember her saying she wanted a girl who would be her bahu first and Ahem's wife later. She put her son's happiness on the line she didn't care for his feelings and in the process she ruined Anita's life also. Koki thinks being a good bahu you have to be able to cook well and sing well. I mean wth? Is that all a woman is about? As to Anita seeing Ahem on her wedding day well I think even I would be reacting in an odd nostalgic way seeing my ex at my wedding but she was more than happy to marry that other loser Nilesh and she even believed that she had married him for sometime. Maybe the fact that she had been dumped by two men and that she had no one else left in the world became her breaking point.

Not everyone is strong from inside like Gopi is and such incidents can leave you severely out of confidence with low self esteem and to try deny that to yourself you pump up your ego thinking it will protect you from the hurt and you start to grow resentful. I mean I just feel bad for her - her turning this way I don't know its an adverse reaction to pain and humiliation and its really not the real Anita.

As for your last sentence about opportunity to find another husband well the first two men she loved left her so both turned out to be jerks. Its very hard to trust a man with your life after that or even love again ok once failed you can give it another go and she did but twice hurt...then its very difficult. Koki may say it and think a girl whose been hurt so many times can just do it easily but it really doesn't happen that way😭

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