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Ahem's mind was disturbed thinking about Gopi since he began returning home after work. He missed her all evening. He missed her care for him, he missed her giving him his tea, he missed her smile, he missed her having his things ready for him, he missed seeing her before he could sleep. His heart yearned for her making him grow more and more frustrated for not being able to spend time with her and to apologise to her.

In the car while at the traffic lights he attempted to call her. She was thinking of doing the same thing too. He was welcomed by Meethi who said she will give his tea to him, after hearing that Gopi was busy at work with Rashi.

He thought he heard her call out his name as he walked up to the room and stopped for a moment and looked around. When he got into the room he called for Gopi hoping to hear her tinkling payals approaching their room. He could not understand why she was not there to see him. His frustration was growing as he threw his jacket on the couch.

What got to him more was that when he eventually got to see her, she was already sleeping and did not even respond to him calling her. His frustration picked up tenfold and was demonstrated in the way he threw the towel and walked to the side light to switch it off.

Finally when was caught in a tight situation with being asked to entertain Anita, whom had woken him up, Gopi came to his rescue and relieved him. His comfort level increased knowing that Gopi had spoken on his behalf. Without further ado he swiftly wished Anita goodnight, told Gopi an incomplete sentence which she understood and walked away. This action of Ahem sent a clear message to Gopi that he was sorry for what he had done to her.

Gopi's silence is having the better of Ahem. When Gopi came to Ahem's rescue there were two things that stood out: one, an unspoken sense of understanding and interconnectedness for each other as husband and wife, and two, him beginning to earn Gopi's respect and dignity, like Rashi had told Gopi in the morning before breakfast.

How long will her silence continue to haunt his mood?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Another wonderful analysis Swasthi. It describes what Ahem is feeling so beautifully.
The words spoken in anger is hauntinh him.
Ahem I think is slowly coming to realize that his anger is his worst enemy when it comes to his wife.
His frustration is mounting, but his angry more at himself than Gopi, because he knows if it wasn't for his anger Gopi would be there to open the door with a smile, she would readily come to room with his green tea, she would have his clothes for the night laid out for him. She would also come to room earlier than she has been and she would not go to sleep until he was already asleep.
He misses seeing her first thing in the morning and saying goodnight to her last thing at night. His day does not go well without her doing things for him.
He was relieved and proud when she came to his rescue even though he knows she is hurt by what he said, this showed him today that Gopi cares for him more than she is showing at the moment.
I think when he reaches the point of eruption he won't get angry at her but will corner her and explain and apologize again.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post i am loving ahem like this now he wants to spend time with gopi and she is avoiding him
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice analysis swasthi!!! but I think his this frustration will create more problems for Gopi!!!!
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yup another super awesome post , , , feel gud after taht read.. 👏

I still think Rashi does not have to keep doing this too long. . but I think Rashi might be enforcing this Gopi silent treatment to get a reaction out of Ahem . . but as Aish said in her other post. . i really too hope that its not the wrong explosion at the absolute wront time ,, and exactyl the wrong person. .

coz Koki is trying to prove to Anita GOpi is best for Ahem and i realyl dont ilke that bit but oh well more proving GOpi having to do for a low life called Anita to get the poitn,., which she wont of course. . waste of a few more episodes. . . Koki adamnat Gopi is best. .. Rashi enforcing Gopi silent treatment, if AHem explosion is mis aligned al plans koshi fall face flat on ground. . .

and after all this i feel Gopi will tell eevryone thet they dont need ever to interfere in her marreid life. . she will handle it her own way

I realyl want Gopi to tell of everyone interfering in GOhem as soon as possible. . Gopi , , pliz do that and make me proud LOL. . the Koki can go back to make Parag happy,, and Rashi can conentrate on her Kk hidings . . and Gopi can deal with Antia single handedly now she gets the pont already . . leave her to it. . or if koshi still want to be part of the drama. . .make 20 promos advertising "Ab Ahem ko yogya pati saabit karne keliye koki ne mangi Rashi ki madat LOL "
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Great post Swasthi. I like your phrase/question how long will here silence continue to haunt him. Haunt him it will. Love the way Gopi is dealing with him.
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brilliant swasthi today was avery good episode especially when it came to aham missing his come thnks for the analysis
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great analysis Swasthi 😛
Gopi stood her ground (well, she had no choice because of Rashi 😆) and Ahem has started to get the message about Gopi's pain. He looked even more frustrated when he saw Gopi sleep on the far side of the bed but had no choice but to put up with it 😉. Let's see how long Ahem can go until he finally snaps 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Superb Analysis.. +Superb Episode!!!!!!!!!!

loved it
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

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Another wonderful analysis Swasthi. It describes what Ahem is feeling so beautifully.
The words spoken in anger is hauntinh him.
Ahem I think is slowly coming to realize that his anger is his worst enemy when it comes to his wife.
His frustration is mounting, but his angry more at himself than Gopi, because he knows if it wasn't for his anger Gopi would be there to open the door with a smile, she would readily come to room with his green tea, she would have his clothes for the night laid out for him. She would also come to room earlier than she has been and she would not go to sleep until he was already asleep.
He misses seeing her first thing in the morning and saying goodnight to her last thing at night. His day does not go well without her doing things for him.
He was relieved and proud when she came to his rescue even though he knows she is hurt by what he said, this showed him today that Gopi cares for him more than she is showing at the moment.
I think when he reaches the point of eruption he won't get angry at her but will corner her and explain and apologize again.


Much appreciated Shilpa.

Well said by you too.

His anger is playing a lead role which is making him miss out on the things that make his world a better place.

The more desperate he becomes, the more calmer he will need to be in order to appreciate the finest thing in his life.

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