Ahem and love: having regrets

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Posted: 13 years ago
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It was a short Gohem scene.

Ahem looked on at Gopi lying in the bed and had flashbacks the nasty words he told Gopi in anger. He shook his head in regret. He could not understand why he vented his anger at her and bring her to this state.

He approached the bed and called her name but found her eyes closed. It was his intention was to apologise to her. Perhaps to also tell her that he was looking forward to having her meet his friends. Perhaps to also say that things with Anita being at home is making things worse for him. Perhaps to also tell her what was causing him to become so frustrated and explain himself further. It could be anything but for sure he could not let the day go by without wanting to tell her he was sorry.

He stood there thinking, resisted waking her up then prepared himself to sleep on his sofa. He gave a final look at Gopi but she still had her back on him.

Seldom does Gopi sleep before Ahem. Just like the days when Gopi would stand there staring at Ahem sleeping so too did Ahem stood there looking on at her in anticipation.

This regret sitting in Ahem is not only the words he told Gopi in anger but at the back of his mind it is the conversation he had with Anita. It is this that will wedge into his regret as his revelation dawns on him. This will deepen his regret further.

Whilst he has told Gopi that he cannot wait to carry on with life the way it was, he took the liberty to compare her to Anita. Further this revelation with Anita will get him to see how wrong he was in his words. He will learn that the more he engages with Anita the more his torment will grow. It is in this that he will realise that Gopi was not wrong for him after all instead it was Anita.

How long will he keep this up for?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful analysis Swasthi.

Today's short scene told us lot about Ahem's state of mind. He regretted his actions of his behavior instantly and would have gone to look for her and cleared things, but it was not meant to be. He will regret those words he uttered to her more and more as he will constantly be seen in Anita's company.

He will hurt for her every time she sees him with Anita, because he gave her a reason to distrust her after telling her he was tired of these games and he wanted their life to go back to the way it was.

He also hasn't realized that his words he uttered to her was not the only thing that was causing her pain, but also the words he uttered to Anita to calm her.

As he is causing her to mistrust more, Gopi is believing that he only carried out his duty as good son.

But Ahem will not let things continue in this manner and will eventually start taking steps to distance himself from Anita and take steps towards Gopi. The more Anita continues with her emotional drama the more Ahem will become disgusted with it.

Also now the guilt has changed hands, sure he still feels bad for Anita, and she has a second chance to mend things, which she ruins it with her own hands. But now Ahem will feel guilt for hurting Gopi more than he will feel bad for Anita.

He sees that Gopi is suffering silently and he will not be able to take her silence.

We still have few more bumps to get through but next week we will see Ahem distancing himself from Anita and at the same time Gopi will decide to take her own stand. They will both be standing side by side unintentionally.
Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nyc analysis. Hop dis emotional turmoil wil led him to a much resolved state.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great analysis as usual Swasthi. Ahem knows that Gopi is hurt very much and wants to apologize to her thus making their relationship as it was before the party incident. Little does he know that Gopi is hurt more by his conversation with Anita than his shouting at her for the party incident and a small apology can't heal that hurt from her heart.
Edited by _Precious_ - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent analysis Swasthi ⭐️ 😃
It was a short scene but it spoke volumes. Ahem realised what he said to Gopi in his anger and how much that outburst hurt her. He cannot bare to see is wife in so much pain and had the courage to apologise to her, but alas, his Gopi pretended to sleep and this pained him even more to see the extent of his words taking a toil on her!
It will be interesting to see how Ahem now tries to talk to Gopi and explain to her, pacify her.. But with Anita turning up at every corner, will Ahem ever get a chance...
Edited by -neela- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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YES,Ahem clearly did have regrets!He came out if the bathroom,after remwmbering what he said,came to apologise. He fully well knew he was wrong and he was guilty. So he then decided to apologise.But from what ot looked like,I may be wrong but it seemed to me as he just wanted to come and say, oh Gopi i'm sorry and call it a night. What is Ahem's problem is that he can never express his self properly. He expects that by just a sorry everything will be back to normal. Looking at this situation,how Gopi reacted was uncalled for i.e. worrying ablut others and not enjoying,but still Ahen did acompariason with hus wife and ex. I HOPE GOpi continues ts cold treatment a little more for Ahem's relisation.
Good analysis overall!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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fab Analysis again swasthi 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Res.

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Wonderful analysis Swasthi.

Today's short scene told us lot about Ahem's state of mind. He regretted his actions of his behavior instantly and would have gone to look for her and cleared things, but it was not meant to be. He will regret those words he uttered to her more and more as he will constantly be seen in Anita's company.

He will hurt for her every time she sees him with Anita, because he gave her a reason to distrust her after telling her he was tired of these games and he wanted their life to go back to the way it was.

He also hasn't realized that his words he uttered to her was not the only thing that was causing her pain, but also the words he uttered to Anita to calm her.

As he is causing her to mistrust more, Gopi is believing that he only carried out his duty as good son.

But Ahem will not let things continue in this manner and will eventually start taking steps to distance himself from Anita and take steps towards Gopi. The more Anita continues with her emotional drama the more Ahem will become disgusted with it.

Also now the guilt has changed hands, sure he still feels bad for Anita, and she has a second chance to mend things, which she ruins it with her own hands. But now Ahem will feel guilt for hurting Gopi more than he will feel bad for Anita.

He sees that Gopi is suffering silently and he will not be able to take her silence.

We still have few more bumps to get through but next week we will see Ahem distancing himself from Anita and at the same time Gopi will decide to take her own stand. They will both be standing side by side unintentionally.


You are welcome Shilpa.

Great complementary comments made.

Yes, his guilt will eventually shift but not just yet. Through the coming scenes, yes, he will notice her distancing away from him.

There are lots to look forward to as the plot thickens.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SeemaThomas

Nyc analysis. Hop dis emotional turmoil wil led him to a much resolved state.


Thanks Seema.

Same here too, the sooner it occurs the better it will be for all and sundry.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Precious_

Great analysis as usual Swasthi. Ahem knows that Gopi is hurt very much and wants to apologize to her thus making their relationship as it was before the party incident. Little does he know that Gopi is hurt more by his conversation with Anita than his shouting at her for the party incident and a small apology can't heal that hurt from her heart.


My pleasure.

Eventually when things worsen he will find himself climbing a mountain as he will be contributing to this misunderstanding unknowingly.

No doubt as the high drama unfolds it will be very interesting to watch.

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