I dont know why but dont like Aham anymore

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

She did not melt easily Bhavya.. If you mean melt by throwing herself in his arms, she still does not do it. She is still hesitant towards him, she still does not laugh in his presence, she is still partly that scared girl she was before..

As much as he was rude to her, he was good to her the same amount of time.. 9 months to be exact (We calculated😆) ...That is a looong time..Ahem may have been rude but he had his reasons then. That does not excuse him but he did make up for it.

Gopi could not have got a more patient man to help her at the time of her accident. He may be an introvert, slow with words but he was there holding her hand, suffering for her, with her.. I can still not forget his explanation to her to get her to take the injection. Not everyone has that type of understanding and patience.. Even Hetal who is praised for being sensitive did not know to soothe the scared child in Gopi...

But Ahem did. He not only comforted her but held her hand throughout telling her that he was there..

I think Gopi's love changed him.. He was a good man even before. But her love made him melt and he found himself and his love. Just my PoV.. You can hate him all you want though😉

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

Bhavya that is what we are all watching...Ahem's journey from hatred of Gopi to finally falling in love with her. He is going to repent and remember that when you hate Ahem for the above mentioned deeds, he was upset because he never let Gopi have any kind of false hope. He always made it clear that he would never love her...because that is the way he felt back then.

It was all Rashi's doing. Gopi listened to Rashi like she spoke the word of God and Rashi prompted her to decorate the room. And our poor gawar Gopi did as she was told, because she thought that it would make Ahem happy. Its is very easy to hate someone who was this rude and obnoxious, but to understand him is to love him again...

Again remember he had every opportunity to take advantage of sweet innocent Gopi and he never did...He was married to her and he could have easily used it to his advantage and he remained a gentleman. Try and keep the good things in mind and forget the past. We all have to move forward...

The reason it is easier to forgive him and not that other bahu, is because Ahem never lied and never have false hopes, where as the other bahu always gave Gopi false hopes regarding her husband and when Gopi got yelled at, The other bahu would stand there smirking at the pain inflicted to Gopi...that is one sick B**ch there 😡

Bhavya, give our Ahem dikra a chance. He will prove to be a better husband and lover to our sweet Gopi. He has already started and it is only going to go up 😃

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

@Bold... Beautiful Rupal..

To understand him is to love him again.. Very true. His honesty even when he was dashing her hopes makes him a true man.. I am glad he did that then because although it was tough to see Gopi's tears, he did not let her dreams by accepting her gestures.. He disliked her and he made it known. Poor Gopi took a long time to learn that she should listen to only Ahem and herself or her Maaji for the betterment of her relationship..

Hypothetically if only Gopi was in MB, Ahem would have been in this stage maybe a year back. It took him a year to see past the KKs..

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

And that is another thing to bear in mind...the kalakaries are majority of the reason for the hatred that Ahem had towards Gopi...The only real reason for Ahem to hate Gopi would have been her education and everything else he would have overcome...but again the kalakaries were always in full bloom and our dear Gopi fell for her sisters wrong advice like a fish to a bait 😡