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suk19

@suk19

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Posted: 13 years ago

chatting to his ex as if there was no tomorrow, come on is this not breaking gopi's heart. as much as these convos are in front of gopi isnt she hurt by this. how much heart ache is this girl going to take n when will she explode plse let her have a tantrum that will leave aham n kokila running for their lives

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Suk.. Atleast this way Gopi is seeing how Ahem feels uncomfortable talking to Anitha.. If he did it in secret, that is more shattering when she comes to know of it.. It is hard, I do accept. But she understands the dire circumstances.. She has the strength..

I think it will be Koki who will go ballistic when she comes to know the truth😛

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Tahira

@tamzin43

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Posted: 13 years ago

i would break his banana if i found he was talking to his ex🤬

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varshu27

@varshu27

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tamzin43
i would break his banana if i found he was talking to his ex🤬

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752993

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tamzin43
i would break his banana if i found he was talking to his ex🤬

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752993

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1
Suk.. Atleast this way Gopi is seeing how Ahem feels uncomfortable talking to Anitha.. If he did it in secret, that is more shattering when she comes to know of it.. It is hard, I do accept. But she understands the dire circumstances.. She has the strength..
I think it will be Koki who will go ballistic when she comes to know the truth😛

I like how you think, Harini!
Totally agree with bold part.
I am glad that Gopi is a part of her husband's plan.

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aris22l

@aris22l

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: suk19
chatting to his ex as if there was no tomorrow, come on is this not breaking gopi's heart. as much as these convos are in front of gopi isnt she hurt by this. how much heart ache is this girl going to take n when will she explode plse let her have a tantrum that will leave aham n kokila running for their lives

Suk, Good post👏. Agree with you completely. Our Ahemji is contradictory and sometimes insensitive to Gopi's feelings. While there are times, he understands her completely and can read her eyes and can reassure her as he did today when she entered the room with water, but other times, he is completely clueless😕.

To give him his due, to us, it may look like Gopi's heart is breaking, but he may put her tense face down to her just being worried and nothing else. In his mind what he is doing is right and he has no impure intentions in his heart. So in his eyes, why would she be hurt by what they (notice my stress on they, not he) are doing😲. They are in this together and she is willingly helping him. He is not cheating on her. For a man like him, there should be no question about his intentions in Gopi's mind and she should trust him😕. He is worried about not being upfront with his mother and so is Gopi he thinks. Also remember, Gopi's anguish is amplified because she knows who Anita is and she still isn't sure about Ahemji's feelings for her🤢. Ahemji is in complete ignorance about both these facts.

My heart also aches for Gopi. As you said, a normal wife would shatter by now. Would love to see Gopi throwing tantrums, but that won't happen in SNS. Gopi suffers quietly😭.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: CestMoi

I like how you think, Harini!
Totally agree with bold part.
I am glad that Gopi is a part of her husband's plan.

Thank you😊

I feel for both Gopi and Ahem for their situation. They are not in it because they wanted to. They were victims of a cheap KK.. But I believe that Gopi would have been more shattered if she had been in the dark and then somehow finds out from say Rashi that Ahem is talking to Anitha in secret.

This way Gopi knows everything and there is no reason for her to believe Rashi even if she tries😊