April 25: What would you do? *pics*

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_Precious_

@_Precious_

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Lovely pics. Thanks for sharing. I don't think Ahem was heart broken on hearing about Anita-Nilesh wedding when he was on the stairs. He was shocked and confused abt the situation of making the false Nilesh calls. I believe 100% that Ahem has no feelings for Anita but he is badly trapped in the situation and he is making bad decisions though with good intentions. I just sympathise with him for his situation. Gopi for sure is having uneasiness for having Anita at home, she wasn't the usual warm in taking Anita to guest room. As Harini said, some body should have explained Gopi about the situation in which Anita is brought to MM.

It is a big mess in the MM and there is insecurity in every one's mind - Ahem feeling tensed abt what to do with Anita due to the false phone calls, Gopi feeling worried for Ahem and also for Anita's future, Kokila worried abt finding a suitable guy or convincing Nilesh and Rashi is feared about finding about her kalakari.

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: _Precious_
Lovely pics. Thanks for sharing. I don't think Ahem was heart broken on hearing about Anita-Nilesh wedding when he was on the stairs. He was shocked and confused abt the situation of making the false Nilesh calls. I believe 100% that Ahem has no feelings for Anita but he is badly trapped in the situation and he is making bad decisions though with good intentions. I just sympathise with him for his situation. Gopi for sure is having uneasiness for having Anita at home, she wasn't the usual warm in taking Anita to guest room. As Harini said, some body should have explained Gopi about the situation in which Anita is brought to MM.

It is a big mess in the MM and there is insecurity in every one's mind - Ahem feeling tensed abt what to do with Anita due to the false phone calls, Gopi feeling worried for Ahem and also for Anita's future, Kokila worried abt finding a suitable guy or convincing Nilesh and Rashi is feared about finding about her kalakari.

That is is Precious. And the cause of the big mess is the residents of MM! Because they lack simple decent communication skills. Learn to talk damnit! Then you won't have so much problems!

And when you do have a problem than be honest and open about it! Don't hide it and think you are going to solve it by yourself. Because sooner or later the truth comes out. And then everything gets 10 times worse. Why? Because you shut your mouth when you should have opened it!

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_Precious_

@_Precious_

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

That is is Precious. And the cause of the big mess is the residents of MM! Because they lack simple decent communication skills. Learn to talk damnit! Then you won't have so much problems!
And when you do have a problem than be honest and open about it! Don't hide it and think you are going to solve it by yourself. Because sooner or later the truth comes out. And then everything gets 10 times worse. Why? Because you shut your mouth when you should have opened it!

Agree with you. Ahem's one blunder mistake of making false phone call and hiding it from the family will land all of them in big trouble. He did it with good intention, but he didn't need to hide it from at least Kokila. If she had known that it was Ahem who called Anita in the name of Nilesh, she wouldn't have taken the big responsibility of getting Anita married and taking her to MM. She is disillusioned that since Nilesh is in touch with Anita,things will be back to normal after some time and they can be married.

Its true that in bad times, our brain doesn't work straight and its the same happened with our Ahem babu.

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Sandy

@sandyuk

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Thanks for the pics Christine! I am really confused at what the cvs are trying to show. For me the track is not panning out the way I had hoped. I was really excited about it but now (for the first time ever) I am not rushing to watch the epi online.

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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Thanks for posting the pics...I feel so bad for Gopi 😭

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Christine

@westindian

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Agree guys. This lack of communication is the biggest problem in this household. All the problems we just saw with Hetal & Koki was due to a lack of communication.

Same thing with this phone call, why couldn't he have told the family he was doing this to make Anita feel better? What purpose does it accomplish in hiding this from the family? He already is on shaky ground because of his past relationship with her and being found in a compromising position, why further make the situation worse by hiding the fact he called her? He makes himself look worse when they find out & think how Anita will feel.

I think if we take this serial as a whole we see that the common thread throughout is the lack of communication, I guess this is how the CVs create story lines. 🤔

Shaun - I agree that some characters are looking grey/black and how they are behaving currently is how we have to judge them. We may know that Ahem is a good guy but judging by his recent behavior he seems very immature to me. Also, Koki's decision to move Anita in and play matchmaker is very idiotic.

What has always bothered me and continues to, is Gopi's character as a sacrificial lamb for the whole family. She constantly must take Ahem's insults, his bad behavior, & now this lack of judgment is affecting her life. I really need to see the CVs making her stronger & giving her a voice. It's long over due. The constant tears & look of pain needs to manifest into words. She needs to start saying how she feels to him.

Again - thank you all for your comments, it's always nice to get everyone's perspective.😉