My very selfish feelings towards Anita!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I never felt Anita was a negative character. She'd never done anything wrong and all she did was try and fight for her man yet unlike Kinjal she never used any underhand tactics. Yes she went to his engagement ceremony but those were the acts of a desparate woman. She was the woman scorned!! I never thought she had anything to do with Umang's warped revenge - she left the country to get over Ahem!!
So I am so happy now that I've finally seen the episodes that she seems to be happy and getting on with her life!! (Fingers crossed that I've not spoken too soon!!)
The girl is obviously happy with her finace if the way she was talking to him on the phone is anything to go by. She's moved on, which is what real life is like!! People do move on, she's not sat still for the past two years pining for what once was and planning her next move to get back into Ahem's life. Like Sonal she's moving onto the next step and I hope that her entry is here to give Ahem the metaphorical shove in the right direction much in the way Sonal was here to bring about the truth of Rashi's true colours in front of Jigar!! I hope Ahem realises that he needs to tell Gopi of his feelings rather than Gopi misunderstanding anything!! Although from the nonsense that was coming out of Rashi's mouth after the split was averted I'm thinking maybe the CVs have a period of turmoil in store for Gopi again but then again what's new?
The shock on both their faces at the end of the episode is expected!! Neither of them thought they'd see each other again, and they did have feeligns for one another at one point!!
But as to my selfish feelings of happiness that Anita seems to be portraying a normal girl moving on rather than a crazed woman hell bent on revenge is really down to one and one thing only!!
The fact that she's Garv's mum!!!😆
I wouldn't be able to cope if she was negative because she's my Garv's mum!! She needs to be a nice woman!! Maybe not the love of Ahem's life but someone that he could have been happy with, and in love with. It's only with the advent of Gopi in his life that he truly knows what the made for each other type of love is but he felt some sort of love for Anita!!
So for Bandhan I've been hoping that Anita would not be evil!! And that she wouldn't be putting barriers in GoHem's realtionship!!
I know it's weird but that's been a concern uppermost in my mind!!
And now I think it's time for the men in white coats to cart me away!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No Nazma...dont' go with the guys in white coats...you are about as sane a person on this crazy forum. Besides if anyone belongs in the looney bin it would be me and my friends and family will attest to it 😃 I am in complete agreement with you. The Anita before was only trying to get her love from leaving her. She obviously loved Ahem. But in those days Ahem only saw what his mom wanted and did as she said.

Today, Anita is happy with her new life. The smile on her face was genuine. She is as shocked at seeing Ahem as he is seeing her. So yeah what you wrote is going to come true. It is the only thing that makes perfect sense.

And it is going to be a lot of turmoil for Gopi, but she is not going to leave MM. Kokila and the rest of the family won't allow it and I have a feeling even Ahem might speak up this time to stop her. But eventually all the barriers will break and Ahem and Gopi will confess to each other and become one...And Anita and her new husband will live their life in perfect harmony...

Speaking of Garv, when are you going to update? Just asking 😃

BTW fantastic post and a very good prediction. I want to see this as well
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

No Nazma...dont' go with the guys in white coats...you are about as sane a person on this crazy forum. Besides if anyone belongs in the looney bin it would be me and my friends and family will attest to it 😃 I am in complete agreement with you. The Anita before was only trying to get her love from leaving her. She obviously loved Ahem. But in those days Ahem only saw what his mom wanted and did as she said.


Today, Anita is happy with her new life. The smile on her face was genuine. She is as shocked at seeing Ahem as he is seeing her. So yeah what you wrote is going to come true. It is the only thing that makes perfect sense.

And it is going to be a lot of turmoil for Gopi, but she is not going to leave MM. Kokila and the rest of the family won't allow it and I have a feeling even Ahem might speak up this time to stop her. But eventually all the barriers will break and Ahem and Gopi will confess to each other and become one...And Anita and her new husband will live their life in perfect harmony...

Speaking of Garv, when are you going to update? Just asking 😃

BTW fantastic post and a very good prediction. I want to see this as well

Thankyou Rupal!!
I was questioning my sanity when I was just thinking that the CVs better not ruin Anita for me just because I'm trying to keep her positive in Bandhan!! I sometimes think I'm yoo emotionally invested!!
I don't really want turmoil for Gopi - I'd like turmoil for Ahem. Not because he still loves Anita but because he needs a certain realisation about what he did to Gopi while he believed himself to be wronged and still in love with Anita. This is a perfect time for him to realise exactly what Gopi has been through for him. Gopi really doesn't even need to know that Anita is back because it serves no purpose in her knowing and crying. It's Ahem who needs to take a hard look at the past. I'm glad that we know he already loves her and that he didn't need a collision with the past to maek him come to the realisation.
As for the update... it may be a while!! I've managed to break my laptop so that needs to go in for repair!! At the moment my lovely sister has let me borrow hers!! I may try to write something but it's back to school on Monday and I have a lot of lessons to plan!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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😛 Nice one Nazma..
I do really hope the same. She seems a nice person.. Plus we do want Garv's mother to be a good😉 and the object of being Aham Modi's love😊
Today, Anitha seemed to spread a positive vibe across.. Of course she was shocked at seeing Aham. He identified her voice and I think he was gearing himself to see her as he turned around. I hope the CVs do not twist her character around but just let her be..
She does not have to be -ve to make an impact. Aham can get a closure from the past guilt by seeing that she moved on like him and is finally getting settled in her life.. Friday's episode I guess will give us more understanding of Anitha's character.😊
Anyway we have UrShi for all -ve things in SNS.. Another one will be a little too much. With Rashi sulking and Urmi as greedy as ever I am wondering what the next move will be.. So it will be a tiny tad difficult to handle a -ve Anitha too especially after today..😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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both of you are saying right but imagine all the barries between them will clear then dont you think sns wil be end soon they can show us raji happiness kinjal separated the show will be end .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

😛 Nice one Nazma..

I do really hope the same. She seems a nice person.. Plus we do want Garv's mother to be a good😉 and the object of being Aham Modi's love😊
Today, Anitha seemed to spread a positive vibe across.. Of course she was shocked at seeing Aham. He identified her voice and I think he was gearing himself to see her as he turned around. I hope the CVs do not twist her character around but just let her be..
She does not have to be -ve to make an impact. Aham can get a closure from the past guilt by seeing that she moved on like him and is finally getting settled in her life.. Friday's episode I guess will give us more understanding of Anitha's character.😊
Anyway we have UrShi for all -ve things in SNS.. Another one will be a little too much. With Rashi sulking and Urmi as greedy as ever I am wondering what the next move will be.. So it will be a tiny tad difficult to handle a -ve Anitha too especially after today..😛

Thanks Harini!!
A negative Urmila weighs the balance down quite heavily in the negative stakes!! So yeah we definitely don't need any more!!
I don't see how they can possibly twist her!! The girls getting married - it's her mehndi so it's imminent!! Unless she decided to postpone it in order to work in a little revenge for revenge's sake???
The guilt is what we need on Ahem's part but it needs to work to make GoHem closer rather than make him pull away from Gopi!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanaGoHem

both of you are saying right but imagine all the barries between them will clear then dont you think sns wil be end soon they can show us raji happiness kinjal separated the show will be end .


How will SNS end when the love story has just begun.? The dream of all barriers clearing is not going to happen with just Anitha.. All Anitha will bring in is the closure to certain things from the past.

BTW, Rashi being happy is not going to happen anytime soon. She has short term happiness.. If Gopi cries Rashi will feel happy for some days but that will be the extent of it..
We have a long way to go and the barriers between Aham and Gopi breaking is just the start of the story. It is not the end.😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanaGoHem

both of you are saying right but imagine all the barries between them will clear then dont you think sns wil be end soon they can show us raji happiness kinjal separated the show will be end .

Even with GoHem happy they can show development!! It's Saath Nibhana Saathiya so once they are saathiya's they could have progression into I don't know family fortunes being reversed and them having to work together, or something about Gopi's past beign shown that was hidden from her.
The CVs, if they use their talent wisely, can develop the show in many wonderful and brilliant ways!! And if they run out of ideas they can always read some of the FFs here!!
Or they can pay us to come up with ideas!! I'm sure we'd be able to give them a consultation for a nominal fee!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice and sane post Nazma!!
Anita came as a breath of fresh air. Hopefully she'll be that only.
Ahem was shell shocked to see her. But as Harini is saying Ahem has to put a closure to his past to enter a new Gopi zone. So maybe that will be good for hi sense of prospective.

Now that Ahem has become Gopi Pati -Anita or + Anita is of no consequence to me really. Come hail come storm Ahem will stick to Gopi.😳
Of course there is more to love. But it is never realized through escaping the reality of disappointment and conflict.
Bring on the conflict & let the Man prove that she is his princess😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nazma... very nice post...

I am happy with Anita's come back today.. i got positive vibes from her Nazma😊.. she is ready to move which was clear when she was talking to her fiance, i suppose...she is pretty decent ..soft and gentle in the way she talked to everyone... i liked her

it is general tendency to assume a blast from the past to be a -ve one.. but this is SNS and i will be so very glad if the CVs let her stay positive..as long she is here😛

and Anita came back to get closure on Ahem Modi and with her moving on in her life Anita will be relieved and get rid of the guilt for hurting her...

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