NO SPLIT ! NO DIVISION ! NO BATWARA !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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😃😃😃😃 I am very very happy as there is no family division or split or separation. This was not called for in that family oriented household. But I am sad and aso very angry that Rashi's true colour had not being revealed yet to the family and that she was the real reasonn behind all the upheavels in the family. 😡😡😒.
👏👏👏😃😃⭐️⭐️👍🏼 Thumbs up to you Baa . Your decision today brought a big smile on my face.
Rashi's behaviour reflects on her upbringing and her teachings; the lessons she had learnt from her mum. She had seen her mum disrespecting her father, doing all sorts of planning and executing to get attention and her mum's greed for money. Being educated she had believed her mum as if what her mum does is perfect for a family. Urmilla failed as mother to instill famiy values in her daughter.
Rashi has to learn a lot to be a family type. A family is made up of trust, love, faith, co-operation, honesty, hardwork and respect. A family maintains balance in every situation because of the uniformity of love and bondage between family members. A family is based on these strong foundation and these values are the pillar of strength. In a family a mother is said to be the base who lays the strong foundation and the father to be the strong pillar of strength. Ironically these are not in Rashi's family. Gopi had craved for a family from the beginning as a child and when she grew up. ;which she got in the Modi house. In any chaotic situation family members support each other and solve the problems or look for a solution.
Baa had instilled these in the DILS and so did their mums. Only problem is Hetal's softness and nature which Baa had forseen that this will create problem so she handed the running of the household to Koki. Koki is fair minded and liberal and points ot the mistakes to the younger DILS as soon as they make them This is not to be a dictator or show her place but to correct the mistakes from happening again. She takes disciplinary actions only to instill alertness and carefullness in Rashi and Gopi. She is a strong character, firm and also full of love. Rashi's wrong upbringing and Urmilla's persistent influence keep surfacing and it outweighs the Modi House teachings; so she could not mould herself into this family and take the fruit of a happy loving and caring family . She feels out of place and to gain attention she resorts to cheap kalakaries and out to break the family bondage or foundation.
WHATEVER KALAKARIES SHE DOES NOW WILL NEVER EVER BREAK THE STRONG FOUNDATION OF MODI FAMILY.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The Modi Family represents what the movie 'Hum Saath Saath Hain' illustrated-they are the family that Prays Together, Eats Together and Stays Together!

Despite how many hurdles they have faced as a family in the past, they have come out shining through! ⭐️

Due to an external factor, a Split was introduced to separate both families due to growing tension between the two DIL in the house! Luckily, this tension was dissolved due to a wise woman who reminded them of the importance of relationships that we hold together, and how delicate they are, and if we allow other people to interfere with the bond, then it breaks very easily. It is important that we do not take these relationships for granted as when they are not there, we will regret that we did not ask forgiveness for the mistakes we have made! Both Kokila and Hetal have now realized and come to their senses and their bond is now stronger than ever!

Coming to Rashi, she has never understood the value of Family! Her maayka is such that one would wonder how she turned out the way she had! 😕🤢 She has done every Kalakarie in the book to break the bonds of the Modi Parivaar! As they say a cat has nine lives, Rashi behaves in such a manner, that she wasted so many chances in her life to be good, that now when she has no chance left, she is ultimately left with nothing but loneliness! She is now on a very thin line, that whatever path she chooses for herself now will be based on whether she really wants to be part of a family or not! Her mother, is no angel agreed, but it is also Rashi's duty as a DIL to adjust to her sasural, which sadly she hasn't. With regard to Kalakaries, I don't think Rashi will have even have the courage to do one, as not even Gopi will save her this time! And she preaches to Gopi about insecurity! 😡🤢
Gopi is not the same Gopi anymore to run away from her fears, she will face them head on! ⭐️
I have full faith in that even with Anitha coming, she won't backdown! 😃👍🏼
In my PoV, she doesn't even have to prove to Ahem that she is His true saathiya, he just needs to be reminded why!

Lovely post!⭐️ Sorry got carried away! 😳



Edited by angl143 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What a fantabulous post and I loved your enthusiasm. Both of you Raadhni and Angl are just too damn good. I agree a hundred percent...Only one thing left to do 👏
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What a fantabulous post and I loved your enthusiasm. Both of you Raadhni and Angl are just too damn good. I agree a hundred percent...Only one thing left to do 👏[Quote]
Thank you for your encouragement! 😳 Please call me Kshama😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lovely post...i cant help but smile when i think that raashi did all the kalakaries to split heki...when in reality what she did ultimately became the reason why their bond can never ever be broken by anyone...all raashis actions resulted in reaffirming and solidifying the modi family bond...serves her right...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: angl143




You told me that yesterday, and I forgot...I'm sorry Kshama...😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89

Please don't be sorry😛🤗

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent post by both
Just loved it😛

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