Ramji knew best - Rejection and acceptance

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: ShaunSA
Harini and munni! What a pair you make! I must admit i got the whole thing wrong. Thank you for opening my eyes and showing me the reality! Much much much appreciated!

thank you shaun,... glad you liked it 😊 yeah everyone feels poor rashi and blames koki...but rashi never deserves sympathy and koki never deserves blame.. she is just too fair and unbiased😊

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: umahmed
There you go again harni just love you so much 🤗even a was thinking what Koki was doing to rashi was not right 😒but after your post a admit a was wrong 😆

You are most welcome🤗

Koki was not wrong. Would I have done it? I do not know.. I do not have her courage. But Koki is not wrong. Rashi does not deserve our sympathies so soon and that too when she does not realize her mistakes😊

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: ShaunSA
Harini and munni! What a pair you make! I must admit i got the whole thing wrong. Thank you for opening my eyes and showing me the reality! Much much much appreciated!

You are most welcome Shaun😃

The reality is Rashi still has a long way to go before we can start to sympathize with her😕

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Vinder90

@Vinder90

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: soapbubble
Lovely take on Gopi's Bhakti!
In fact, that is one aspect that I completely love about her - her utter devotion. and I'm happy today that her small laddu was symbolic of the Modi family's efforts to chadao bhog.

I wouldn't go so far as to defend Koki, frankly. Her bhog or offering is not without Bhakti but the hubris, the self importance with which she represents the Modi Parivaar takes away from whatever devotion she has. She wants to be seen to be doing all this - the name, the community's opinion, her status... all these are important to her.

As far as Rashi was concerned, I think she was out of line. When she goes on and on about 'MERI Gopi vau' and 'AAPKI vau Raashi' - she has drawn the lines of me and you. Considering how she disliked it when Hetal interfered between Goki even to make peace - she has NO BUSINESS punishing Rashi in front of so many people, going so far as to reject a table saying she must hold the laddu up. It was vicious, IMO - Rashi made a mistake, and we saw how that happened.

Kokila is just too autocratic, too overbearing. Frankly I'm happy with this confrontation track between Hetal and Koki - though she doesn't seem to be learning, does she?

Bubble

Totally agree with you on this one, I like koki, but i have always wanted her to get slightly softened, she is soft on the inside and a rock on the outside:: the scolding and punishment is fine, but there has to be some limits, and even that in public, way harsh in my pov, hmm, but then again, it was Rashi, so I am still happy LOL,

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
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Superb post harini👏⭐️

Harini... in reality, in any temple, this is how it happens... why do we have special darshan for 1000 Rs, VIP darshan with recommendation by the ministers or MLAs or bureaucrats... is this how you show your gratitude to god.. do you measure bhakti by money ' people compare donations to devotion...that is what happens in reality..which is pathetic...
even in the serial... people were thinking that the bigger ladoo the modis have more bhakti

Is bhakti all about money and size of the prasad...and
what does god want from a devotee...his undivided and selfless devotion...

Whatever I am offered in devotion with a pure heart -- a leaf, a flower, fruit, or water -- I accept with joy.
' this is what Lord Krishna says in Gita

He the Lord Krishna, himself said that a small offering be it anything.. but the feelings of devotion and attitude should be genuine...
Here Gopi has the devotion, her only wish was to make an offering to Ramji.. where as rashi was all the more worried about herself and also was worried about the blasting she would receive from koki.. she was not for once thinking the ladoo to be bhog.. she was thinking about her mistake
god's sees intentions... rashi never had the genuine intention of offering the ladoo as bhog, which was mercilessly rejected by the lord.. where as people with good intentions have the mind and heart at right place.. the intentions will pave way to their intelligence... gopi had the intention and devotion to offer ladoo, she got the idea of making a small ladoo and offer it as bhog..but rashi's real intentions were to skip the blasting from koki.. to get the weight of her shoulders...but the exact opposite happened here...

Kokil Modi: do i have to tell how much i love her, 👏yes, she is an unbiased, fair lady, ⭐️her punishments are the same to gopi, rashi and even Ahem... there is a least distinction between the 3 persons...Koki made it a point,,, and hetal, being the elder... she has every right to stop koki..but she did not.. now after going home she can accuse koki of being harsh to Rashi...

if she really felt that rashi was unnecessarily targeted, why did she not stop koki from punishing Rashi...

harini.. hetal and rashi hit rock bottom with their conscience...and attitude...🤢

Thanks Munni..😛 I cannot say enough on your take.. 👏Your first para is the reality at temples today that is very sad😕 And we see why this is possible. People themselves believe that the bigger the Bhog, the better the Bhakthi

And you are so right in your last sentence.. Hetal will again get something to stew on and she will not even accuse Koki directly. She will taunt her later😡

Well, Rashi never had a conscience from the beginning, so no wonder she did not even think that the laddoo is Bhog even once.. As for Hetal, she keeps lowering herself everyday.. What is rock bottom to this pair?

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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Well I haven't watched today's show, but I feel I have two very important factors to give my view points...one is all the threads and the other is bhakt for Bhaghwan...

First let me start by saying Harini that was a superb analysis 👏 and I was in awe at your analysis of a true bhakt and how Bhaghwan is more about love and devotion than the amount...Quality not Quantity.

I thought vow Harini did a fantastic job and then I go on to read Munni's take on this and again I am floored. A really fantastic job Munni. Just wonderful 👏 Then I go on to read Nazma and I go..damn these guys are too good, what could I possible offer...And to top it all off...Navya and her story of the old lady...Fantabulous...just fantabulous👏⭐️

Now on with my take...Mind you I have not seen the episode, just my bhakt for God is going to lead me to write the words...

Bhakt comes from the heart. It is not how many puja's you do or how many Bhog's you give to Baghwan, it is your true inner feelings, trust and faith in God that leads you to be a Bhakt. Does Rashi have that, NO! Does Gopi have it, YES!

Why the difference?

Rashi...All her cares were for not wanting to be yelled at and for only wanting all the wah's wah's in her name. She could have cared less about how is she going to explain this to Ramji. To her her impending punishment was more important than to get the ladoo to the mandir or even how are they going to manage to pass it as prasad. Her intentions were surrounded around her and her need to not be yelled at. Not once did she ask Bhaghwan for forgiveness for the mistake, she only expected him to protect her from her well deserved bashing she was about to receive.

Gopi...Yes, she is the true Bhakt. Am I saying this because I am a bigger fan of her than Rashi's. No. I am saying this because she was more woried about how to get this ladoo to the mandir and how it was going to be received as bhog. She instantly came up with an idea of making a smaller ladoo out of the big one. Is she trying to show off. No she is not Rashi. She did not have a "look she made a mistake" look. (Even though I haven't seen it I know her 😃) She did not want Ramji to be without bhog from her family. That was more important to her. She could have easily moved over to her husbands who was worried about her, but no she is more into making sure that the bhog is offered to Ramji and that is why she is a true bhakt...I hope I made sense.

Now I am going to add a little note for Kokila..

She is the purest of the hearts. Anyone who says she is only worried about her prestige is wrong. I am not here to hurt anyones feelings, I am just saying she is an honest upstanding and straight forward person. If this mistake had happened at the hands of Gopi, she would have had the same reaction. She has known Rashi and her true nature from the day she had gond to RPN to look at her future vau. And that is why Gopi got the kangans and not Rashi. She has always been fair minded and fair in her judgement. If she is the judge, jury and the executioner, then so be it. Obviously no one else in the family...Hetal...has the balls to do it. She does not care if she looks bad, she is more worried about the truth and justice. She always stands for the good and fights the bad. And the only reputation she is worried about is the Modi's not just her own. She wants Rashi to make Modi proud, not the laughing stock of Rajkot...which BTW Rashi seems to be doing...

The bottom line...If you are a true person with a clean heart and you have no evil intentions towards anyone, then God will always be by your side. Rashi should know that by now...she has achieved nothing...because her heart is cold and there is no love there...Where as even a simple and naive girl got a hot looking successful business man to fall in love with her, because her heart was only filled with love and nothing else. When you go thru life, always keep a clean heart...remember God wants to reside there...If it is not clean, God would never come to visit 😃

I am so sorry for the longest rant ever...I am truly sorry...😳

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

@Rupal.. Why do you apologize.. That was a most beautiful post👏 Hats off..

Your take on Rashi, Gopi and Kokila are spot on and the best⭐️ We see the difference between a heart that is pure and a heart that is selfish from the way Gopi and Rashi act in every scenario.. Today was no exception..

The thing was Rashi wanted and hoped to be let off when the people around praised her and it shows how she cares for nothing but that.. 🤢

And your take on Koki..👍🏼 Only straightforward, truthful people have the courage to punish the wrong doer.. If Gopi had made the same mistake, Koki would have punished her exactly in the same way.😊

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varshu27

@varshu27

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

fantastic post harini...and absolutely fantastic views by everybody...i was so happy when gopi got to give the small prasad ladoo...she is a true devotee and god knows who is pure of heart...as for raashi i have no sympathy for her...and i dont know if i ever will...no amount of punishments will equal what she has done till now...and hetal all she knows to do well is show up beautifully dressed...she cannot make a single decision on her own...kudos to koki for putting raashi in her place and gopi for coming up with a solution..

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: varshu27
fantastic post harini...and absolutely fantastic views by everybody...i was so happy when gopi got to give the small prasad ladoo...she is a true devotee and god knows who is pure of heart...as for raashi i have no sympathy for her...and i dont know if i ever will...no amount of punishments will equal what she has done till now...and hetal all she knows to do well is show up beautifully dressed...she cannot make a single decision on her own...kudos to koki for putting raashi in her place and gopi for coming up with a solution..

Thank you Varshu😃 Everyone made this topic a pleasure to discuss..

Do I have to say I agree 100% of what you said.. Especially @Bold..

A few tears and we forget that she is punished for her mistakes and that she deserves all this.. 😕

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ANJ4

@ANJ4

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

OMG what a great post ... I really understand where you are coming from... My nani says things like this ... you are filled with such knowledge... How did you get so smart ... love what you put in you r post ... and you said it perfectly...

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