may be their is some to learn for gopi too

well we all are really happy that gohem are getting closer physically these days i am also excited but i am a kind of person who believes in feeling and emotion,for some ppl care concern and respect are above than any things there are so many girls who are lving a normal married life but are there liives normal?i dnt think so being physicallly one is teh real oneness i know most of u ppl will disagree to me especially the married ones may be i am talking kidish but i am a person for whom sex is not the sign of love but feelings care and respect are teh keys of happy married life ahem may not close to her body but NOW he is very close to her heart he knows tiny things abt her which nobody knows gopi got every thing in ahem's company the way he supported her as a real saathiya in the study track and then after her accident how many husbands do that???i also admire gopi and i agree her expectations also have value gopi should also understand ahem had a past but still he is moving on i know very slowly but he is moving at least there was a time he used to hate her now at least he likes and in deep in his heart loves her he just need a JHATKA to realize that love i know i am giving speech but need all yr views 😊

true.. physical relationship is not important.. the caring ,Love & bond sharing b/w them is matter.. in that case Gohem will be the No1 and body can't even touch them

Cool post sheela.

Originally posted by: Sandy914

true.. physical relationship is not important.. the caring ,Love & bond sharing b/w them is matter.. in that case Gohem will be the No1 and body can't even touch them

EXACTLY my point gohem are different and audience like different things that's why ppl loves them and the way their relation i s working is awesome slow but strong BOND😊

Very well said...no and its not at all speech for us we really revisit all the feelings once of Ahem towards gopi and cherish them... you have put together all of them in a lovely manner...

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Cool post sheela.

Yes physical actions are not everything. However, a lot of people tend to focus on that only and forget everything else.

Relationships do need it yes. But they also need a whole host of other things. Love, friendship, respect, trust, communication... I could go on.

Successful relationships are those who manage to combine all these factors together realising that all the different parts make one whole.

agree understanding is the key of any and especially this relationship😊

Originally posted by: Sravas

Very well said...no and its not at all speech for us we really revisit all the feelings once of Ahem towards gopi and cherish them... you have put together all of them in a lovely manner...

He has accounted himself for all her responsibilites ...let it be a saree for her on navaratri or dropping her in the car for Pandal janmasthami... taking her out to console her on her birthday... really helped to a major extent for her studies...did everything for her when she met an accident poor chap had a slap too in injection scene...received taunts from koki for his extra care...longing her love for each n everytime... coloured her on holi...we have so many to list ...He is now becoming a dutiful husband for his lady love once she is a goi gaawar now...she is understanding, innocent and lovable Gopiii as he calls her

thhnx a lot dear for liking the topic and i always admire ahem for these things i agree he soem times irritates us for not expressing his feelings but then he is the real ahem is all about he can't express his love that easily😳but woh kehte haina actions speaks louder than words😊

True. The physical side is not the be all and end all of a relationship but it still plays an important part. For some people they put a lot of emphasis on this and then find the relationship failing. But as Shaun and Sandy put it there are a lot of other aspects in a relationship which take precedence. The ability to laugh with each other, to click mentally with each others thoughts and to stand by that person no matter what. You see that in Gopi and Ahem. She will take care of him, by making sure his clothes are ready for him, that he has eaten and puts his comfort above hers. He has shown that he is willing to stand by her, he "protected" her when the hot prasad was put in her hand and without a thought transferred it into his own and nowadays he knows that there is something amiss and is trying his best to make her smile.

Originally posted by: Xarina

True. The physical side is not the be all and end all of a relationship but it still plays an important part. For some people they put a lot of emphasis on this and then find the relationship failing. But as Shaun and Sandy put it there are a lot of other aspects in a relationship which take precedence. The ability to laugh with each other, to click mentally with each others thoughts and to stand by that person no matter what. You see that in Gopi and Ahem. She will take care of him, by making sure his clothes are ready for him, that he has eaten and puts his comfort above hers. He has shown that he is willing to stand by her, he "protected" her when the hot prasad was put in her hand and without a thought transferred it into his own and nowadays he knows that there is something amiss and is trying his best to make her smile.

(Sorry meant to put this up earlier but kept getting interuppted by teachers😡)

i am not saying physical things doesn't matters but heart things matters more 😊btw plz remind me what was the hot prasad scene?😳

Originally posted by: sensitivesheela

i am not saying physical things doesn't matters but heart things matters more 😊btw plz remind me what was the hot prasad scene?😳

@bold. The hot prasad scene came up when Gopi and Ahem were trying to bring Rashi and Jigar together. They had gone to the Mandir and there Gopi was given some prasad. It was hot and she cried out in pain. Ahem, with out a second thought transferred the prasad into his hand=protector. How many husbands would have done this for their wives? If you have put your hands up, then you are very lucky and I envy you.😊