What are Jigar's chances of happiness - Page 3

Originally posted by: shruthi2010

harini, i too prefer koki, since she is teaching the way a family should be run. she might be strict, but she has a point when she said a vahu is like a engine for a family. she needs to learn the nuances to run the family when it is time and when the saas is gone. she corrects the mistakes a bit harshly b cos the next time gopi might not forget it. as for hetal except jame deva what else she has taught rashi? absolutely nothing in these 2 yrs.

Originally posted by: GohamHungry

Wonderful Post !! 👏 I completely see you point here and a side note- I'm not a diehard fan of either couple. Rashi. Ugh. Do I need to say she's evil and heartless? That she is greedy and self-centered? That she could careless about how sweet her husband might be to her? There really isn't anything nice to say about her except that she is beautiful. (which would be all thanks to the actor and not the character 😆) But why is it that we have a problem with Rashi getting Jigar but not with Ahem getting Gopi? Don't you think Rashi is a little like the old Ahem? (Just a little in the behavior guys..he isn't inhuman like Rashi) Sure, Ahem was never evil but all the times that he hurt Gopi's feelings and left her crying proved him to be an insensitive man .This is B.L time period ..Berfore Love 😆 So I just wanted to put it out there that Ahem isn't completely deserving of such a caring woman like Gopi but they are made for each other, quite obviously. Miracles can and do happen in love so you never know, maybe Jigar's love will change Rashi..Maybe it won't. Time will tell.

aham made it clear in the begining that he does not love gopi and she can never expect any realtionship with him. he might be arrogant, angry at every single thing, but he is straight forward and honest. as for rashi she told jigar that they can start their relationship based on friendship and later be come hubby and wife. but once she learnt that jigar has either the house nor the bussiness, she insulted him. even now it is jigar who goes after her and never rashi. just tell me which husband will do this?

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Shruthi..

As for getting a Koki like saas, though others may feel different, I would prefer Koki to Hetal any day..😊

One more thing.. It is not about what type of saas we get that matters. It is about how we approach our relationships and marriage.. Being care free, without responsibilities can be good for a day or two but a marriage is not a child's game.. It takes time and hardwork.. It is not about gifts, dresses, kisses and blushes..

It goes beyond that. A husband and a wife share a very unique bond, a bond that is not through blood but that needs to be thicker than that..

Originally posted by: shruthi2010

aham made it clear in the begining that he does not love gopi and she can never expect any realtionship with him. he might be arrogant, angry at every single thing, but he is straight forward and honest. as for rashi she told jigar that they can start their relationship based on friendship and later be come hubby and wife. but once she learnt that jigar has either the house nor the bussiness, she insulted him. even now it is jigar who goes after her and never rashi. just tell me which husband will do this?

By clear you mean basically telling her I hate you and get the heck out of my face ? Yup, he sure did do that. And now he is running after her and expects her to forgive him for everything he has done. Actually, he doesn't seem to remember yet all the suffering he has caused. Which husband does that? I agree with you, Rashi is evil and Jigar is her exact antithesis with his sweet and caring heart. He sometimes reminds me of Gopi. She forgives very easily also. Didn't Gopi go after Ahem even after he hurt her? Gopi and Jigar are going after their partners to win their love, regardless of what they have done to them.

I just want Rashi to be changed by Jigar's love so they can have a happy married life...if Rashi turns good, Gopi will have a clear path to Ahem with no kalakaris in her way.

Originally posted by: GohamHungry

Wonderful Post !! 👏 I completely see you point here and a side note- I'm not a diehard fan of either couple. Rashi. Ugh. Do I need to say she's evil and heartless? That she is greedy and self-centered? That she could careless about how sweet her husband might be to her? There really isn't anything nice to say about her except that she is beautiful. (which would be all thanks to the actor and not the character 😆) But why is it that we have a problem with Rashi getting Jigar but not with Ahem getting Gopi? Don't you think Rashi is a little like the old Ahem? (Just a little in the behavior guys..he isn't inhuman like Rashi) Sure, Ahem was never evil but all the times that he hurt Gopi's feelings and left her crying proved him to be an insensitive man .This is B.L time period ..Berfore Love 😆 So I just wanted to put it out there that Ahem isn't completely deserving of such a caring woman like Gopi but they are made for each other, quite obviously. Miracles can and do happen in love so you never know, maybe Jigar's love will change Rashi..Maybe it won't. Time will tell.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Comparing Aham and Rashi is like comparing chalk and cheese. Aham was rude. He was harsh but he was truthful and honest to Gopi about what to expect from him. He never led her on that he loved her and then shifted gears..

One main thing is that he never took advantage of Gopi's innocence. He disliked her, he showed it. He started liking her, he is straight about it. He developed. He understood her slowly and then was man enough to let his prejudices fall. Once he understood what a beautiful person she is, he has cared for her since.

I am not sure about the deserving thing either. Aham may have been most unsupportive at the beginning but even then he was never evil or inhuman. He cared for her when she got hurt and helped her.

Even when he did not love her, he supported her wish to study. Going against his mom.. And after that I think he redeemed himself slowly by being there for her at every step.

So it was not falling in love that made him a good person. He was a good person who was just too involved in his own loss to see the harshness he was spewing.

Rashi is not a good person in any scale..😕

I know, I didn't say they were exactly alike anyway. Just similar because both have somehow hurted their partners..Whether it was by harsh behavior or evil schemes. The latter is obviously much worse. I agree with all that you say, btw. He did realize her inner beauty later on which resulted in him falling in love with her. Rashi cares for Jigar when he gets hurt too. She isn't a good person at all but it doesn't mean she cannot change. She might not though. Jigar might end up with someone else (which most of us prefer except RaJi fans) So unless she changes, I'm against her being with Jigar but I can see that they really do belong together. There were a few times where they looked like a very happy couple which made me realize that their relationship could work out but only if Rashi turned good.

Originally posted by: GohamHungry

Wonderful Post !! 👏 I completely see you point here and a side note- I'm not a diehard fan of either couple. Rashi. Ugh. Do I need to say she's evil and heartless? That she is greedy and self-centered? That she could careless about how sweet her husband might be to her? There really isn't anything nice to say about her except that she is beautiful. (which would be all thanks to the actor and not the character 😆) But why is it that we have a problem with Rashi getting Jigar but not with Ahem getting Gopi? Don't you think Rashi is a little like the old Ahem? (Just a little in the behavior guys..he isn't inhuman like Rashi) Sure, Ahem was never evil but all the times that he hurt Gopi's feelings and left her crying proved him to be an insensitive man .This is B.L time period ..Berfore Love 😆 So I just wanted to put it out there that Ahem isn't completely deserving of such a caring woman like Gopi but they are made for each other, quite obviously. Miracles can and do happen in love so you never know, maybe Jigar's love will change Rashi..Maybe it won't. Time will tell.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

here i would like to say what shruti and harini said...

Ahem and Rashi are in no way same or alike ... not even 1 percent i would say...

the basic and most endearing difference which makes Ahem Modi apart from the rest is his straightforwardness...

even when he was harsh, it was not hatred or inhuman...it was dislike.. frustration in a relation where he got an illiterate wife... a presumed gold digger..one who constantly ends up making big blunders and mistakes. he was basically frustrated with himself having to share his life with a person like gopi...

when he realized what a good soul she is, her kind heart ...he started falling for her... and not like jigar... falling in and out of love at the drop of hat... he gave enough time to their relation... both of them could feel the nuances of their marriage...he never forced his decisions on her in the relation

redemption

everyone has a problem with his redemption... no one can see him redeemed .. because he did not use words ..people think, he comfortably forgot about his past...

but Ahem did not forget his past... he kept it close to his heart.. repenting on every hurt he caused her..

beauty of Ahem's redemption is - he does not use words ... but his every action overwrites or erases their past even...his every action, every gesture sends out 1000 times sorry in it...

Ahem knows.. if he brings out the past in words... it will hurt gopi.. not because she is reminded of her past... but she will be more hurt this time because... she will see the guilt and repentance in Ahem's eyes ...

their relation is beyond all material things and beyond all words ... their silence speaks a ton.. \\

about rashi... i really do not want to talk - i have some better things to do instead of talking about her😕

and rashi and Ahem do not have even 0.000000001% similarities😊

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I've been entertained.😆 I was only looking for an argument ..Thank You ! 🤗

Originally posted by: GohamHungry

@Bold- Beautiful 👏
I've been entertained.😆 I was only looking for an argument ..Thank You ! 🤗

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

hug back Ahlam🤗

thank you and... sometimes

when koki / Ahem are compared to Rashi

and when gopi is compared with hetal or jigar...

we just go over board and vent out ...

glad it was entertaining to you😛

Oh, its okay. I really don't care what you vent out..I'm open to opinions 😊 .Just needed a good daily debate ..I don't fully agree with all that I have said..It was only to provide a different perspective so that I could strike a nerve or two in people's minds leading upto a heated debate..And I got it ..So all is well !! 😆