You thought so much for us - Wow.. Hetal!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: NazmaJ

I've finally caught up with this week and I have to say Hetal, out of everyone, has truly made me sick!!! Her actions have been deplorable.

At times today we have seen Kokila looking towards Hetal with the same eagerness and respect but having to check it because of Hetal's whole countenance - absolutely appaliing!! If the CVs work this write then Hetal will have to work hard to earn her place back in the affections of Kokila. It's heartbreaking to see the disillusion in Kokila's eyes at the rejection by Hetal, even in front of strangers now. She didn't even acknowledge Kokila's action in front of the mango vendor.

This isn't the first time Hetal's hypocrisy has been highlighted though. When she thought Gopi hadn't kept her Teej fast she was giving her the silent treatment and being unkind to a girl she had said was her daughter (another case of mouthing platitudes) and this even when Ahem wasn't accepting Gopi as a person never mind as his wife.

However Rashi has committed actual crimes against the family and Hetal had to be reminded by Kokila through that "punishment" time to not weaken.

I just think that Hetal needed an excuse in all these years to make her feelings known and she is using these opportunities created by Rashi to finally say her piece - even though what she is doing and saying is arrant nonsense!!

Nazma.. The CVs are bent on showing her actions nonredeemable like the ones of Rashi.. Her actions to put Kokila down are getting worse and she does that for no reason..
If you note it, Hetal always makes a scene in front of outsiders or before Rashi to show up Kokila... Is she so devious?
Nazma.. Even before this Hetal's words have always been sweet but her actions have never lived up to her words.. If she really considered Gopi her daughter, she would not show her anger on Kokila to Gopi.. A mother always supports their child in their biggest challenges. Kokila did that for Gopi.. Hetal just stood and watched.. There is a lot of difference between voiciing it and living it.. 😕
I totally agree with the last paragraph.. Her intentions built over years are coming out in the open.. It is sad that it has to be this way.. Some things are not easily forgettable..

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Res

lost the first spot😕

Harini that was a superb post ...

yes - "You thought so much for us" this line should be engraved on a stone and hanged ontp hetal's neck for the rest of her life...

yes she thought so much - truly , hetal has this 30 year memory erased from her grey matter.. she forgot her friendship with damini, she forgot the the wedding fiasco, she forgot about the complaint, how convenient is forgetting...

when she could easily forget koki's relation...gopi's relation, no wonder she can forget urmi's bad deed as well... instead she sees her in the positive light and koki in the -ve light

something terribly wrong in her brain circuit😕

harini, right now i hate hetal more than urshi ... 😡

🤗 Munni.. Barney hug..
I know Hetal is getting too much on my nerves too.. Especially when she puts Koki down in front of others.. Has Koki ever shown Hetal disrespect in front of others for that matter anytime? How cheap can you go..
There are thin boundaries and a balances in a relationship.. When crossed, it is difficult to come back and draw the same line again.. Hetal is completely erasing the line of decency when she is dealing with Koki

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Nazma.. The CVs are bent on showing her actions nonredeemable like the ones of Rashi.. Her actions to put Kokila down are getting worse and she does that for no reason..
If you note it, Hetal always makes a scene in front of outsiders or before Rashi to show up Kokila... Is she so devious?
Nazma.. Even before this Hetal's words have always been sweet but her actions have never lived up to her words.. If she really considered Gopi her daughter, she would not show her anger on Kokila to Gopi.. A mother always supports their child in their biggest challenges. Kokila did that for Gopi.. Hetal just stood and watched.. There is a lot of difference between voiciing it and living it.. 😕
I totally agree with the last paragraph.. Her intentions built over years are coming out in the open.. It is sad that it has to be this way.. Some things are not easily forgettable..

Hetal, I think is like a dormant volcano All these years, she just was having a build up and dislike for Koki and kept it wrapped inside, under the facade of java de. Now with Rashi's enormous pressure, she is not able to hide the dislike part hence the disagreement and sudden out bursts. All the drama will lead to hetal's metamorphosis.

Originally posted by: varshu27

great post harini...there is no point in talking about hetal...she is a lost cause...she is blindly following raashi...and if tomorrow raashi says the sun rises in the west...she would willingly believe it and expect everybody else to believe it too...the brainless woman gives me heart burn😡

Varshu.. Thank you😛
And a 🤗 for you too.. I really do not want to pity her now.. She is not just being stupid but she is becoming impossible.. Even if you discount other things, her sweet sickly behavior to Urmi just to show up Koki is impossible to digest..
Hetal seems to have forgotten, it was Koki's Gopi vahu who saved her darling DIL and almost died doing it.. It was Koki who brought her DIL back home.. It was Koki who saved her son's life the first time around.. How can someone forget something like this so easily... 😕 She is breaking her record for stupidity in leaps and bounds everyday..
I thought it was UrShi's disgusting acts that would never fail to surprise me.. But seems that Hetal can beat them to it..🤢

Originally posted by: NazmaJ

She's been a lifeless entity in MM when her "daughter" Koki was being mistreated in the early days and didn't show any backbone because in reality there was no motherly feeling - a mother would not sit back while her child was made to suffer. I'm an older sister and if my siblings are ever being treated wrongly then I spring into action in support of them.

Her direct countermanding of Kokila in front of Urmila showed just how much love and respect she has for Koki - zilch. Kokila has always acquiesced to whatever Hetal has said in front of others and waited until they are on their ow before questioning or asking for clarification.

I hope the CVs have no intentions of brushing all this under the carpet!! They've gone to pains in showing the split happening like this so I would like to see Hetal suffer the consequences of what she's done.

Very true Nazma.. Loved the points at bold..
Whatever faults Koki has, she never lets the matters of the house and the respect of the members in the house reduce by showing her displeasure in public.. She even supported Rashi's pathetic performance at the garba by supporting her to Savitha ben..
But Hetal's actions show her in real bad light. She seems to want to make it public.. 😕 She is the elder bahu of a family.. If not for Kokila, then atleast for the family name a little constraint would be prudent.. But no.. Her dislike for Kokila has crossed so much that she cannot see what her actions are doing to the family

I really hope Nazma that this is properly closed unlike other tracks.. Till now in SNS, none of the criminals and wrong doers have been punished properly.. It is time that Hetal gets what is due to her and so do UrShi.. And even Kinjal..
All have gone scott free for too long..😡

Originally posted by: 5cents

Hetal, I think is like a dormant volcano All these years, she just was having a build up and dislike for Koki and kept it wrapped inside, under the facade of java de. Now with Rashi's enormous pressure, she is not able to hide the dislike part hence the disagreement and sudden out bursts. All the drama will lead to hetal's metamorphosis.

It does look like that.. Either the CVs have made too much of a character change or this is the real Hetal.. Someone who pretended for 30 long years and is now ready to burst forward with all her hate and dislike..😕
Metamorphosis into what? I do not know.. To either her previous dormant state back to java dena.. Or it would burst and become completely extinct due to Rashi.. Let us just wait and see😛

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

It does look like that.. Either the CVs have made too much of a character change or this is the real Hetal.. Someone who pretended for 30 long years and is now ready to burst forward with all her hate and dislike..😕
Metamorphosis into what? I do not know.. To either her previous dormant state back to java dena.. Or it would burst and become completely extinct due to Rashi.. Let us just wait and see😛

Hetal, is becoming like Argon, won't chemically combine with anything else.🤢
I have always thought that she has been holding back a lot. She was intimidated by Koki and could never share her insecurity with Chirag or Baa. Maybe first 10 yr of marriage, it was fine, she took Koki with a pinch of salt. Right or wrong is besides the point but Koki is bossy and territorial (mera Ahem dhikra) period. Sometimes, it is quite difficult to work with such characters. So gradually she started disliking her but being java de types could never confront her or have a heart to heart with her either.

I'll give you one example...Have you forgotten the MIL & DIL competition where Koki & Gopi lost coz of Rashi. And rashi & Hetal won but nobody knew abt the kalakaries at that time so it was odd for Koki to get upset. She raised hell... we lost & I have never lost in my life lolz, it was ridicilous. Maybe Hetal, play it safer, was upset but kept it hidden which was wrong...if she would have cleared it with Koki it would have been fine but human physiology is unique.

I am glad if things are all coming out in the surface now. It is better to confront and sort out like Koki rather than keep it inside...it will be bad & ugly today but everybody will know and understand each other better after all the bitterness.

By metamorphosis I meant for the betterment of Hetal & Modi parivaar in general. I believe in fiction everything has to get sorted out by the end & it has to be the victory of right & good over evil so nobody is becoming extinct 😆 all extra hatred & kalakari will turn positive by the end😳

Originally posted by: 5cents

Hetal, is becoming like Argon, won't chemically combine with anything else.🤢
I have always thought that she has been holding back a lot. She was intimidated by Koki and could never share her insecurity with Chirag or Baa. Maybe first 10 yr of marriage, it was fine, she took Koki with a pinch of salt. Right or wrong is besides the point but Koki is bossy and territorial (mera Ahem dhikra) period. Sometimes, it is quite difficult to work with such characters. So gradually she started disliking her but being java de types could never confront her or have a heart to heart with her either.

I'll give you one example...Have you forgotten the MIL & DIL competition where Koki & Gopi lost coz of Rashi. And rashi & Hetal won but nobody knew abt the kalakaries at that time so it was odd for Koki to get upset. She raised hell... we lost & I have never lost in my life lolz, it was ridicilous. Maybe Hetal, play it safer, was upset but kept it hidden which was wrong...if she would have cleared it with Koki it would have been fine but human physiology is unique.

I am glad if things are all coming out in the surface now. It is better to confront and sort out like Koki rather than keep it inside...it will be bad & ugly today but everybody will know and understand each other better after all the bitterness.

By metamorphosis I meant for the betterment of Hetal & Modi parivaar in general. I believe in fiction everything has to get sorted out by the end & it has to be the victory of right & good over evil so nobody is becoming extinct 😆 all extra hatred & kalakari will turn positive by the end😳

Very well explained Tina..👏 I think that makes great sense..
It is better to share what you feel rather than get it all bottled up.. If you share it then there is no problem.. It could even be an outburst like Koki's 😆 It is all better because once the time crossed, Koki forgot about the loss. She did not harbor any hard feeling after that..
That is way better. I know someone who cannot withstand losing... 😆 I 've seen almost similar reactions as that of Koki's.. So maybe I am able to accept that easily.. Like Koki, once she makes her tantrums becomes her old self again... That is what is needed.. 😛

So hopefully what you say will happen and the Modi's can breathe some Kalaakari free air atleast for some time😕

Harini yes you right. Hetal has a pea brain, so she has to trash the old info for some new info, but they will come back and bite her where the sun doesn't shine.😈

Hetal is robot that has be reprogrammed.

As for the Jigar, you know where his brain lies.

They will regret it sooner or later.