My take on Love, SR and other related things..

I, with 100% conviction believe that the consummation has happened ...

-Gopi and Ahem, shy and introvert in nature,,, never needed words to talk about themselves or their feelings...have they ever used words to speak about themselves...NO... their eyes and gestures said it all...they used words only to discuss family matters rather than about themselves..

- even the verbal confession is for our sake, for the sake of viewers... Gopi and Ahem have confessed their love in their own way... they spoke through their eyes...they let out the feelings to each other... they saw love in each others eyes not on the day of holi...even much before that in the form of trust, friendship, care, concern and understanding, when the confession is done what's wrong in the SR...

-love is all about give, give and give ...it's not demanding ... it's not expecting anything...it's unconditional...today both ahem and gopi gave their pure and innocent love to each other...

-she being gopi, saw Kanhaji in Ahem... just as she offered prasad, bhog, flowers to kanaji... today she offered her complete self to him, her all senses...her heart, mind, soul and body to her Ahemji... and it can't get better than this👏⭐️

-i never thought, i would use the word beautiful, for a physical intimacy between a man and wife... yes it was the beautiful and aesthetic union ever

-there was no lust., it was love , just pure love between them...to me it was the milan of their hearts and souls in which their bodies played a part in demonstrating or expressing those feelings of love...

there was no biting of lower lip, or heavy breathing or pouting or any other physical gestures which determined the lust in it... it was the most beautiful way of expressing love... with tears in her eyes...it made even more beautiful and endearing to heart

as long as the satsang was here as long as the play was going on... gopi and Ahem ka milan hua in the presence of radha-kanha, with the backdrop of satsang songs... it was divine indeed...

As we say god descends when the divine intervention is needed... here Kanaji himself descended to make the milan of his beloved devotee Gopi with her Ahemji...

i feel, this is the best milan ever on TV...their milan was bliss supremacy.👏⭐️

for those who want logical explanation / proof rather than rant:

what else do we expect at a 7:00 p,m show, the vest, the broken bangles, the ear ring, the hug, the tears, the first few kisses prove that it is SR in a 7:00 pm show... they can't show more than this... and samjhdhar ko ishaara kaafi hain...

the breaking of bangles in bed is related with consummation even in movies like premnagar(1974) ' but still there are questions about if it is SR or not...😕

yes it is indeed an SR. by looking at the glow on gopi's face...her shyness, her blush, her dream state, her bliss everything proves and radiates a new gamut of emotions in Gopi...
had it not been the consummation...we couldn't have seen these many new expressions and feelings from gopi's side

hope all these are reasonable enough to prove that Gopi and Ahem and have consummated their marriage


Ahem remembering:

It does not matter if he remembers now or not, it does not matter to me...

Any person under influence will have the headache and will not remember in the first instance... he does not have any partial memory loss for heavens' sake ...it's just an instance,,, eventually he will remember everything...he is smart and eventually he will figure out everything... even without gopi telling him anything...

according to gopi, he is not under bhang,... and she expects him to remember it,..but does not expect him to talk about it... as she is aware of his shy introvert nature...so she will be confused initially,.. she will attribute his normal behavior to his office work or something else...

and had he remembered everything would you think he would have talked about his SR with gopi...

even now he will be the same Ahem teasing and demanding one...like he was until he had bhang,...he made enough attempts to come near her and wish her when he was in senses,... so here i feel... he might be more opening up to her and try to make her comfortable...

now...gopi will be in bliss... but Ahem might be normal self...shy working.. little conversations in his own style...

she will not cry... because she is not even aware that he does not remember it and he was under bhang influence...knowing gopi's nature... i won't think she will talk about the SR... ..she will never go and flirt with him or touch him unnecessarily and do all that stuff... she will be more shy and more happy...but by then Ahem will realize

and gopi will not expect anything more from him ...until he by himself bestow something on her... so they both will be just fine ...may be a little bit confused gopi... until she realizes that the ladoo had bhang in it...

Ahem regretting :

here we need to see... regret what?

regret the union with his wife - hell No... the man loves her and she loves him...when u are expressing love in such a beautiful manner, there is no scope for regrets...

yes he would have regretted if he had forced himself on her and if she was not in love with him... but here he knows gopi loves him and her shyness and her bliss will just confirm that she is happy with the union...so no regrets of what so ever from Ahem Modi with this regards...

he won't go back to shell...once he remembers... he will be more happy and we will see a new Ahem..flirting and teasing mode...making her comfortable...

Gopi's pregnancy:

this track, is being there for ever in films and in most serials in early 2000, in serials like kkusum and kyunki saas

do you think the CVs will take such a cliched and wriggled out route for gohem ' I don't think so, the way they showed gohem falling in love was done so meticulously and precisely by introducing trust, friendship, understanding, care, concern at regular intervals... they have woven the story so beautifully, where the lead pairs did not fall in love at the drop of a hat.. had we enjoyed their love story if they had their confession/SR during her accident or during navrathri or diwali... No...

this is a story where the lead pair have fallen in love over a period of almost 2 years... it changed from hate to love by adding new emotions to it...at every step

why else would they hurry up things now and move on to a old , trial and tested route and make her pregnant ..

and more over ...i am really disappointed the way people are even going to the length of DNA testing... come on..Ahem and Gopi love each other before anything else, there is a unbreakable trust between them...

Why would the CVs even gamble with the trust quotient, between Gopi and Ahemi...Trust is the foundation for any relation and they CVs are not dumb to stake Gopi and Ahem's trust and go with DNA testing

Going forward for Gopi and Ahem as a couple

saath rahega saathiya says it all... they are together forever... with kanha's blessings
all these days she said "Saath Nibhana Saathiya " asking him... requesting him to be her saathiya

now she got the answer and she says saath rahega saathiya... he will be by her side forever and ever

their relation, as a couple will move forward, leaps and bound, their love, their trust and understanding will keep them together for the rest of their lives...they will have romance and love filled life from time-to-time.. but it is not rosey all the way...because at the end of the day, romance is part of life and life is not all about romance

because it's life...they have their duties and responsibilities as a son and DIL... but as a couple, they along with their love between them will fight over all the trials and tribulations that life throws at them...

they both will together face the situation... example ... the upcoming split they will be together in it, support their parents koki and parag... that is the beauty of being a couple... as a couple we can together fight against any crisis any calamities with your saathiya by your side


ps: now this is a very very long rant... i have been reading a lot on the forum... which made me to write this up😛

**Edited**

Me first 😃

Wonderful post Munni. .And very good logical explanations.. It was really fun and made great sense👏 Any doubt about me agreeing with you😉

Actually I loved this take on the GoHem relation. And again I applaud the CVs.. Till now we have seen how Aham bridged the gaps in their relation but Gopi was still shy and hesitant around him.

But now after Holi, Aham and the viewers will be for the first time able to see the woman who has th knowledge that she is a wife to her husband completely , even if Aham does not remember now, this feeling can not be ever taken back from Gopi..

As you rightly put Munni, I do not think Aham remembering or not is going to make a big difference in their relationship. Even if he does not remember, he will put 2 and 2 together soon. He is not dumb..

Plus Gopi will not find out unless Aham explicitly asks her what happened and tells her he does not remember..

I think that is what will happen. But as you said, Gopi will not blame him. She will feel sad for sure and as always her expressive face will show her sadness to Aham.. We already know that Aham loves her. He cannot see her unhappy and hence will try to make her sadness go away.

Eventually I am sure he will remember. This is his special day too and something will retrigger his memory sooner or later. We will just have to wait for that..

The is no contesting the below points

- Aham loves Gopi

- Gopi loves Aham

- Both will always place the other above their own happiness.

- Both are shy

- Both are honest and truthful

So worst come worst Aham will be angry with Gopi being sad and will ask her point blank about hte problem. Gopi does not hide anything from Aham unless it is to save himself. But she will not be able to not tell him or the boy will piece it together himself..

So there is no worries of them ever going apart.

I believe you have nailed the pregnancy issue. I do not think that Gopi will be shown pregnant so early.. So there is no question of that..

Yes there will be tears, there will be drama.. But all will end well for Aham will remain with Gopi no matter what. He just does not remember anything that happened after he ate Bhang.. He has not forgotten his love for his wife.. So I am not worried..😃

I agree the pregnacy thing has been used so many times that I really dont want this. I would like Gopi and Ahem to really enjoy being with each other before a child comes along. 😃

Varshu.. Munni will give you a very good logical answer. But I cannot stop from answering..

First, don't think too much into the future. This is SNS😉

So what happens if Aham goes back to the couch. Well, I think Gopi will know well before that about the Bhang. But if he goes back to the couch, she will be confused first as Munni said but she is shy. She will not ask anything. How will she think Couch = Bhang? No too far off to make a connection. Maybe a timid, "Ahamji, you can sleep on the bed" would be all she says.

Now Aham will be confused but I think he will be embarrassed but happy. He was trying to get closer to her before Holi anyway so this will look like natural progression😃

If she finds out that Aham does not remember because of Bhang, again, she will be sad.. Very sad no doubt. But she will not regret it and she will be more worried for Aham and what he will feel when he remembers than about what they did. For what they did was pure and beautiful. Neither Gopi nor Aham will ever regret it.

Well about the pregnancy, it is too far off.. So all I would say is do not worry and take it as it comes..😛