Gopi's true Love - Unparallelled

First let me make this disclaimer.. This is not my analysis of today's episode.. I liked it.. I know a lot of you did not. But I truly loved it due to the following reason..
So instead of the rest of the drama, which shows us exactly how the other characters are going to be in the future, I am going to rant on why I feel so profoundly about GoHem today..😛

To be honest, I did not want them to have their SR today.. If we need to term what Aham and Gopi gave each other as that.. For now I think it was not a suhaag raat that happened.
It was not just lust but this was actually true love. Only love and completely love.. Their union was nothing less than that.. A union of souls..

The reason I am now this awed is because of Gopi.. Gopi, her love and her nature... This is exactly what Gopi would do. Give her Ahamji her everything and her love which she seems to have in undefined amounts...
How pure and profound is her love 😛

Gopi has always been a giver. Her love was without expectations of return. We saw GoHem compared to Radha and Kanha yesterday. They were no different today. Radha always believed in her eternal love for her Kanha. It was beyond everything else. Gopi's love is the same. Her love is beyond any pain that she underwent or will undergo. And for her Ahamji she would shower all the love she has because she totally believes he is hers and she is his completely...

Aham was under Bhang. We know that but Gopi did not. Even if she did, she would not have denied him anything. 😳

How profound was her love that she can see nothing but his love for her at all times. She is so forgiving and loves her Ahamji so much that she let him take what he needed without a question and without a doubt. She is pure and beautiful.. I have no words👏

I know some of you are disappointed that she deserved better. But I think, to Gopi, there is nothing better than her husband's love, verbally confessed or not.. It does not matter. He loves her, and he showed her how much. That is all she saw. Flowers, candles, perfumes, presents... All these are not Gopi's love... Her love is beyond all this.. It is the feeling that is important not the decorations...

We cannot take one thing away from today. Aham did want to make Gopi his. Whether he was under Bhang or not.. He loved her. And he loved her truly on Holi. There is nothing that can take this fact away that Aham loved Gopi and made her his own. He gave her the love she craved for, I do not know for how long.

I am not worried about tomorrow or the Holi afternoon in SNS.. Because I am still wondering how anything can be more beautiful than this...

Aham may forget or remember, He may feel angry or guilty, it does not matter. He gave his love to Gopi today.. That is all that matters..

I had the same arguments yesterday. Gopi deserves better, it did not meet expectations... I know we have a lot of expectations on what Gopi deserves.. And I know she will get what she deserves.. Completely and totally.. But remember our expectations are not Gopi's.. For Gopi, her only wish and expectation is already met..

It may be from tomorrow or it may be from a couple of months from now or may be a year from now.. I am sure Gopi will get what we think she deserves.. Flowers, candles, gifts...

But what she got today and what her Kanha blessed her today with cannot be taken away from her..

Radha never had it easy. She still loved her Kanha.. Gopi also never had it easy but she still kept loving her Ahamji and her love became true today.. Her tears of joy... That moment I realized I am looking at this the wrong way.. Like Gopi and Radha, I need to look at what has been given rather than think of what happened or what may happen...😛

I did think that Gopi deserved a confession first but that was till I saw the episode.. No.. This is not wrong.. Life throws the unexpected all the time. Gopi's life is no different. But today marks a new beginning for her.. For the first time Gopi felt completely loved and she belonged and I am going to enjoy this moment and memory with her..

Like Gopi, I will also look at the future with smile because though things may go wrong from here, Kanha finally never fails his Radha.. Whatever happens, Aham will not fail his Gopi..

I know it is a long rant.. But I am still awed at Gopi.. Her pure love and her total faith.. Hats off CVs👏


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Harini...that was the most profound and beautiful analytical rant I have read. I loved how you portrayed what we all have forgotten...and that is what Gopi wants and we want for her is as different as night and day. To her, just being loved is more than enough. This is a girl who has never had anyone or anything belong to her and her only. And now she can claim Ahem has hers and hers only. And that is the biggest gift for Gopi. She doesn't need any superficial gifts to know...what she got today was enough. I still don't believe they had their SR, but that is for another thread...

So well said Harini !!!...Love is what has happened today & that is more important than anything else...Ahem had shown Gopi how much he loves her & she has shown him how much he means to her !!!

harini you relaxed me a lot.
when i watched it live i was like oh god not now
but after reading you analysis, i m going back to watch it again.
i loved the way their union was presented.
nothing awkward, nothing uncomfortable
smiple, sweet and innocent just like them

but i still wanted him to confess first and act next.
since things are over, i m keeping my fingers crossed that he will remember

very well said Harini👏 I am not disappointed in today episode...Though i am worried whether Ahem remember or not, i still think he will remember something if not all. I love how u take on Gopi point of view. She's indeed the giver...

bravo bravo well said dear bravo 👏👏👏👏👏

harini.. very good analysis.. I am not going to more.. just copy pasting some lines from ur ananlysis.. which are in my mind too.. 😊

"But remember our expectations are not Gopi's.. For Gopi, her only wish and expectation is already met.."

"Aham loved Gopi and made her his own. He gave her the love she craved for, I do not know for how long."

"Gopi.. Her pure love and her total faith.. Hats off CVs👏"

Hatsoff to u too harini for bringing out such a wonderful analysis 👏

wooow thanks harini..!👏👏👏👏 your post gives relief to me..!it brings my smile back...!😃😃

lovely post harini...what u said about gopi being a giver is so true...she is the epitome of love and innocence and pure soul...thanks for the much needed post

Hrini the most beautiful description of Gopi's character.

My first thought was oh no the SR happened and then that's it. I was at a war with myself about it, but I finally concluded that it matters not whether it happened or not, Gopi finally got what she has always prayed for her Saathiya, her Ahemji, whom she loves unconditionally.

Simplest things make her happy, and this was the most happiest moments of her life and she is ecstatic, on cloud nine, nothing can touch her happiness today.

He showed her that he cares, and I think actions speaks louder than words, so the message was sent by Ahem's actions and was received by her. All she needed to do was look in his eyes to see the love and his touch did the rest.

So yeah I am with you, as far as I am concerned they are truly together now.