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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just some random thoughts...

I was just going thru the valentine day's episode & the way Ahem said eat as much as you feel like eating, rest I will eat...I do not why but that is such a sweet scene & talks volumes of love & comfort between a couple !!! These are day to day situations & as women it becomes difficult to handle & you want your guy to just reassure you saying please do not worry, Im here for you !!! It could be standing in a line, protecting you as you walk in the crowd, help you finish meals etc !!! Ahem has become such a dependable guy for Gopi !!!
A friend of mine got married to a guy who by choice was a vegetarian, so whenever they went out , they would order a non-veg dish for my friend & my friend told me that her husband would serve one piece on his plate so that the others who look around will not comment in a negative way that his wife is completely hogging on the non-veg dish alone!!!
I remember a date of mine, when we had gone out he insisted we order separate things for ourselves, by then he had already decided what he wanted to eat...I had all the butterfly knots & knew I could not eat, so I declined...he kept on insisting we order separate dishes...I hardly touched mine that night...that night if the guy had been sensitive & ordered one thing for us to share or said eat as much as you can, I will finish it off ...Im sure I would have been impressed by him !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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navya truly .. Ahemji is going.. out of his way to make her comfortable and to extend his support and care for her ...

the scene really touched my heart ... awesome...they shared everything till now from room..to bed..to pain, happiness, dreams...and now the food...
they say 'joota khane se pyar bhadtha hai" very true...

somehow i am not able to put in words but i feel the above statement is a truth...😳 of course from my experience😳

ur friends husband needs an applause šŸ‘ great guy...
and the other guy..in ur date...let's forget himšŸ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awww...my dad just loads food on my mom's and our plates! I don't like it as it makes me too full-but neither can I reject it because he does it out of love.

I was a little appalled when Ahem told Gopi that he'd finish hers too (in a good way of course)...coming from a guy, who wouldn't even want her to serve him food or breathe in the same room as her--it's definitely a point of significance. Those little things go a long way...šŸ˜


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

navya truly .. Ahemji is going.. out of his way to make her comfortable and to extend his support and care for her ...


the scene really touched my heart ... awesome...they shared everything till now from room..to bed..to pain, happiness, dreams...and now the food...
they say 'joota khane se pyar bhadtha hai" very true...

somehow i am not able to put in words but i feel the above statement is a truth...😳 of course from my experience😳

ur friends husband needs an applause šŸ‘ great guy...
and the other guy..in ur date...let's forget himšŸ˜†

Munni...I never went out on a 2nd date with that guy šŸ˜†
I also agree on 'joota khane se pyar bhadtha hai" ..if your partner can share your food, leftover food from your plate, I will say that the relationship has moved to the next level of comfort !!! It speaks volumes that 2 people are in the process of becoming 1...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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First of I love this post and second agree 100% to everyones comments. Ahem in his own soft ways has shown Gopi his feelings and how much she has become an important of his life. These small scenes become huge in the grand picture of love
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Navya, it just goes to show. The way Ahem's dialogues since the kidnapping have affected us. We all want a man who is our hero and is there protect us and cherish us and not just some mamma's boy or an man from the old generation who thinks about himself all the time.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: RachP

Awww...my dad just loads food on my mom's and our plates! I don't like it as it makes me too full-but neither can I reject it because he does it out of love.

I was a little appalled when Ahem told Gopi that he'd finish hers too (in a good way of course)...coming from a guy, who wouldn't even want her to serve him food or breathe in the same room as her--it's definitely a point of significance. Those little things go a long way...šŸ˜


Hey Rach...when guys can take care of these simple things, it make us fall more in love with them deeper & deeper...it could be any relationship we have with them !!! Ahem now cannot pass a minute without thinking about Gopi ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What a wonderful post Navya!!šŸ˜›
And how very true.. I loved that scene šŸ˜ And just a couple of minutes back, Aham had told the ice cream guy that the plates be cleaned well.. šŸ˜› But he did not mind this😃
What a difference between this and the first day he took her to school. Even that day Aham decided to go in an auto to make sure Gopi reaches on time. But he was angry and unhappy about the fact.. I remember laughing when he tried to make the seat clean before Gopi sat..šŸ˜†
But the same man without Gopi voicing her wish to eat ice cream, just took her to a road side shop.. He made her comfortable by telling her that they will eat there as they are already there by chance. And the way he assured her he would take the leftovers if she is not able to finish.. Awww.. He is such a sweet guy..😳

Aham is dast becoming the perfect guy.. He assures Gopi when she is in trouble, reads her face and realizes it if she is worried and tries to make it all well with her and lets her enjoy things in her own pace. No pressure.. No conditions..
I am gone šŸ˜›
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyab

Munni...I never went out on a 2nd date with that guy šŸ˜†

I also agree on 'joota khane se pyar bhadtha hai" ..if your partner can share your food, leftover food from your plate, I will say that the relationship has moved to the next level of comfort !!! It speaks volumes that 2 people are in the process of becoming 1...


ooh please... he doesn't even deserve it...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyab

Munni...I never went out on a 2nd date with that guy šŸ˜†

I also agree on 'joota khane se pyar bhadtha hai" ..if your partner can share your food, leftover food from your plate, I will say that the relationship has moved to the next level of comfort !!! It speaks volumes that 2 people are in the process of becoming 1...

First of all, what a wonderful post. I agree with all of you.
I am not trying to make fun of you, but I laughed so hard that my family thought I was crazy when I read 'joota khane se pyar bhadtha hai".
I thought you meant shoes (joota)🤣
I was thinking since when Gopi vau is hitting Aham ji with shoes🤣

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