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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: JakeR
It depends after your hubster forgives u every time n forgets what you do. Does that mean he is dumb or stupid? again just a general Question 😆

That would depend very much on the nature of the mistake. If you forgot his birthday I am sure he will quite happily forgive and forget.

But what if you had deceived him in a major way? If he does forgive and forget too easily then he is a fool who well deserves you as his wife.

But we will continue this convo when Rashi breaks Jigar's heart... all over again 😆

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Rafeal

@Rafeal.

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Like i said Jigar aint a kid anymore. He better learn some attitude from his brother. It takes two to tango. If i was Jigar, Rashi would be in my lil finger tip by now. 🤣

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taniks

@taniks

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#33

An absolutely brilliant post ,munni ,couldn't possibly agree with you more.
So the modi family separation will be cos javenda hetal allowed her evil dil get to her . Two good things can come out this , gopi wisesup to rashie and also realizes she has to deal wud this snake for the rest of theirs lives so she has to toughen up a lot and learn from her mil to be an effective jethani unlike hetal . Rashies black nature is made known to all wot they do abt how the react wud her in the future is on their heads.

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

That would depend very much on the nature of the mistake. If you forgot his birthday I am sure he will quite happily forgive and forget.

But what if you had deceived him in a major way? If he does forgive and forget too easily then he is a fool who well deserves you as his wife.

But we will continue this convo when Rashi breaks Jigar's heart... all over again 😆

This again begs the question, how much is too much ? It depends on each individual again.. something acceptable to one may not be acceptable to another. For me, its rather relative.

It is neither dumb nor stupid, him overlooking things could be coz of a myriad of reasons - love, maintaining peace in the rship, the event being non-significant itself, an attempt to find a middle ground et al. People are influenced by very many things..😊

Originally posted by: JakeR
Like i said Jigar aint a kid anymore. He better learn some attitude from his brother. It takes two to tango. If i was Jigar, Rashi would be in my lil finger tip by now. 🤣

Definitely takes two to tango.. to put a great show or to muck it all up..

Personally Jigar still needs time to even consider wrapping Rashi around his li'l finger, he isn't interested.. Rashi is the eager beaver but her approach is all wrong.. Jigar needs way more than attitude to tame the shrew.. 😉

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Nihira-fan

@Nihira-fan

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

thanks nihira,,, analyst sounds like i am working in a financial company

hetal's trust on rashi amazes me...even after what she has seen with her own eyes😕

😆...munni,i meant you're good at analyzing characters...that's why i called you analyst.

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#36

I was soo right... hetal is the root cause...

and jigar the less said it's better

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: JakeR
Like i said Jigar aint a kid anymore. He better learn some attitude from his brother. It takes two to tango. If i was Jigar, Rashi would be in my lil finger tip by now. 🤣

yeah jake ... jigar isn't a thumb sucking toddler..

ohh please u high very high opinions of ur rashi... she only makes u dance... she won't be dancing on ur finger tips

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Naveen

@PN_luvs_Arjun

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#38

well said.. if Koki is not thr, MM will exist nowhere..

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Jammona

@Jammona

Navigator

Posted: 13 years ago

#39

Munni after watching Kokila and Hetal since the show began, I like your take on them and wouls like to give my take on your awesome topic.

Hetal:

She is all that you said and more.

She is patient too and like Gopi do not take hasty decisions.

She is the same when it comes to soothing others of their pain even if she cannot change them.

In today's episode, she did just that by soothing Rashi's fake pain and at the same time tried to make her see Kokila was not wrong. Yes she did not stress on her case or even say that Gopi too used to get taunts from Kokila.

She want to let Rashi do things freely in the house without any guidance ( apart from Urmi) from herself.

Rather than gradually tranfer her own share of work to Rashi and let Kokila know of her decisions, she is letting Rashi take control and in process manipulate things and causing a riff.

Kokila:

She speaks without a micro phone

She is a softie at heart even though she hides it with ease

She loves her family a lot especially her immediate ones ( Ahem, Ahem,Ahem and ...Ahem)

She is too strict and her methods of punishments are too much for a adult.

She loves control and commands everyone

She respects her elders despite being given the upper hand in the household.

She want to know every thing happening and final decision rest on her.

She does not want her Gopi bahu to take over from her but rather be a dependant on her for every little.

She does not want her to use her decisions and if she has an opinion then she should run it by her. She does not want to hand over her share of responsibilty to Gopi as she knows Rashi will run over her like she does with Hetal

She does not to guide Gopi to be independent as this may mean loosing her son in the process.

Together:

They are both good at heart and care and support each other when there is the need

They each need to guide the modi bahus capable and stop this ( more for Kokila) my bahu and your bahu but take care of their bahus.

They should let the bahus take charge of the household duties guiding them just like the boys are doing with business with Chirag guidance

They should encouarge their ideas as their husbands are young and of this generation

Gopi:

She has all the positives and negatives that Hetal has and therefore should learn fromHetal's mistakes and start opening her mouth and put Rashi at her place and at the same time like Rashi said, she should start using her head as well not only her heart.

Rashi:

Another Kokila in terms of wanting everything; power,fame,recognition,attention and both care less about love

She is not perfect but needs proper guidance and only one that can give this to her is Kokila as she is her replica.

Actually there is nothing wrong in asking her husband to join her in bed to end the feud but we all know her intentions are wrong.

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#40

@ kamjal thanks...

hetal : u just gave a new twist to the tale,...she possess all these qualities ,,, but she does not to stand up or face the crisis with out koki...

yeah hetal can sustain and live peacefully, only if Rashi is not her DIL... with rashi as her DIL...her very own sweet characters are forcing her into deep deep trouble...

here i am trying to say hetal as a MIL is a total failure

Koki:

Koki loves Ahem and Gopi equally ... she does not differentiate between them,, she in fact loves gopi more than her own daughter kinjal

ohh come on kamjal now i don't want to start again on my koki thing ... i have talked enough...these things have been discussed day in and day out... if u still want anything to read about koki ... i can give all the links to the discussions

Together : gopi can manage the whole kitchen, rashi can't prepare a meal correctly ... it is the duties of the MIL to guide them and tell them,...

koki does guide and tell gopi...

but hetal can not say the same thing to rashi... she says javadena and she herself does the work of rashi.

If Rashi does a mistake... hetal says javaena... she can't set right or guide or train her DIL... so the responsibility is on koki... she taunts and tells rashi to do better job... this irks rashi fans...they all think koki is wrong...because she is taunting rashi

but the truth is Koki can just shut her eyes and ears .. if Hetal has taken over the role of a MIL... no hetal failed.. the responsibility to set the younger DILs is on koki's shoulders

Gopi - don't compare gopi to hetal... gopi listens and understands what is right and wrong and sticks by it...

hetal , how ,many ever times koki said... she just pays a deaf ear...she again started off with trusting rashi ..hetal is more experienced... can't she see rashi's intentions

Rashi : again and again i repeat myself please do not compare evil rashi with my koki

Rashi - lies

Koki - does not lie

Rashi - selfish to the core

Koki - never ever selfish

Rashi - pretending with a sweet mask

Koki - straight forward

Rashi - uses the loved ones as pawns...gopi, jigar and hetal for her selfish motive

Koki - i need not tell this

Rashi - wanting to take over the rights of jhetani

Koki-got the rights from jhetani because Hetal is a failure... she cannot take care of MM

Rashi - emotionally and physically hurt people -gopi main bearer of her torture