Agony and Ecstasy of Gohem LOVE... - Page 2

Awesome post...loved it...2 different phase of Ahem...a arrogant n now a loving caring toward gopi..

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

"If we could decide who to love, then, life would be much simpler, but then less magical"

Beautiful Tina.. Just beautiful 👏.. How true the above said words are... Very meaningful⭐️
Fantastic post Tina.. Yes Aham has come a long way from being the arrogant, mean husband of his gawar wife..
These days he has a smile on his lips when he comes home. He is still the take charge guy he previously was but has become more of a family man too.. Gopi changed him slowly without him realizing the change happening..
The eyes that held nothing but despise and hatred for his wife has now started to have pride and love for the same girl. She without changing has brought about the change in his heart by being herself.. An today he seemed to question himself as to whether he has indeed got his saathiya.. A question to ponder over. This Aham will make sure of his own feelings before he declares them as he now does not want to hurt his wife anymore.. One day we will see, I hope the true saathiya that Gopi deserves.. Aham has made a more than great start..

Thanks Harini! Ya, these days the smile is very visible on Ahem's face. Ahem was initially very dissatisfied with GOPi, hence we were treated to his the anger & cold rigid ethos🤢
Well, the thing that worked for Gohem was that Koki, taught them to treat the symptoms rather than the causes...when we go into history... what, when, how, went wrong... all hell breaks loose our treating symptoms rather than causes are very important. From the day, Ahem saw, her willingness to learn /study he stopped looking into her faults, but he thought that, how she'll fit into my expectations and bingo everything fell in place. Ahem is certainly in love but yet in denial 😉 When one is in love one always stats by deceiving oneself 😛
From Gopi Ahem has learnt that ...Love is not a desire or a feeling of give and take,Instead it is a pool of all emotions where you just need to give without expectation of returns & returns will follow if the love is genuine...this is what will happen now😳

Originally posted by: Hetp

Awesome post...loved it...2 different phase of Ahem...a arrogant n now a loving caring toward gopi..

Sometimes while watching i actually wonder...is he the same Ahem Modi??????

but then his loving ,caring..looks assures me that ..ya...he is the same Ahem modi

Hetal, this is what true love does...when we love truly... we don't loose a part of ourself but we become one with our loved one!😳 Ahem is a changed man today, as he has undertaken the longest journey...that is eighteen inches from his head to his heart... earlier he was ruled by his head now his heart has taken over.😳

Awesome OP and pics and awesome replies 😎

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Tina awesome post dear👏

Love isn't a decision , it's a feeling. If we could decide who to love, then, life would be much simpler, but then less magical

this line says it all

her innocence has taken over the ego and pride in him

her kindness has taken over the harshness and unkindness in him

her helpful nature took over the opposing nature in him

her inner beauty has taken over the beast in him

her calmness and serenity has taken over the anger and arrogance in him

her love has finally taken over the hatred in him

P.S: Love both Ahemji's isn't he yummy like a larva cake😳

Ahem ji is becoming irresistible by the day...can't stop loving him lol😳😆
Munni, Gopi has shown Ahem that...when we really care for someone we don't look for mistakes. Instead we fight the mistakes, accept the faults and overlook the excuses😳
Hence, today Ahem has been successful in locking his ego ( that's why we got the GN sms😉)& wants to walk hand in hand with Gopi😳

Originally posted by: -Vrinda-

wonderful post ...
there is so much differnce in that ahem modi and the present ahem modi...

Change is the law of nature😉 He is changing for the better so we are all ecstatic 😳

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Awesome OP and pics and awesome replies 😎

I miss some of the best threads when I go to sleep! 😔

Awww Shaun...Thx. We are getting all these posts as the Gohem love Xp is progressing well. Heart gives me strength and believing in it gives me hope to keep going happily.😳

Lovely post Tina. You have said it all and the pictures shows the difference. He has come a long way.

Thank you so much for the Pics and the reminders. I always wondered how they can change Ahem's attitude, I am glad the change was brought on gradually, it is more believable.

Tina, lovely pictures of Ahem's agony in the past and the ecstasy he is going through now.