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Posted: 13 years ago
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thanks everyone i remember shaun saying that it would be rashi getting ready for a big fall but in reality it has been us we got the fall instead so yes the cvs are heading in the right direction but what would also be fab is a kalakari out like kinjal n rashi letter that was sent to gopi before marriage n kinjals necklace kalakari
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Suk, although I do agree this confrontation is long due, I do not agree with you views on Kokila. I think she has every right ot be irritated with Ahem. And hopefully this will be the rude awakening we have all been waiting for.. Ahem needs to realize that sometimes it is important to think things through before doing something. He hated Gopi, he hurt her without thinking about the trauma he was causing.. He admires her(picking it up from the article), then he follows her naively without thinking what he is making Jigar go through. It is not done.
Plus the article does not mention that Koki is angry with Gopi. She is just angry because Ahem
1. Ignores business
2. working on RaJi relationship

Well the first one was long due and when Kokila knows that he cancelled Jigar's trip in the last minute then she is definitely going to be angry. You do not become successful in business by cancelling meetings in the last minute with important clients and for what purpose?
Gopi is naive and follows Rashi blindly. But Ahem is a worldly man right? The man who considered his wife unworthy for ordering a 5 lakh necklace now wants his brother to forget Rashi's betrayal? Ahem needs to realize that he has give Jigar his space and time and if Jigar is not able to make it clear, I am glad that Koki is..
Koki did start out aas a MIL who wanted a doormat of a DIL but she changed. She changed for Gopi. Plus Koki is fair,. She will not blame Gopi. Angered by their proximity, as mentioned in the article is I hope just angered by Ahem blindly following Gopi without thinking through..

After all at least one person in the relationship needs to be a logical thinker.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The Koki and Ahem story is just going to kill it for me as more concentration will be put on that then making Gopi and Ahem turn into a proper couple. No matter how much Ahem supports Gopi hes just not making the move to turn the friendship into more and it quite evident its a long way to go since he has no intention of admitting he loves gopi if he even does feel that way at all. I feel it will be another year or 6 month before or if we get there at all. If the story doesn't move then trps will drop further. Trps have drop due to expectations of Ahem and Gopi coming together and it not happening. They didn't have to spice it up all they had to do was bring Gopi and Ahem together. I'm guessing they have no really storyline after consumation hence they are over stretching it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Suk, although I do agree this confrontation is long due, I do not agree
with you views on Kokila. I think she has every right ot be irritated
with Ahem. And hopefully this will be the rude awakening we have all
been waiting for.. Ahem needs to realize that sometimes it is important
to think things through before doing something. He hated Gopi, he hurt
her without thinking about the trauma he was causing.. He admires
her(picking it up from the article), then he follows her naively without
thinking what he is making Jigar go through. It is not done.

Plus the article does not mention that Koki is angry with Gopi. She is just angry because Ahem

1. Ignores business

2. working on RaJi relationship



Well the first one was long due and when Kokila knows that he cancelled
Jigar's trip in the last minute then she is definitely going to be
angry. You do not become successful in business by cancelling meetings in
the last minute with important clients and for what purpose?

Gopi is naive and follows Rashi blindly. But Ahem is a worldly man
right? The man who considered his wife unworthy for ordering a 5 lakh
necklace now wants his brother to forget Rashi's betrayal? Ahem needs
to realize that he has give Jigar his space and time and if Jigar is
not able to make it clear, I am glad that Koki is..

Koki did start out aas a MIL who wanted a doormat of a DIL but she
changed. She changed for Gopi. Plus Koki is fair,. She will not blame
Gopi. Angered by their proximity, as mentioned in the article is I hope
just angered by Ahem blindly following Gopi without thinking through..

After all at least one person in the relationship needs to be a logical thinker.


agree with u completely...very well said. I just dont think Koki is that negative
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree about Kokila...she may be fair and all but she is a total control freak with a hypertension disorder. Slight mistake from her vahus and family can make her go off the tangent...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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totally agree with you suk.. lovely post 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Kokila is a dominating and autocratic person in general, and has a misplaced sense of importance as far as Ahem is concerned.

This probably stems for her own childhood which we learnt about when Nani visited.

She needs to be in control of Ahem's life and do everything for him - the way she fussed over him when he cut himself shaving, you would think he was going to bleed to death.
I don't think she purposely chose Gopi because she was uneducated, she genuinely liked her personality and thought she would look after Ahem's needs like a doormat. She wanted someone whom Ahem and herself could order around and dominate over - and who would complacently take it all without saying a word.
We have seen Gopi gaining confidence slowly, through her education as well as Kokila's encouragement. But I think now Kokila feels threatened not because of Gopi but more because of Ahem's response to Gopi.

As for Kokila's relationship with Parag, I feel the current state of their coldness to each other stems from her nasty comments and his chosen profession that does not give her financial security in the family. We have to be thankful that Hetal is the quiet accepting kind...

Good Luck


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Posted: 13 years ago
#18
Suk i love your post!😃

Whenever i read your posts Suk,i end up smilng or laughing,your so cute!😳

The way you present how frustrated you are at the show and write about it is just so adorable!🤗

P.S agree with your post,Koki is not that bad but she is a very demanding and has too many expectations from everyone
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Suk great post...

agree with the first part she wanted a naive girl but not to dominate her for ever... all through her life...

she wanted a naive bahu only so that she can train, mould or change the new naive bahu to be like her and to be able to take care of the modi household just as she does... we all know how competitive spirited she is... being the younger DIL she still rules the house... she wanted and trained Ahemji to be the best in business,.. she also wanted a DIL whom she could train under her guidance to take care of the modi household ...

we all know, and koki knows it as well, people like Anita and Rashi would never listen to koki ... they would never care for the house ...and whoever would be Hetal's bahu may be taking koki's place in the house which she never wanted,,...

In the early days she treated gopi pathetically... frightened and terrified the girl... but that is her way of teaching unlike Hetal who could not teach anything to her DIL... all she did was Javadena and carried on with Rashi's work as well,,,...but as time progressed...when she came to know about Gopi's character...she is more loving and caring and she is proud of Gopi...

Coming to being angry on Ahem is not for him being close to Gopi... but Gohem helping RaJi and Ahemji ignoring his work to help them...


I have one more angle to see this:

koki felt a sense of pride that gopi listens to whatever she says and never does anything with out telling to koki... in a way she has her control over gopi ... kinjal and ahem once in a while argue and disagree with kooki..but gopi never does that... so she feels proud of gopi

- now in the present situation koki is obviously worried about ahem neglecting his work and concentrating more on his wife...
- but the main reason for her attitude is gopi has recently started looking forward to ahem instead of koki

she is insecure about gopi bahu not looking upto her but she is looking upto ahem for comfort...
gopi bahu is not listening when koki tries to say something but she is listening to ahem...
so the insecurity is not that ahem is concentrating more on gopi ... but the insecurity i think is gopi is looking upto ahem more than her

it's not about loosing her son to dil... but her dil to her son...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Suk great post...


agree with the first part she wanted a naive girl but not to dominate her for ever... all through her life...

she wanted a naive bahu only so that she can train, mould or change the new naive bahu to be like her and to be able to take care of the modi household just as she does... we all know how competitive spirited she is... being the younger DIL she still rules the house... she wanted and trained Ahemji to be the best in business,.. she also wanted a DIL whom she could train under her guidance to take care of the modi household ...

we all know, and koki knows it as well, people like Anita and Rashi would never listen to koki ... they would never care for the house ...and whoever would be Hetal's bahu may be taking koki's place in the house which she never wanted,,...

In the early days she treated gopi pathetically... frightened and terrified the girl... but that is her way of teaching unlike Hetal who could not teach anything to her DIL... all she did was Javadena and carried on with Rashi's work as well,,,...but as time progressed...when she came to know about Gopi's character...she is more loving and caring and she is proud of Gopi...

Coming to being angry on Ahem is not for him being close to Gopi... but Gohem helping RaJi and Ahemji ignoring his work to help them...


I have one more angle to see this:

koki felt a sense of pride that gopi listens to whatever she says and never does anything with out telling to koki... in a way she has her control over gopi ... kinjal and ahem once in a while argue and disagree with kooki..but gopi never does that... so she feels proud of gopi

- now in the present situation koki is obviously worried about ahem neglecting his work and concentrating more on his wife...
- but the main reason for her attitude is gopi has recently started looking forward to ahem instead of koki

she is insecure about gopi bahu not looking upto her but she is looking upto ahem for comfort...
gopi bahu is not listening when koki tries to say something but she is listening to ahem...
so the insecurity is not that ahem is concentrating more on gopi ... but the insecurity i think is gopi is looking upto ahem more than her

it's not about loosing her son to dil... but her dil to her son...



Wow Munny,long and excellent!😉😆

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