Journey of being together - Courting Her !!!

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When Gopi mentioned that the Teddy belonged to Rashi & that there were some strain in the Rashi & Jigar relationship ...did it strike to Ahem that their relationship also had gone thru strain & needed time to come to the stage they have reached now...His disappointment that the gift was not for him has made him realise that even now though they have a reached a common ground in their relationship there was still a distance which both need to cover...

He convienently put his thoughts to action & cancelled Jigar's trip...he convinced everyone that because of client's other priorities Jigar's trip has been cancelled...As everyone were convinced the 1st person his eyes looked for were her...he smiled at her as she did not know what his plans were...She assumed that the everything was working out to get Rashi & Devarji together while her husband had plans of courting her & getting her to open up to him!!! Ahem stayed back in the mandir for a few minutes longer as he was thinking if he was doing the right thing & if his plans will work out ???
As she thanked her Kanajee...he was just behind her...with a sly smile he explained to her that her words made him think & that they should get Jigar & Rashi together...he repeated her words that whoseever problem it was but they were our family...did he mean that the problems between them let it be hers or his...since they were a family now that they should work on it together...did her words make him realise & find him a way on how to reach her...
He was taken back for a sec if his mom heard everything & if he not be able to put his plan into action...After his mom left...he spoke to her clearly what he had planned...he told her that he wants to tell his mom & family about everything but not immediately...because their expectations will rise...did it mean that he is ready to accept their relationship in front of his family but wants to spend time with her without having his family round about them...he indirectly told her for now to just to keep it between them does he want to give her an opportunity to decide if she still wants to go ahead with their relationship even after what he has done with her in the past??? If she decides to move on...how will he react? will he take it on him in front of his family that the relationship has not worked because of him & give her freedom to move away from him ?
when she asked now that we have stopped Jigar what do we do next...her question got him into a thinking mode...the first problem in his relationship he has realised was communication between them & he wanted to work on it...He explained to her in business terms saying yes there are times when misunderstandings happen & meetings happen multiple times to clear that...did he mean that at the start of their marriage they had misunderstandings, but only after meeting her multiple times that he had actually got to know her...or did he mean that from now they will be multiple opportunities for them to meet each other that he will help them come close to each other ...is he going to create opportunities for her to close the distance he has created & make her comfortable in their relationship !!!!
Quoting example of Jigar & Rashi he told her that they should start talking to each other...did he realise that communication is important in their relationship & it is missing now & that he wants to get to know her...her desires, her likes, her fears, her happiness...does he also want to share his with her !!! He clearly told her that this will be possible only if they are together...when she questioned him how will she be able to do it all alone, he told her that she was not alone & he is also there...does that mean he wants to put in efforts to make her comfortable in their relationship...& that together they will move forward in their relationship !!! As the context was set, he set the plan into effect by telling her that he wants her to talk to him about anything masking his actual plan with examples of Rashi & Jigar...Does he want her to open upto him on anything & he is just going to be there listening to her !!!!
The next day gave him an opportunity ...As planned she called him & told him about the plan 2 go to mandir...so will he utilise the 1st opportunity to know each other...will he be able to build the first step for her to reach out to him...will he also be able to take the first step of knowing her !!!!
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Xarina thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Waited with bated breath for your post. You explain the journey so well. Thank you.
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Navyab ur analysis is bloody brilliant! I actually waited for u to come up with ur amazing Saathiya literature lol xx excellent xx
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Waited with bated breath for your post. You explain the journey so well. Thank you.

Thank you Xarina !!!!
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Originally posted by: Nadiamimi18

Navyab ur analysis is bloody brilliant! I actually waited for u to come up with ur amazing Saathiya literature lol xx excellent xx

Saathiya Literature 😉 ...liked it !!!! Thank you Nadia !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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awesome analysis of todays epi navya...its nice to see ahem using that brain of his for something other than work...
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Lovely analysis Navyab😃

You explain it so passionately😛
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Originally posted by: suk19

great analysis 👏

Thank you Suk !!!
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Originally posted by: varshu27

awesome analysis of todays epi navya...its nice to see ahem using that brain of his for something other than work...

Thank you Varshu !!!! Yeah Ahem has turned into a master planner to reach out to his love 😉
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Beautifully analysed , loved it nayab

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