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Posted: 13 years ago
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ok ok she is trying to change... but for how long

the girl

- has no patience
- does not try to work hard and is lazy
- is not resilient - when she breaks down she goes back to previous ways
- has no endurance to the taunts or ignorance by jigar and koki - she can't bear it
- has no guilt what so ever - she still feels she is good
- using gopi to get back jigar... not making sincere efforts from her side...


these are my view points about rashi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1



Kokila has numerous times pointed out her mistakes to her. She forgave her a lot of times like during the booth track. Another thing, Kokila is the same with Gopi if she makes any mistakes. Yes, she is proud of Gopi and loves to show off. But then what has Raashi done that gives pride to Hetal except sponge off Gopi's work. And we are talking about not a character change but for Raashi to develop a conscience. '
In one of the above threads there was a mention of how anybody would have taken the credit after the 'Shock treatment'. I agree. Human mentality and all that. But nobody would feel insulted that you were not praised for something you did not do.
The only way Raashi will learn is if she finds that her Mom's Kalaakaris are failing. When we say 'change' we mean just that... She can remain Lazy and Childish as she wants. But then let her lower her expectations from her in laws..

Sorry. But I really don't like Raashi. Jigar deserved better.


Agree...Completely Agree



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: CHIKA784

I agree with your post,i think Raashi is trying to change,she just needs some support and guidance from the whole family😊



Yes Chika.. Gopi is giving her just that. If Raashi listens, I mean really listens to Gopi then she can change. Today, if she had only done the timetable herself... She had numerous chances... And the Rs.1000 note, well it is good that she returned it back. Gopi helped her there by letting her know that she had seen the money when Kokila gave her.. Now I do not know if it because she really wanted to give the money back..(If pigs can fly..😆) or because she now knows that Gopi has seen it.. Whatever the reason, she returned the meny back. Good.
But the question is will she return it back next time if she thinks nobody is looking? So is that change? No, it is just using the circumstances to her benefit..
I agree she cannot change her deep rooted selfishness or greediness but if she really wants to be worthy of the house she is in, she needs to be a little honest.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

ok ok she is trying to change... but for how long

the girl

- has no patience
- does not try to work hard and is lazy
- is not resilient - when she breaks down she goes back to previous ways
- has no endurance to the taunts or ignorance by jigar and koki - she can't bear it
- has no guilt what so ever - she still feels she is good
- using gopi to get back jigar... not making sincere efforts from her side...


these are my view points about rashi



No arguments from me. This is all true. But that is what she was taught. Whenever she wanted anything she got it. Rashi excepts to be treated like she is at her peer. And she is old enough and educated enough to know better. She is a spoilt brat, who wants things to go her way and that it!!!
She has not learned anything. The scene that sticks out for me is when she bought that set puri for Gopi...she had good intentions. She may have made the wrong judgement...BUT with good intentions. Koki acted like she wanted to hurt Gopi. Also for Gopi's defense Rashi is responsible for that as well. I am leaning both ways...I still believe she is capable of being good with the right guidance...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Thamanna85

No need to apologise, your comments are your own views you should express them. I like Kokila too I think she is a fantastic character, but she is two-faced. Whenever Kokila has a go at Gopi and Hetal tries to defend Gopi, Kokila says "she is my DIL no need to come in between". Yet she is allowed to say how Rashi is treated. Why?

Kokila interferes with Raashi only if it affects the house as a whole or it directly affects her Gopi vahu. Koki is a take charge person. Hetal is not. Hetal does not say anything to Raashi if things are wrong. Kokila goes with discipline. Hence she corrects Raashi. She corrects Gopi when she is wrong. Spare the rod and spoil the child.. That is Kokila's mantra and she sticks to it. She rebukes Raashi only when she finds her actions too over the top.

Who put her in charge? I thought both Hetal and Kokila are responsible for their own DILs. Before when Rashi used Gopi to get to Jigar it was for selfish reasons, now it's because she is truly sorry and does want Gopi's help. That bad thing is she's using the same tactics. But like I said you can't completely change who you are.



I politely disagree. She is trying to get into Jigar's good books only because she misses the way she was able to easily manipulate him. If she really was sorry, she would not have slept and she would not have told Jigar that she made the time table.. Raashi need not completely change. But let her develop some conscience is all we ask. Why blame Gopi when she was caught and add to her guilt?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhabu89



No arguments from me. This is all true. But that is what she was taught. Whenever she wanted anything she got it. Rashi excepts to be treated like she is at her peer. And she is old enough and educated enough to know better. She is a spoilt brat, who wants things to go her way and that it!!!
She has not learned anything. The scene that sticks out for me is when she bought that set puri for Gopi...she had good intentions. She may have made the wrong judgement...BUT with good intentions. Koki acted like she wanted to hurt Gopi. Also for Gopi's defense Rashi is responsible for that as well. I am leaning both ways...I still believe she is capable of being good with the right guidance...



Yes.. Her intentions were good but stupid. But that is what you get after being cruel so long.. Kokila is a mother hen.. She is as protective towards Gopi as Ahem is now. Maybe more.. She has seen how Gopi gets manipulated by everybody... Remember Kokila telling Kinjal "Gopi can never say no.. She does not know how to.." Kokila protects Gopi and is on the look out.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rashi.krishna



koki is always testing her she never shows rashi the right path.. if someone shows it now i am sure she will be a better person.. now she is a lot better from how she was when she came to mm after marriage.. its due to hetal, jigar and gopi.. koki always insults her.. for someone with a charecter like rashi can never stand that..


I dont think that is totally right. She never scolds her for no reason. And she did try to teach her some sense in the beginning and also when Rashi was assigned under her care. Rashi is the way she is because of her mother. You can't teach something to someone who doesn't want to learn.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i want to believe that rashi has changed but unfortunatly today she uses gopis idea and hardwork and gave it jigar and also when koki gave her to much money her intention was to keep it before gopi walks into the room and informs her that she has been given more money than she needed to pay for the lundary. the day rashi does things from her bottom of her heart and without her mums influence she has a chance to make her marriage work.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree in that Rashi is trying to change, but she still has some serious obstacles to overcome before she can find true redemption! First there is a matter of her own impatience, pride and ego which won't be very easy to get rid of. She tries to do the right thing for 10 minutes and when it backfires on her face, she's back to square one, running to call her mom who has nothing better to do that fill her head with the stupidest BS! Which brings me to her next obstacle which is Urmila, herself. She thinks that she's doing her daughter a favor by giving her all those ridiculous ideas and kalakaris, but really she is just heading her towards ultimate doom. Rashi needs to see the true face and intentions of her mother soon before she sinks them both! Rashi should learn to keep her personal matters to herself and try to sort them out on her own without Urmila's intervention, and it might take time but things will get better! Especially if she can truly and honestly get Hetal on her side, despite everything she is her MIL and she does care about her and will help her if she goes to her with a clear heart! And then there is Koki...I really hope today's money incident makes her back off a little, because seriously Rashi needs some breathing room without someone scolding her for every little thing if she is to get on the right track! Being humiliated and belittled for even the smallest incident can be a huge blow to anyone's ego, and Rashi is no exception, so I hope Koki realizes that and starts treating both Gopi and Rashi at kind of the same level, this will make things better for Rashi, who is at this point starving for appreciation!

But for me, the biggest thing is that Rashi can not find true redemption until all of her previous kalakaris are out in the open because that way she can move forward with a clean slate! I mean right now there is that sword hanging above out head, waiting for another kalakari to be revealed which will bring another storm! So everything needs to start coming out, Rashi needs a clean slate and conscience, and hopefully once everything is out in the open it will give her a chance to truly repent for her mistake, and star afresh with everyone! I am still hoping for a true and both sided Gopi/Rashi sisterly relationship, because I think that would really be wonderful to see! Unfortunately though, with the pace the CVs are going, covering all of this will take another 5 years :(
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I feel rashi needs time to develop herself from her learned mistakes. i agree that she needs right guidance. it's not rashi's fault that shes a spoilt brat its her mother fault for turning her into 1. if gopi teaches rashi the right way she can mend

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