?Ahams feelings towards gopi

wow what a big difference in aham even in the past two weeks, i am now wondering is it Love or Care, duty as a husband or Guilt any ideas

its love and also duty of a husband to take care for his wife when she is not well

I have been thinking about this too Suk. At the moment I think it is in part guilt and care. Whilst Gopi is injured, Ahem has an excuse to touch her, hold her, carry her and do stuff for her. He may be thinking / telling his brain that he has to do this to help her. When Gopi has fully recovered and there is no reason for him to touch her again, I think that is when we will begin to find out how Ahem feels about Gopi. When he no longer has an excuse to touch her then what will he do? Will he miss the closeness?

Originally posted by: sandyuk

I have been thinking about this too Suk. At the moment I think it is in part guilt and care. Whilst Gopi is injured, Ahem has an excuse to touch her, hold her, carry her and do stuff for her. He may be thinking / telling his brain that he has to do this to help her. When Gopi has fully recovered and there is no reason for him to touch her again, I think that is when we will begin to find out how Ahem feels about Gopi. When he no longer has an excuse to touch her then what will he do? Will he miss the closeness?

it is confusing lets see what happens when gopi is well then we will see Ahams true feelings

Originally posted by: sandyuk

I have been thinking about this too Suk. At the moment I think it is in part guilt and care. Whilst Gopi is injured, Ahem has an excuse to touch her, hold her, carry her and do stuff for her. He may be thinking / telling his brain that he has to do this to help her. When Gopi has fully recovered and there is no reason for him to touch her again, I think that is when we will begin to find out how Ahem feels about Gopi. When he no longer has an excuse to touch her then what will he do? Will he miss the closeness?

each day i think ahem's feelings are being varied...

oil massage day - he said his mom that he has no problem staying awake (for her and helping her)
injection day - he was caring loving, helping her to take injection ... forgiving her after she slapped him
cellphone day - he was feeling desperate to talk to her ... missing her like a lover boy
the day gopi fell and yesteray --- guilt was clearly written all over his face
today - he was proud, happy, taking responsibility of his wife
tomorrow - he is a true husband and frustrated and angered that no one listens to him

Originally posted by: suk19

wow what a big difference in aham even in the past two weeks, i am now wondering is it Love or Care, duty as a husband or Guilt any ideas

ahem is head over heels in love with gopi...his heart knows it...his head though is going to take a while to understand it...

Ahem's feeling can't be labeled by a word in the moment They are so confusing even for him that he can't say what he feels and how deep these feelings run. I am sure that he has soften towards gopi, that he doesn't have hard feelings towards her and knows what kind of person she really is.

He feels drawn towards her but that might just be because she is injured and helpless. He is a macho man and therefore properly sees it as his duty to protect and support a damsel in distress as was shown in earlier epi's when he helped her, even though he still hated her then. However now is def different. He wants to be close to her as well and he wants to be the one taking care of her. The fact that he puts her first before everything most likely shocks him more then anyone else but he can't seem to help it through.

Also I agree with Sandy we will see what really is going on within him when Gopi is fully recovered and he has no excusses to be close to her anymore.

Originally posted by: sandyuk

I have been thinking about this too Suk. At the moment I think it is in part guilt and care. Whilst Gopi is injured, Ahem has an excuse to touch her, hold her, carry her and do stuff for her. He may be thinking / telling his brain that he has to do this to help her. When Gopi has fully recovered and there is no reason for him to touch her again, I think that is when we will begin to find out how Ahem feels about Gopi. When he no longer has an excuse to touch her then what will he do? Will he miss the closeness?