Why Aham should feel guilty

my take because he himself caused a lot of pain to gopi remember this

when gopi met his clients she did not understand what the guy said, but aham was furious at gopi he called her a unpar gawar jilal larki



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when we think of what rashi n urmilla n aham did to gopi we gringe but for some reason we still want aham with gopi, because he needs to make mends with her she deserves happiness

i agree. ahem should feel guilty for all he has done, this scene makes me cry, its sad, and shows how much gopi sufferd. ahem needs to be sorry big tym! and by loving gopi he will still need to ask for all the forgiveness but no doubt gopi will forgive him!

Yes you are right, Ahem should feel guilty and I bet he will soon. This scene was heartbreaking :(

When you say Ahem has to repent, I agree too.. But how is the question. Yes. He needs to feel guilty and apologize to Gopi. Sure... But should he loose Gopi to repent? I do not know.. Because to me Gopi's happiness is tied to Ahem. That does not mean he needs to get off easily. But to a man with high principles like Ahem, I think the biggest punishment will be when he comes to know how wrong he was. Not just his ego but I think his whole world will be shaken.
And yeah, let him suffer a little..😉 by trying to woo his wife back and getting nowhere.
But I can never compare Urmi or Rashi with him. They are both very mean people (Urmi is cruel to say the least). They always knew Gopi's nature and yet treated her the way they did. Ahem was mistaken at the beginning. His fault more lies on the fact that he was quick to mistrust, quick with his temper and too harsh. He set his mind up with an illusion that suited his needs. He justified his actions based on the illusion. He is more guilty of this than anything else. You do not marry a girl and just cast her away because of your own past and baggage without even trying to understand the reality.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

When you say Ahem has to repent, I agree too.. But how is the question. Yes. He needs to feel guilty and apologize to Gopi. Sure... But should he loose Gopi to repent? I do not know.. Because to me Gopi's happiness is tied to Ahem. That does not mean he needs to get off easily. But to a man with high principles like Ahem, I think the biggest punishment will be when he comes to know how wrong he was. Not just his ego but I think his whole world will be shaken.
And yeah, let him suffer a little..😉 by trying to woo his wife back and getting nowhere.
But I can never compare Urmi or Rashi with him. They are both very mean people (Urmi is cruel to say the least). They always knew Gopi's nature and yet treated her the way they did. Ahem was mistaken at the beginning. His fault more lies on the fact that he was quick to mistrust, quick with his temper and too harsh. He set his mind up with an illusion that suited his needs. He justified his actions based on the illusion. He is more guilty of this than anything else. You do not marry a girl and just cast her away because of your own past and baggage without even trying to understand the reality.

very nice pov i agree his fault was he was quick to judge n harsh i also agree he should not lose gopi i know i have said gopi needs to leave mm n aham but now he needs to see her because everytime he will see the pain he caused her the abuse not just verbal but physical as well, i want him to find out the truth n very soon because only then he will realize what a diamond of a wife he has, she forgave him long ago she does not hold on to grudges.

Originally posted by: suk19

very nice pov i agree his fault was he was quick to judge n harsh i also agree he should not lose gopi i know i have said gopi needs to leave mm n aham but now he needs to see her because everytime he will see the pain he caused her the abuse not just verbal but physical as well, i want him to find out the truth n very soon because only then he will realize what a diamond of a wife he has, she forgave him long ago she does not hold on to grudges.

Yup. Totally agree.. That will be his biggest punishment. To see what a gem of a person Gopi is. She will forgive him in a second, I have no doubt and will not even allow him to talk about punishment. After he apologizes and when he sees her goodness he will always keep in mind how precious she is and what a fool he was in not understanding her. I will like to see Ahem battling his own demons when the truth of the Kalaakaaris come out.

i still cringe when i think how cruel he has been to her .. 😕

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Yup. Totally agree.. That will be his biggest punishment. To see what a gem of a person Gopi is. She will forgive him in a second, I have no doubt and will not even allow him to talk about punishment. After he apologizes and when he sees her goodness he will always keep in mind how precious she is and what a fool he was in not understanding her. I will like to see Ahem battling his own demons when the truth of the Kalaakaaris come out.

After watching this scene , I had tears and wanted to cry... can't wait to see how kinjal gets caught, and then the necklace come out...

Oh man...when I think about all the things he's said to her, it definately makes me cringe...it's like he forgot the relationships of humanity because she was illiterate...he also blamed her for it, which was stupid...if he had anyone to blame, it was Koki...she knew her son, but she just thought of herself... I also dont think that the hospital episodes were enough torture for him...does he even remember what he did to her before? I wish that the CV's showed a soliloquy just so we'd know where he is emotionally...🤔

Well he now knows the pain of loosing Gopi...but that does not fill in for all what he has done...he may have not liked Gopi but humanity is what was expected...