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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem had a very tough night. From what seemed to be an easy task of taking Gopi to her mami's home to see Rashi, it turned out to Gopi accepting to give the ransom money with Ahem giving his permission and get her sister back with Ahem following her as her shadow. While the rescue mission was achieved Gopi got hurt badly and her life was hanging on a thread.
Ahem endured blaming himself to reflecting on bitter sweet memories to patiently waiting for a miracle. In these moments he had looked himself in the face and saw a helpless, dark and empty Ahem Parag Modi that he did not want to be.
With no shred of hope and his feelings and emotions running high, he insisted on going to talk to Gopi after pleading to the doctor.
Ahem's monologue was very dramatic and packed in with so many double messages. His key points were: she did not ask for his permission, did she not care for him, won't she listen to him and that he will get strict with her if she didn't stop this drama.
With him talking about her asking for permission, does this imply that he wants to have a right to take responsibility of her? His mum has put him in this position more so of late.
She had learnt to take care of him from Koki. 'Every little thing you do for him,' as Koki said to Gopi from time to time after nani left, 'will matter.' He has confirmed this.
When he was teaching her he enjoyed her attention she had given as she listened and have always listened to him. He confirmed this too.
He always thought that in their earlier days of marriage she was dramatising her actions and talk. He never believed that she was really like the way she had shown herself to be. Would this confirm his hard attitude towards her then as him being strict with her?
An interesting thing to note was that he withdrew when the family came into the room to see her conscious and kept his distance, telling her to take rest.
He was inwardly glad that she had regained consciousness but did not want to show her that he had closed the gap even more and that his heart had melted more.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Swasthi I love the way you recapped the whole night, from the moment he decided to take her to her Mama to the moment she woke up and his last words to her to rest. Excellent job.

I am going to take the last part first and say that I think he kept his distance, because for the moment he is relieved that she is back, and that's all that matters, there is plenty of time for the rest. His last lingering look, was a reassurance to himself, that she really was back, and now they only had to worry about her recovery.

He was never far from her while she was unconscious, but the moment she woke up he did move away, so yes he is still hiding his feelings, but the feelings are all there, and he, I think has finally realized also that he loves her.

To the way he woke her, the moment he decided to go in the room, he knew exactly what he was going to do. He knows her world revolves around him, he may deny all he wants, but this is the truth and he knows it, so only way to bring her back was for him to let her know that he needs her. That she is the only one who can take care of his needs.

My personal favorite was him demanding that she get up and make his green tea that very moment, and I think he finally reached her at that point.

One thing is confirmed for him now, he is now sure that her world revolves around him, and he has also accepted the fact that his world is empty without her.

I look forward to his changing behavior, and I think we will see whole new side of him from here on out.

Today belonged to green tea only!
I pray that she recovers quick so that he can have his green tea and we get some loving looks from him.

So cheers to our Ahemji and his green tea!





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Nice analysis again...i really liked your starting, pointing out all the incidents one by one, then started the analysis..Good..

Now comes the real problem aham modi's mind...i actually believe he is thinking that he is not in love but just showing some humanity or he is thinking that he put her in this state. But the reality is he loves her and that's why he got angry at every small incident and try to remain calm..

Also he was a good son too as he said that he would get some breakfast for the family...

All in all i think he will drive me crazy because i don't have the slightest idea how he's gonna realise he is in love?( Does anybody know how he realize he love anita?)

But anyways, nice post as usual...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

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Swasthi I love the way you recapped the whole night, from the moment he decided to take her to her Mama to the moment she woke up and his last words to her to rest. Excellent job.

I am going to take the last part first and say that I think he kept his distance, because for the moment he is relieved that she is back, and that's all that matters, there is plenty of time for the rest. His last lingering look, was a reassurance to himself, that she really was back, and now they only had to worry about her recovery.

He was never far from her while she was unconscious, but the moment she woke up he did move away, so yes he is still hiding his feelings, but the feelings are all there, and he, I think has finally realized also that he loves her.

To the way he woke her, the moment he decided to go in the room, he knew exactly what he was going to do. He knows her world revolves around him, he may deny all he wants, but this is the truth and he knows it, so only way to bring her back was for him to let her know that he needs her. That she is the only one who can take care of his needs.

My personal favorite was him demanding that she get up and make his green tea that very moment, and I think he finally reached her at that point.

One thing is confirmed for him now, he is now sure that her world revolves around him, and he has also accepted the fact that his world is empty without her.

I look forward to his changing behavior, and I think we will see whole new side of him from here on out.

Today belonged to green tea only!
I pray that she recovers quick so that he can have his green tea and we get some loving looks from him.

So cheers to our Ahemji and his green tea!





Many thanks Shilpa for the green tea.
Before I respond to your comment I would like to let you know that I will be away on holiday so will attempt to intermittently visit the forum.
Throughout the hospital scene we got to see Koki drawing back and him taking the lead. This is where we can say that now he will be there for all her needs as she is for him. He has realigned himself alongside her.
The next few weeks will show this process.
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Many thanks Shilpa for the green tea.
Before I respond to your comment I would like to let you know that I will be away on holiday so will attempt to intermittently visit the forum.
Throughout the hospital scene we got to see Koki drawing back and him taking the lead. This is where we can say that now he will be there for all her needs as she is for him. He has realigned himself alongside her.
The next few weeks will show this process.




You are very welcome Swasthi.

I hope you have a fabulous holiday, and I will miss your Ahem and Love posts, and our Friday night drinks. I hope you are able to watch the show wherever you are and see the changes in Ahem.

Yes, from the moment he decided to take her to her Mama's he was in charge of her, everyone else took back seat and let him do what he thought was right for his wife.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Swasthi loved your analysis of the whole night for Ahem Modi...

----I loved the way he woke her up by shouting at her...there was love behind the anger...
---i am not sure if he has feelings of love for her... but he is still not ready to admit it to himself... he is giving other names such as fikr hai and all that...
---but i want their relation to go forward in a slow pace where each one should realize that their love for the other is unconditional...
--wonder if we will see a new Ahem modi after going back to MM... will their relation go to next level...
--will gopi acknowledge ahem's concern and care to be love or will she think he is doing all this as a duty as a husband / guilt etc,..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice analysis again...i really liked your starting, pointing out all the incidents one by one, then started the analysis..Good..

Now comes the real problem aham modi's mind...i actually believe he is thinking that he is not in love but just showing some humanity or he is thinking that he put her in this state. But the reality is he loves her and that's why he got angry at every small incident and try to remain calm..

Also he was a good son too as he said that he would get some breakfast for the family...

All in all i think he will drive me crazy because i don't have the slightest idea how he's gonna realise he is in love?( Does anybody know how he realize he love anita?)

But anyways, nice post as usual...

Thanks so much.
I must let you know that I will be on holiday and will attempt to visit the forum whenever I can.
As he is taking care of Gopi his family will see his actions and could comment on it, like when Jigar did so.
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Much appreciated.
Tina I will be on holiday. I will try to visit the forum whenever I can.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Really nice post but I feel sad that ahem dosent no his in love
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Swasthi loved your analysis of the whole night for Ahem Modi...

----I loved the way he woke her up by shouting at her...there was love behind the anger...
---i am not sure if he has feelings of love for her... but he is still not ready to admit it to himself... he is giving other names such as fikr hai and all that...
---but i want their relation to go forward in a slow pace where each one should realize that their love for the other is unconditional...
--wonder if we will see a new Ahem modi after going back to MM... will their relation go to next level...
--will gopi acknowledge ahem's concern and care to be love or will she think he is doing all this as a duty as a husband / guilt etc,..

You are welcome Munni. Just to let you know that I will be going on holiday so will attempt to visit the forum whenever possible.
Agree, there was love behind his anger and he has feelings for her but is in denial state. The Ahem returning to MM will be a transformed Ahem as her will ensure that he is there for her to meet her needs.
Gopi will intially be confused and unsure how to deal with the renewed Ahem.

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