Ahem and love: taking charge

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ahem took complete charge of HIS wife and his family. He had shown that he can be looked up for support and comfort in a time of need.

For HIS wife, he realised that he had to provide her with emotional support and care. He displayed this through his body language, his actions and his words from making her eat, to stopping her from falling, to calling her into the house - his authority over her was overwhelming.
He observed her breaking down and praying to her kanaji (did he for a moment think whether she did the same for him when he was cruel with her?). He had seen her caring nature come through in pleading to Jigar to eat and her achieving her aim.

In turn, he made sure that she had dinner too. He served it for her, offered her his place at the dining table while he took the head of table position and watched her eat. This action of his implied that he was there for her and shown her his love for her. He did this once before on another occasion on day 1 of him teaching her. It was when he sat and watched her writing while he did his office work. It felt for a moment he was returning the favour to her at the time she took care of him when he sprained his back.

Further, he stopped her from falling and spoken softly and gently to her to take care. His mum was beside herself with joy inside to see his care and concern for his wife.

These little scenes when brought together display Ahem closing the gap further and breaking down the barriers that lies between them. His increasing authority over her will make her rely on him instead of her Rashiben or his mum. Is this what he is quietly achieving?

The anniversary day is not over yet. Will we get to see a bedroom scene before the next starts? If so, what can we anticipate to take place?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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todays show has been alright - not as expected though
but 2 scenes had bee fab and emotional
one scene was - gohem
where aham made her sit beside her and made her eat, was incredible. And am just waiting for that day when he speaks out but i think he has broken his silence.

The second scene was where Aham went to Jigar room and made him confidence that everyone with him.
This is the very 1st time we ever watched a brotherly scene in the show, and i was emotionally attached to it.
How aham tried to calm him down as an elder brother was fab.
How jigar hugged him for support was fantastic.
How gopi mad ehim do her kasam to eat was okay.
Overall i found these two scenes adorable..
But brilliant analysis

Edited by ayesha_78 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderfully writen hoped for more of goham ahem is in love
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Fabulous analysis Swasthi.

I loved today's Ahem, he was magnificent from the moments he spotted her crying her heart out in front of her kanaji to the moment he told her to come in the house. Leaving no doubt that he was taking charge of her.

His tone when talking to her never changed, it was soft and warm. In the past if he told her to do something he always ended up sounding harsh, but today when he served her the food, when he asked her to sit to telling her to eat the warmth remained. He was gentle when he caught her and again the tone remained the same, he was completely focused on her, unaware of the fact that his mom was watching them, he even gave her a reassuring smile.

Yes I expect we will get a bedroom scene, he has yet to wish her for their anniversary.

With more trouble coming to MM, and his mom being accused, and her saving the day again, his love will not know no bounds, and soon he will be ready to break this silence.

I loved the way he is taking charge of her, and making her more dependent on him, letting her know that she is his, this will definitely weaken the influence that Rashi has on her, especially since Rashi is no longer in MM.

For today's commanding, gentle and loving husband, I raise my weekly glass of our drink to celebrate.

Cheers!


Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Swasthi great analysis as usual!!

I have to say I agree with Ayesha!!
Episode was good, not as great as was initially expected but what I though would happen today due to all the reveals lately, and those were the scenes that really stood out!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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As usually ur today's analysis too brilliant !

Yes i'm looking forward to see more cute romantic scenes of Goham
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Posted: 13 years ago
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great anaalyssi once again

u are right..ahem proved that he is the elder son of the modi today and a dutiful husband too.

he obeserved how she hautned people with the eatings and he knew that she wont eat as she is heart broken her rashiben.

he saw hwo hard she weeped for her sister and the moment controlled herself when she heard koki voice and got the hint that his wife wont reveal her tears so easily infront of others.

she keeps everyone first than her and can change for them too.

so its his repsonsiblity to support her when she needed him.

the feeding scene was realy touching and the questioning looks of gopi made him undertstand that he have to go reall far to make her comofortable with him.

he showed the authority and the concern at the same time.

he scolded for being reckless in her health and a care to make her eat hovering near her.

when she was about to fall..she caught her and showed his concern no matter even noticing that his mom was standing beside him

for that one second she was the only world for him. and the way he was observing her near urshi..he knew she was melted towards them so he have to be strict with her in that matter for her own good.

the authority in his voice when he called her was a true husbannd style indicating her that she have to obey him.

a caring ahem with his wife and a brother was superb today

if love changes a person then i am sure ahem modi is in love.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Ahem took complete charge of HIS wife and his family. He had shown that he can be looked up for support and comfort in a time of need.

For HIS wife, he realised that he had to provide her with emotional support and care. He displayed this through his body language, his actions and his words from making her eat, to stopping her from falling, to calling her into the house - his authority over her was overwhelming.
He observed her breaking down and praying to her kanaji (did he for a moment think whether she did the same for him when he was cruel with her?). He had seen her caring nature come through in pleading to Jigar to eat and her achieving her aim.

In turn, he made sure that she had dinner too. He served it for her, offered her his place at the dining table while he took the head of table position and watched her eat. This action of his implied that he was there for her and shown her his love for her. He did this once before on another occasion on day 1 of him teaching her. It was when he sat and watched her writing while he did his office work. It felt for a moment he was returning the favour to her at the time she took care of him when he sprained his back.

Further, he stopped her from falling and spoken softly and gently to her to take care. His mum was beside herself with joy inside to see his care and concern for his wife.

These little scenes when brought together display Ahem closing the gap further and breaking down the barriers that lies between them. His increasing authority over her will make her rely on him instead of her Rashiben or his mum. Is this what he is quietly achieving?

The anniversary day is not over yet. Will we get to see a bedroom scene before the next starts? If so, what can we anticipate to take place?

Today Ahem not only claimed that he is not only Gopi's husband but also the head of the family...when the entire family is completely devasted ...both had taken up their responsibility as the eldest son & DIL & fulfilled their duties...When jigar was not ready to eat..she looked up to Ahem for support & he understood her...she took care of Hetal Kaki...all thru all of this, Ahem never could forget his wife...he knew she was hurt...he knew she will take care of all but herself...hence at every point he was thr for her...made her eat...treated her with chivalry like a princess for him...held her immd when she was about to fall.
When Urmilla drama was on Ahem took up responsibility immd speaking to Urmilla ...& when they decided to go inside..he knew that his wife is split between 2 families...hence he took the lead & asked her to come in...
One thing I appreciate about Ahem is that he is accepting Gopi as she is...he has no conditions that she needs to react this way or other ...she should behave in a specific way for him...He accepts her as she is...understands her & knows how she reacts, is always around her as much as possible to support her...I also had a feeling that since the night is not over, we might be treated to one finale scene of special moment between them on their anniversary...Swasthi ...I was just hoping we still have somemore scenes of the anniversary & then I C UR mail...Hope it comes true !!!! what say?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey great analysis..yar i cant believe ahem jis ko khana parosna parta tha aj usne gopi k liye dala uske liye chair pull ki aur khana poora khanay tak betha..wow..am in cloud nine
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Saath Nibhana Saathiya... this is what I see Ahem today..

Ahem has become a perfect companion for Gopi.. he is beside her each n every moment to care for her.. to support, to taunt, to encourage and to shower love..


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