Ahem and love: Day 9 Part 1 - Page 2

Swasthi, once again a fabulous posts.

I thought the tone of his scolding was rather different from the past scolding. It was almost as though he realized in the back of his mind, what he was doing was wrong, but once he started he couldn't stop. Then when he noticed that everything was there already he was surprised, but he didn't back down, but didn't stay to drink the tea either, that was rather a hasty retreat on his part. When they were leaving his tone once again had been calm, when he told her lets go.

In the past his scolding her like this would have annoyed me, but he may be trying to convey a message to her this time, perhaps trying to tell her, he depends on her to hand him his things, in the past he wouldn't even let her carry his bag back to room, afraid she might wash his laptop again or something, but today he asked her where his bag was, so yeah I think he is telling her he is going to depend on her to get his things ready for him, and next time she won't hesitate.

He was not only trying to look for the outlet for his anger, but in the course of releasing his anger he subconsciously let her know that he is ready for her to take care of his needs.

Lets see what happens when he returns home early on day 9.

For the first time I felt like he behaved as a husband with Gopi. Ahem was upset so he took it out on the person close to him . It doesn't mean he is angry with her, when they left the house later on he was back to being fine with her. This is actually quite a normal husband/wife thing.

It just shows how disturbed he was because he's an organised person and wouldn't usually need Gopi to hand him hsi laptop. He knows that Gopi, whatever he perceives her faults to be, will always bring his tea on time and wouldn't mess with his belongings. Also in the past when he has shouted at Gopi he hasn't been able to speak to her without getting angry later on as well whereas this time he was quite normal when he asked if she was ready to go.

Too true guys! Thankyou that's cleared things up...i forgot that he never wanted her to touch his stuff, so i guess it is a positive move and moving towards a customary husband/ wife relationship. It was nice how his tone softened and he even seemed eager to take Gopi to school!

I've kept my finger crossed for changed Aham

This was really great reading everyone , take on Ahems anger. I wish rattie would have watched and got the wrong idea.

I re-watch 21st episode again and again...😃wow!!! i must say i'm so shocked.😲 Ahem is not an angry young man anymore but he is now an angry husband of Gopi.😆 He wanted her to hand him tea and his office bag. He is very angry when his wife just stand and looking at him without coming closer to him or hand him his needs. I bet he also wanted her to help him wearing his clothes too...😳 it's not like scolding but it rather like demanding his wife in frustration to not standing so far from him without helping him. it looks like begging Gopi instead of scolding her. When he said: "You can do only one thing, it's standing like a statue." This behavior is so cute...and can be interpret that he needs her to come closer to him and help him with his needs..⭐️