no offence

i just dnt know why these cts are making it seem that goodness is a curse and that good ppl never ever stand up for themselves and the only time that a woman is strong is when she stands up for her rights- it is just stupid. those stupid idiots are obviously men who know nothing ab woman and their lives- we woman are strong every day of our lives and not only at specific moments of our lives they need to get that into their dumb heads- this story line needs to move forward either gopi moves out or they get her and ahem the creep to be together otherwise this show will end very soon

I agree with that, uneducated people don't get people giving them anything on a plate, most of them are orphaned and they have to fight to survive, as a result they know the behaviour of people in society as many people in society are unkind to them, they know how to deal with educated and uneducated people alike. So this business of being innocent is totally untrue, as Gopi was often cheated by traders when she was at her maami's with mithai order remember, so that is a perfect lesson learnt for her not to trust people. So I agree what they are showing is unrealistic as she would have lost her innocence and be weary and outspoken long time before this, as Urmila is a loud mouth, that is her female example, how come she conducts herself quietly, she should be a loud mouth too, because she would take that as a behavioural pattern to adopt.