Could Kokila be waiting for Ahem?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Could Kokila possibly be waiting for her Ahem dikhra to say or even acknowledge that he wants Gopi to get an education? Does she want him directly to take some responsibility for his wife maybe?
(or just wishfull thinking !😳)

Hoping that Kokila hasnt said NO just on some random saas type control issue basis.Just seems so odd that Gopi's education has been the thorn in her marital relationship yet Kokila is being reluctant .

If Gopi is requesting the opportunity to getting an education it is so odd for Kokila to refuse .



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Posted: 14 years ago
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I totally understand where you are coming from, yes at the beginning Kokila didn't want an educated or smart (street smart) wife for Aham, as she might manipulate Aham away from her, but I think she really loves Gopi and normally when you love someone you do anything to please that person, so it doesn't make sense why she would refuse outright like this, even not to bring a tutor in the house to teach her basic numeracy and literacy. So could be she is playing a game, like in Switzerland, to let Aham step up and request a tutor for Gopi, and with the papers today flying and Gopi not able to arrange them in number order and stuffing them in a drawer, it could happen soon. Aham will shout and if he can't get out of the relationship he will insist she is taught the basics.

Kokila is a wiley fox and she has something up her sleeve with this.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

I totally understand where you are coming from, yes at the beginning Kokila didn't want an educated or smart (street smart) wife for Aham, as she might manipulate Aham away from her, but I think she really loves Gopi and normally when you love someone you do anything to please that person, so it doesn't make sense why she would refuse outright like this, even not to bring a tutor in the house to teach her basic numeracy and literacy. So could be she is playing a game, like in Switzerland, to let Aham step up and request a tutor for Gopi, and with the papers today flying and Gopi not able to arrange them in number order and stuffing them in a drawer, it could happen soon. Aham will shout and if he can't get out of the relationship he will insist she is taught the basics.


Kokila is a wiley fox and she has something up her sleeve with this.


Hope so else Kokila's character will have been give a complete U turn which would be unfortunate. There is noway Gopi can survive in that house without Kokila's backing and seems so odd for Kokila not to want her Gopi bahu to be in a position where she can build her relationship with Ahem.
Maybe when looking for the rishta she didnt want a someone like Anita but now after knowing Gopi and her nature dont think Kokila will see her as a threat to her relationship with her son.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree with you both. That koki may want Ahem to take the first step. However I don't think that is the case. As Ahem does not think outside the box. Also with gopi stuffing the papers away ahem will see the papers a mess. Shout at gopi the usual then. I think ahem will complain to his mum about gopi , insulting her etc. Then I think koki will think educating gopi must be done. I just hope koki agreeing for gopi to be educated does not drag. I think Ahem will insult gopi making koki realise that her son needs to be put in his place. Therefore in order for that to be done gopi will become educated.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MARHABAA


Hope so else Kokila's character will have been give a complete U turn which would be unfortunate. There is noway Gopi can survive in that house without Kokila's backing and seems so odd for Kokila not to want her Gopi bahu to be in a position where she can build her relationship with Ahem.
Maybe when looking for the rishta she didnt want a someone like Anita but now after knowing Gopi and her nature dont think Kokila will see her as a threat to her relationship with her son.


The Kokila character loves to control everyone, she thought until Naani mentioned it all was rosy with Gopi and Aham, though she had to point (with her eyes and head) to Gopi when she wanted Aham to do a ritual or do anything with Gopi and similarly to Gopi with Aham, to her that was normal forcing them to do things together. She's ignorant too sometimes, so I don't really know where the CV's are going with this, or it could just be another delay tactic of they's, eventually Kokila gives in after some more persuading by Gopi and Hetal. Or she is waiting on Aham, but he has made it plain to her several times what he thinks of illiterate Gopi. We all say Aham has no heart but his mother also doesn't understand that the insults Aham throws at Gopi are soul destroying (just look at today's flashbacks, Aham insulting Gopi, she on her knees in their room with the wedding album...completely unhappy in this marriage). This could all be elevated by educating her, slowly slowly, first the basics then she will continue to develop herself.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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koki doesn't want a educated girl who will go against her so she brought a gavar in the house in a form of a DIL,
why would anyone think she will suddenly decide to get her educated?

or maybe she wants her son to take the decision by Golden boy ain't going to, as he hates her
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ayesha_78

koki doesn't want a educated girl who will go against her so she brought a gavar in the house in a form of a DIL,

why would anyone think she will suddenly decide to get her educated?

or maybe she wants her son to take the decision by Golden boy ain't going to, as he hates her


Some how think Kokila is more than just a MIL who wants to keep her DIL gawar - that just doesnt make sense at this point of the serial as Kokila has gone out of the way to try to improve Ahem & Gopis relationship.
But agree with you if shes waiting for Ahem dikhra to act rationally and insist his wife gets a basic education then thats not going to happen !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree, koki was looking for a simple and uneducated bahu for MM, so she might be thinking that if gopi gets educated, she will be more smarter than koki and go against her. But, I'm suprised that koki said no since she knows gopi very well and also fully accepts her as her daughter in law.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: MARHABAA


Some how think Kokila is more than just a MIL who wants to keep her DIL gawar - that just doesnt make sense at this point of the serial as Kokila has gone out of the way to try to improve Ahem & Gopis relationship.
But agree with you if shes waiting for Ahem dikhra to act rationally and insist his wife gets a basic education then thats not going to happen !


Gopi ahem relationship not going to last at all it happens in every serial, 2 main leads get married , later on they separate, another girls comes, at the end both reunite.

yes ahem dikra not going to give her basic education at all

but in my oneshot u should read it how i made aham educate her

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SNS_fan100

I agree, koki was looking for a simple and uneducated bahu for MM, so she might be thinking that if gopi gets educated, she will be more smarter than koki and go against her. But, I'm suprised that koki said no since she knows gopi very well and also fully accepts her as her daughter in law.


If what you say is true, Gopi is in trouble to have such a self serving mother-in-law...maybe her love of mithai's and ghee will kill her soon and Gopi and Aham will be free...

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