Frustration and Anger: Share it Here - Page 8

Originally posted by: siri25

i really wish they make changes in the track of the serial bcos there is a lot of scope to make it entertaining as there is a lot to be done in the relations between the lead couples.
why dont they show anything meaningful on the show?
all they show is urmi n rashi talkin useless kalakaris and gopi exceeding the limits of dumbness.poor ahem.he really doesn't deserve a retard like gopi. and jigar?? what the hell is he waitin for??
he must understand by now that rashi has no interest in him.

I have been watching this show since it started, ahd frankly,even if I had only watched the first one month, and then stopped in between and now stated watching again,I wouldnt have missed anything. Gopi is still illiterate. She is still unable to hold even a one line convo with Ahem.Rash is still upto her tricks. Koki is still forever glaring but not doing anything. ONly dfference is that Kinjal is now married.

I cant understand how the CVs show Kokila as a very smart woman, who sees through Rashi's plot. BY now she should have figured out that all the stupid things Rashi does, are designed to create a rift between Gopi and Ahem.Once she gets this, obviously she will do whatever it takes to have Rashi thrown out, or to reform her.

What I cant understand is that on the one hand they show her as so intelligent that merely by lookin at Gopi's istressed face, for instance, she realises Rashi's jaagran suggestion is not her own but Gopi's idea. On the other hand,she hasnt got the basic fact that Rashi wants to get Gopi thrown out of the house, or at the very least keep the huge gulf between Gopi and Ahem the way it is. How can one person be intelligent and stupid at the same time?

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Another irritatng thing is that Kokila knows her son well. She need not make Gopi into another Anita. BUt she can definitely try to teach her the basics, get her to learn to read and write, how to behave in a restaurant etc. Gopi is not dumb. Its just that since childhood she has never had any feeling of securit, and her aunt and cousin always put her down so self confidence is zilch. A woman can be very progressive even in a sari. All Gopi needs is a little education, a little confidence, and a little training in the ways of the "modern" world- the burger pizza , mall world!:)

How come Koki who is otherwise so intelligent, has failed to grasp this essential fact that once Gopi has a makeover, Ahem doesnt have anythng to object to any longer? And he will definitely over time come to love his wife.

And the third thing i m frustrated about is Rashi going scot free. I know she gets away with practicaly everything. BUt the bhoot spoof wasnt just a trick, it could have driven someone mental. Its a very serious crime, not a mistake. How come Kokila let it go just like tha? If a girl can stop to the level of driving her own sister insane, cant Kokila guess the motive is just to get Gopi out of the house? If someone in our house did it, wouldnt we make a big hue and cry about it? Or would we all just say , " OK Gopi bahu, I ll give her one last chance".

If a person is rotten to the core, then either we try to reform him or her, or thrown them out of our lives. We don't give them last chances.

Kokila could have easily followed Rashi when she was doing the bhoot thing, takena video on her phone, and then just shown it to everyone. Maybe she could have even crept upto her room when Rashi was o the phone with her mother. I dont see Rashi closing any doors. Again , maybe justr ecord one or two conversations, and then show the collected evidence to everyone. After that she doesnt even have to do anythng but jus sit back and watch Rashi being thrown out b Hetal and Jigar. I thought she would do something like that, instead of which she openly confronts Rashi and throws awa her chances of getting rid of this wart frm Modi Bhavan.

Anyway that was my two cent worth of ranting. If the cvs were so clever, then we wouldn't be having a rant thread in the first place

Originally posted by: applesauce1313

I have been watching this show since it started, ahd frankly,even if I had only watched the first one month, and then stopped in between and now stated watching again,I wouldnt have missed anything. Gopi is still illiterate. She is still unable to hold even a one line convo with Ahem.Rash is still upto her tricks. Koki is still forever glaring but not doing anything. ONly dfference is that Kinjal is now married.

I cant understand how the CVs show Kokila as a very smart woman, who sees through Rashi's plot. BY now she should have figured out that all the stupid things Rashi does, are designed to create a rift between Gopi and Ahem.Once she gets this, obviously she will do whatever it takes to have Rashi thrown out, or to reform her.

What I cant understand is that on the one hand they show her as so intelligent that merely by lookin at Gopi's istressed face, for instance, she realises Rashi's jaagran suggestion is not her own but Gopi's idea. On the other hand,she hasnt got the basic fact that Rashi wants to get Gopi thrown out of the house, or at the very least keep the huge gulf between Gopi and Ahem the way it is. How can one person be intelligent and stupid at the same time?

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Another irritatng thing is that Kokila knows her son well. She need not make Gopi into another Anita. BUt she can definitely try to teach her the basics, get her to learn to read and write, how to behave in a restaurant etc. Gopi is not dumb. Its just that since childhood she has never had any feeling of securit, and her aunt and cousin always put her down so self confidence is zilch. A woman can be very progressive even in a sari. All Gopi needs is a little education, a little confidence, and a little training in the ways of the "modern" world- the burger pizza , mall world!:)

How come Koki who is otherwise so intelligent, has failed to grasp this essential fact that once Gopi has a makeover, Ahem doesnt have anythng to object to any longer? And he will definitely over time come to love his wife.

And the third thing i m frustrated about is Rashi going scot free. I know she gets away with practicaly everything. BUt the bhoot spoof wasnt just a trick, it could have driven someone mental. Its a very serious crime, not a mistake. How come Kokila let it go just like tha? If a girl can stop to the level of driving her own sister insane, cant Kokila guess the motive is just to get Gopi out of the house? If someone in our house did it, wouldnt we make a big hue and cry about it? Or would we all just say , " OK Gopi bahu, I ll give her one last chance".

If a person is rotten to the core, then either we try to reform him or her, or thrown them out of our lives. We don't give them last chances.

Kokila could have easily followed Rashi when she was doing the bhoot thing, takena video on her phone, and then just shown it to everyone. Maybe she could have even crept upto her room when Rashi was o the phone with her mother. I dont see Rashi closing any doors. Again , maybe justr ecord one or two conversations, and then show the collected evidence to everyone. After that she doesnt even have to do anythng but jus sit back and watch Rashi being thrown out b Hetal and Jigar. I thought she would do something like that, instead of which she openly confronts Rashi and throws awa her chances of getting rid of this wart frm Modi Bhavan.

Anyway that was my two cent worth of ranting. If the cvs were so clever, then we wouldn't be having a rant thread in the first place

Great. So today, even after receiving clear and strict instructions from her mother-in-law to concentrate on her studies and nothing but her studies, and not to concern herself with any household tasks, in spite of these clear instructions, Gopi is interrupting her studies and is about to go and see if she can help Rashi in the kitchen.

She is not taking her studies at all seriously, smiling and looking here and there during her studies as if it's some joke. This is not the attitude she should have after being denied an education all her life. One would expect her to take it more seriously.

You can see the teacher is already getting fed up, and it's only the first day. I don't blame him. I myself am fed up of this dumb Gopi.