Gopi doesn't know Ahem at all

Originally posted by: queenyuks

Over the last few episodes, this is the conclusion I've come to

She doesn't even know what things upset him and what things make him happy.

Like yesterday, he was so irritated, but she kept trying to give him tea. He asked her to not show her face, but she still happily obeyed Koki and went to wake him up. She would have even wished him happy birthday, and it would have pissed him off more.

And today, with the childish decorations.
She should know by now atleast that Ahem is a serious man. He never laughs or smiles or has any fun. Why would he enjoy childish decorations?

How can Gopi say she loves him? She doesn't even know him. She doesn't understand him. But she's still lattoo over him for whatever reason

Today's episode was frustrating to watch

Yuks

i agree yuks n nafisa gopi doesnt know aham one bit but what opportunity has she been given to get to know him. None
after the slapping incident she kept a distant aham just completely lost it.
kokila got them married for herself not for them, gopi became her vau not his.

Does Ahem know anything about his wife??? Marriage is a equal partnership.😕

I agree with Yuks..its not about Decorations or knowing whether he likes sheera or puri or green tea...just just plain irritates him time and again...even i was irritated yesterday when she was trying to give him tea when he was so angry...i would have really thrown that cup 😛...when he told him he doesnt wants to see her face why does she want to make things worse by doing all this...this thing is making Ahem more and more angryand irritated with her...she needs to sit and think about this...ok,i know she had bad childhood and all, but some common sense things are not taught,

Originally posted by: avivakirk

Does Ahem know anything about his wife??? Marriage is a equal partnership.😕

why will he bother knowing her??? he doesnt want to even see her face...its gopi who wants the realation to work,if she doesnt ...its over...

Originally posted by: addicted2tv

why will he bother knowing her??? he doesnt want to even see her face...its gopi who wants the realation to work,if she doesnt ...its over...

What should she do ? She tries not to go near him but Koki, Nani everone lays the blame at her door and she has to obey their commands. We have to remember Gopi didn't have a normal childhood. She didn't get educated like Rashi. There are many naive people in India especially in villages where anyone can take this people for a ride.

I'm not as pessimistic as you @addicted2tv...what's your name anyway? I think this things he is saying are an act...too many times his proved he cares for her, small things Diwali, tea incident (when he missed her breakfast), matches burning her at the party (he grabs her hand to release the burning matchstick), the way he even looks at her (when he locks into her gaze he finds it hard to tear his eyes away from her). Something is happening in Aham (he is shouting the loudest now, even worse than before, denying that it's happening to him)

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

I'm not as pessimistic as you @addicted2tv...what's your name anyway? I think this things he is saying are an act...too many times his proved he cares for her, small things Diwali, tea incident (when he missed her breakfast), matches burning her at the party (he grabs her hand to release the burning matchstick), the way he even looks at her (when he locks into her gaze he finds it hard to tear his eyes away from her). Something is happening in Aham (he is shouting the loudest now, even worse than before, denying that it's happening to him)

I think he cares...

All this bluster about I don't want to see your face, is because his scared of the consequences he stares too much, what his going to do, often have you noticed when he yells he runs out of the room...that is not what you expect is it, he is running from her because he fears he might just grab her and kiss her.

By the way i am shambhavi, just because you are calling me pessimist...let me answer you in your way...I am not being pessimist here,i just dont like to make conclusions about things that are not abvious,and then cry over it when nothing happens after that...i am just trying to be realist...i am not here to fight with anyone ,i m here to share my views ,,,he does care for gopi ,he is a human being after all and has feelings that are preintalled,his brain is not allowing him to accept her and Ahem is man who listens to his barin more than heart...

What I do know is if it was real, Gopi not matter how uneducated would have developed resentment for Aham, love when not returned turns to hatred...and would not hold a torch for him still, also we all know at the end of this show Aham is going to accept Gopi (it's in the title of the serial), so it's just a question of when not if it's going to happen but when is it going to happen...