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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

I would have to agree with Nafisa, I was thinking along the same line today, but I think he also felt guilty when Jigar said about expressing love with flowers, he might of had a brief flashback to room decorating incident and how he had reacted, that's why he stopped Jigar from saying anything and got mad, I think the coming home to get file was just an excuse, he probably rushed home to see her because he felt guilty either that or he really hates all the love business, and I am just reading too much into it.


Shilpa you have raised so many points in your brief little paragraph.

He felt guilty with flowers gift as he might have flashback to room decorated with flowers by Gopi, plausible as he is bound to fall in love with her eventually (however in his mind he gets angry at the site of her, will all this passion turn to hate???), but i'm more inclined to say his not sensitive in character, his arrogant and quick tempered normally.

I think he really needed that file for work, but subconsciously he trusts his mother made a right choice for him with Gopi, this is the reason he gave the Vachan really quickly, no argument yesterday, he trusts Kokila more than he trusts himself all the time.

I think his an extremely patient person, he observes and watches, he explodes with anger (on Gopi only, because he knows she won't retaliate) but with everyone else he is obedient little boy, you could see him at the table, when Naani told Gopi to serve him breakfast (Aham gritted his teeth😡), again when she was blocking his path (twice) his nostrils flaring and then the GopiJi remark came out, so he didn't say like he normally would, i told you this is for Naani's benefit don't keep following me in here i don't want to see your face frequently, he took control of his temper and just gave her the right of way and called her GopiJi.

So i think he does get angry with the mere sight of her, but that hate will turn to passion later. Thin line between love and hate.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthi2010

nafisa what an analysis i wonder whether the real aham went through all this. but your was an eyeopener.


Yep Shruthi, favorite pass time for me, to analyse Aham.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ANJ4

Hey - thanks for reading inbetween the lines - now I have to go back and watch it again, so I can see all this. Thx - anjula


😉 thats the way.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I wish Baa was the one who's advice Gopi had followed to order to make Ahem fall for her and not Nanis cos Baa initiated it and she knows Ahem more but i guess Nani's are more magical I lost mine recently so If i was Ahem i would try to make her as happy as possible
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nayhaj

I wish Baa was the one who's advice Gopi had followed to order to make Ahem fall for her and not Nanis cos Baa initiated it and she knows Ahem more but i guess Nani's are more magical I lost mine recently so If i was Ahem i would try to make her as happy as possible


Sorry to hear you lost your Nan Nayhaj. In a way both baa and naani are trying, but with baa, she tried with not ordering Aham to do things and asking things loudly, why aren't you serving him, where is Aham ki Bahu, with Baa she just told Gopi what Aham likes, but if he doesn't know that Baa wants him to drink or eat that thing from Gopi he won't do it, he was against Gopi from the start, however, if you the elder person commands him he will do it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms


Sorry to hear you lost your Nan Nayhaj. In a way both baa and naani are trying, but with baa, she tried with not ordering Aham to do things and asking things loudly, why aren't you serving him, where is Aham ki Bahu, with Baa she just told Gopi what Aham likes, but if he doesn't know that Baa wants him to drink or eat that thing from Gopi he won't do it, he was against Gopi from the start, however, if you the elder person commands him he will do it.



yeah I understand wat u mean...well i hope something happens between them but only if ahem wants it too cos forcing him is wrong..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nayhaj



yeah I understand wat u mean...well i hope something happens between them but only if ahem wants it too cos forcing him is wrong..


i know this forced type of thing we saw already with the Mehta's and Ketki. But the way he easily consented to the Vachan now to Kokila, proves, at least to me, that subconsciously if not consciously he trusts his mother made a good choice in Gopi to be his wife.

i know in the news and people on this forum, have told us of their lives under a forced marriage and it's terrible, as the person turns out to want rights only in America or UK, leave India but with no intention of fulfilling their vows to the wife in America or UK, but in this world they is no guarantees in love, you trust everything will work out and you take a jump, if it doesn't you should just remember the good times and forget the bad memories.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms


i know this forced type of thing we saw already with the Mehta's and Ketki. But the way he easily consented to the Vachan now to Kokila, proves, at least to me, that subconsciously if not consciously he trusts his mother made a good choice in Gopi to be his wife.

i know in the news and people on this forum, have told us of their lives under a forced marriage and it's terrible, as the person turns out to want rights only in America or UK, leave India but with no intention of fulfilling their vows to the wife in America or UK, but in this world they is no guarantees in love, you trust everything will work out and you take a jump, if it doesn't you should just remember the good times and forget the bad memories.


yeah agreed but sometimes its best not to trust blindly and be practical at times, marriage in UK and USA also work but only if arent forced
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Nafisa blossoms
i asked for it?😲 do me a favour, explain to me the positive side of Rashi, please?😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jake-neil

@Nafisa blossoms
i asked for it?😲 do me a favour, explain to me the positive side of Rashi, please?😆


You sure did (asking what Aham was thinking today), but you also said Aham is going to copy Jigar and gift Gopi something, it's big a stretch Jake bhai.

Rashi mmmmmmmmm, she is greedy right but with that greediness she want's power, so today Naani gives her responsibility and she is happy, singing away whilst she gathers the ingredients, sometimes people which crave power, it's best to give it to them, also it works for her to be too busy to see that Kokila, Aham and Gopi have made a new pact and Aham has changed his behavior to Gopi.

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