Gopi's destiny - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mountainbreeze7

I feel really sorry for poor Gopi...She JUST got thrown out of Modi mansion, and now she's got Urmilla and Kinjil to look forward to, i mean, Urmilla going to treat her worse than a slave, and Kinjil is going to keep reminding her about all her mistakes and making her feel bad on purpose, what a horrible position to be in, and i always think back to the first day Gopi got married...KINJIL was the one who put Gopi and Ahem's relationship off to a bad start ...and now she's blaming Gopi...typical.😡

Originally posted by: cbfan123

what did she do? i started it later... Please tell kin's part... i know that Ahem loves Anita and he wrote a letter for Gopi to say no for marriage, but bunnies read it wrong to her and Gopi never said no to the marriage.

Originally posted by: Mountainbreeze7

Well, basically, Kinjil just got the relationship to a bad start by buying all these expensive bangles and earings, basically lots of jewelry from really really expensive stores and putting it all on Gopi's name and charging it to Ahem's credit card, when Ahem found out the price * which was really huge* he exploded, and from there he became quite negative with her, because he was alright with her before, but lots of other things happened too that kinjil didn't do, but the main thing is, that Kinjil really ruined what could have been a good relationship enough not to see the day Gopi leaves MM. 😭

Originally posted by: loveanime

I sometimes wonder why Gopi loves Aham. I think her love for him is out of duty because he is her husband, I think she would have felt the love for any other man she would have been married to. I know love just happens blab blab, but something is got to trigger it as well, some quality, something anything. I cant seem to think of any one moment where Aham did something that impressed Gopi made her think wow I Iove this man. She loved him as soon as they took their marriage vows, she is that type of girl, love your husband body and soul even if he is a serial killer.

I wish if this story would evolve in such a way to make Gopi realize that maybe she doesn't love Aham for who he is, because the person he is right now is not the man worth loving, and the man she does love only exists in her dream. She loves this fictional dream image of what her husband should be and she reflects that on aham hoping he would become that man someday. I think Gopi should realize instead of chasing after dreams that might not come true, she should face reality and pursue new dreams. I know Gopi character is all about pathni dharam and nothing more, but I wish she would herself think about education, maybe even work. How many times has she been reminded of her whole life that she is a burden, maybe it is time she proves that she can make her own life. I feel sad thinking her whole life she has been begging for love, stop begging gopi and start searching, it is not always pathi. Marriage vows only mean something if the other person takes it with you, goham marriage is practically null and void, because aham never took the vows seriously. So they might need an official divorce for society, but between them gopi should give up thinking she is his wife, because she is not and she should be set free from loving him and crying for him.

Originally posted by: Jake-neil

Ahem's indifference.. Urmi's bitter words and now kinjal's too.. What a fate!

Originally posted by: cbfan123

i get it. Thanks for the reponse. I appreciate 😃

Originally posted by: loveanime

I sometimes wonder why Gopi loves Aham. I think her love for him is out of duty because he is her husband, I think she would have felt the love for any other man she would have been married to. I know love just happens blab blab, but something is got to trigger it as well, some quality, something anything. I cant seem to think of any one moment where Aham did something that impressed Gopi made her think wow I Iove this man. She loved him as soon as they took their marriage vows, she is that type of girl, love your husband body and soul even if he is a serial killer.

I wish if this story would evolve in such a way to make Gopi realize that maybe she doesn't love Aham for who he is, because the person he is right now is not the man worth loving, and the man she does love only exists in her dream. She loves this fictional dream image of what her husband should be and she reflects that on aham hoping he would become that man someday. I think Gopi should realize instead of chasing after dreams that might not come true, she should face reality and pursue new dreams. I know Gopi character is all about pathni dharam and nothing more, but I wish she would herself think about education, maybe even work. How many times has she been reminded of her whole life that she is a burden, maybe it is time she proves that she can make her own life. I feel sad thinking her whole life she has been begging for love, stop begging gopi and start searching, it is not always pathi. Marriage vows only mean something if the other person takes it with you, goham marriage is practically null and void, because aham never took the vows seriously. So they might need an official divorce for society, but between them gopi should give up thinking she is his wife, because she is not and she should be set free from loving him and crying for him.