Is Aham Confused or Am I??? - Page 2

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Sadhli, I will get back to you! On your analysis!

i just want to know one thing,what does aham like about gopi?he never gave her any attention or noticed the beautiful things that she does for him and his family,so where would that love come from?

Thanks for pointing this out Sadhli. I would never have picked it up. lol So he didn't say break your fast without me. To me, that's a game changer. He's ticked, but still willing to come home to do this. Interesting. I'm going to have to mull that around. He is mighty conflicted my friends, should be an interesting ride...

Originally posted by: lovtv

Sadhli, I will get back to you! On your analysis!

i'll w8 for ur lovely reply shelly....but come soon.....

Originally posted by: saomom

Thanks for pointing this out Sadhli. I would never have picked it up. lol So he didn't say break your fast without me. To me, that's a game changer. He's ticked, but still willing to come home to do this. Interesting. I'm going to have to mull that around. He is mighty conflicted my friends, should be an interesting ride...

thats what I was thinking...if he was not interested in coming home and breaking her fast..he could have said m not coming anytime soon and dont expect me to be there for breaking ur fast whom I dont consider my wife.....but nope he dint say anything like this....and thats making me confuse abt him.....
i know he does not love gopi but still cares abt her thats why he said OK.....that OK was not just a normal one if it can be analyzed, and his expressions there as well.....i'll try to do it later...

for me he is now blaming Gopi in his heart for attracting him towards her....like a small kid who does not admit his mistake on his own and blames everything either on siblings or situations........he cant show in open that he came coz he WANTED to, he has to portray that It was gopi and her fast due to which he had to Come Home early even when he could have clearly mentioned to Gopi and then it was not needed at all for him to come .................

and next when Koki mentioned abt Gopi broke the fast,...he was angry coz He could not expect this from her, he said He is coming and still she broke fast on her own....and after refusing his help in oitnmet scene this was the next thing from Gopi which ignites his anger again even after having concern for her..............

he just cant believe that Gopi is not Doing What he is Asking her to....so this natural for Male Ego to Be on the top Everest that how could she is not following my orders.....

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

So m back to Analyze Aham.....(sorry cant do anything else,..whenever i see him scolding and yelling at Gopi......I start observing his small small expressions, dialogues and also his hotness)

here what m thinking after closely observing his phone call with Gopi....

His Phone Convo as below

Stop ur Nonsense, first time in life Mom was angry with me just coz of u, u who does not have any existence in my eyes and how many times I hv already told the same to u how many times, but still u kept Upvaas for me and now I hv to leave all my work and will hv to come home to break ur fast. and all this nautanki is for whom I dont think as my wife and wont give the same position in future. M fed up or stupid acts, now i'll hv to come home and hv to act to break ur fast. U WANT THIS ONLY NA, OK.

No doubt he scolded Gopi for keeping the Vrat for him, for instigating is Mommy for scolding him, for making his mommy to ask him to come home to brk her fast..whom he does not consider anyhing....
but did u notice....
bold lines...he dint say her to Break the Fast On her Own he said he will come.....
so m confused...why he said OK...when he could say go ahead and break the fast as m not coming......

and when he entered MM and Koki told him that Gopi broke the fast...he was Shocked to know that she did that....
why he was shocked to know the fact...when he knows that he told her that he will be coming..

so m still not sure...is it Aham who is confused abt his feelings or M I confused seeing him scolding and yelling at Gopi for everything she does...

U all are welcome to help me in clearing my Confusion....please help me out...

@ladydivine plz tel me ur name dear.
Very wel said cvs are nt at all paying attention to him or developing his character. Thats the reason his each n every action leaves us in a confused state to justify his acts.

Nd when he himself told the phone convo truth to koki he indirectly saved gopi frm more torture. I hv to watch that scene again to read wt was going inside while telling that. May be he told deliberately in an angry manner so that his concern 4 gopi wont be revealed n she wil be saved also.

Sadhli funny enough i started this topic yesterday but due to kids homework so had to erase... great minds think alike😉.

My take is Aham is having feelings but fighting them, he cannot see right from wrong, all he is seeing of Gopi is negativity due to others. How is he suppose to see the reel beauty or reel Gopi when he is at work, paper pusher 😆. We should make him sick so sick that he cant go to work, but without kokila, it should be that Gopi is the only one in the house and he has no choice... ok wishful thinking again. anyway back to routine getting kids ready

Ahem is a phsycho😡 for sure he is a heartless and brainless character u have ever seen he is robot nothing else who walks and talks by the wish of cvs😈🤬