Hello delicate....welcome to our forum..........just as your name you are just as delicate. Take it easy yaar😆. Let me tell u one thing.......God has made every women very flexible, understanding and strong. why? Because of exactly where u stand today, to leave a family that has taken care of you for 20 some on years and suddenly just completely turn ur life around and be a daughter to someone elses home. Having been newly married, I can say that yes it is very nerve racking and all ur feeling are understandable. You are worried over 4 hours.......I live 24 hours from my family and have to take a plane ride to see them. So I don't get to see them that often. As for you being sure that this "is the guy" that can keep you happy all ur life. Well for one you can never be sure, nothing ever is a 100%, what God has in store for us we will never know. You can know the guy for years and still get cheated...so that kind of stuff you leave to god after you have done all you can to ovoid it. So be proactive, make sure of his background, his family and mostly importantly he is a good human being. As for you not feeling he "is the guy" is probably absolutely normal. U met the guy once, give yourself a break. My marriage was not arranged marriage, but my sisters were. They too just like you met the guy once and where married in two weeks time. They both are very happily married. So don't let a show like Saathiya scare you to death. Naseeb mein jo lika hai voh tho ho kar rahega. Just think about it fully, understand him completely, know his views on topics your serious about, like working after marriage, or education or kids or moving or anything. Have all of it clear before making your desicion. Built your relationship on trust and faith and all will be well.............Good luck and hope you find your Saathiya. 😊👍🏼
Edited by taral83 - 15 years ago
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