Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-
Todays Koki's Lecture to Gopi...
1. for being Self Confident,
2. To Start Believing her own self
just made my day... I dont know abt Gopi but I felt its is the biggest thing in day to day life to Survive with out hurting Self Respect....
till now no one was there for Gopi to tell her The Importance of Self Confidence and Self Belief but Koki did that once again to Prove that She does not want Gopi to be an Unpolished Diamond anymore....
Koki is Pruning Gopi So that she Can OUTSHINE everyone in the world....but in A Slow and Steady Manner,...........
And may be Gopi pay attention to All Small and big Advice given by Koki so that she can prove that Koki's Choice was not Wrong when she saw A Diamond in Gopi.....
@bold - How much ever good advice Gopi gets, it is all in vain until she herself wants to improve. She has been insulted so many times by Ahem for being illeterate and 'gawar'...but not even once is she shown thinking that perhaps she could win him over if she starts learning to read/write. All she does is to cry. She has Ba, Jigar, Hetal and even Koki to help her out. She just needs to ask. But she does not even think about improving herself. I don't think this has anything to do with self confidence. She lacks initiative. She needs to think how she can improve her situation. Just crying is not going to help. The only solution she could think of is leaving MM. I would say that's the easy way out. Avoiding the problem rather than solving it.
I don't get this wierdness in her character. She is shown to be an excellent homemaker....And believe me managing a household takes all of these - management skills, confidence,initiative, hardwork and what not. If she can show all these is managing the house, she should surely use them in her personal life?😕