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Originally posted by: shijhu

btw lavanya ur siggi looks hmmmm u gonna amke many jealous aisa lagta hai so better remove it otherwise he will fly fly n come to u da way he is flyingggggggggggggggg hehehehe gud siggi lav u r becoming naughty day by day 😉

Thanks dear❤️for appreciating dear BR🤗 Yeah hope he flies out dear😍

Originally posted by: ashbipasha

Lavanya, give your views regarding the following issues:

Ashna very thought provoking issues.😳

~ Love > I think its an emotion of affection, belongingness, attraction and attachment. Love has various shades but the only one higlighted is romanticising which well is not completely real. People need to

Also do read this article although old still interesting

https://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,977763-1,00 .html

~ Friendship

Friendship is a relationship based on trust, support, care,loyalty, understanding, empathy, sharing and loads of fun. Friendship can mushroom betn people having similar or divergent views. Some people use friendships as utility or pleasure but perfect friendship is for goodness or sharing and through it we gain practical and emotional support, and make an important contribution to our personal identities.

~ Arranged Marriage Mostly prevalent in Asia & middle east. Parents select the spouse after taking into account family status, financial status, caste & clan, in India horoscopes. This offers security and protection to women. On the other side the couple dont know each other so it demands higher levels of adjustment , sacrifices and tolerance. Studies show lower divorce rates.

~ Love Marriage> This is common in western countries. It starts off with the attraction, liking betn the couple and spending time and activities with each other.It provides opportunity for developing compatibility and understanding, care and concern. Here the couple have higher responsibility of the relnship and studies indicate higher divorce rates. The individualism is more prominent.

~ Abortion A very sensitive and emotional issue. I look at it from the need/urgency point of view. Acceptable situations teenagers, rape victims, abnormal growth, complications, miscarriages etc. Dilemmatic ones when either parent doesnt want a child, pregnancy before marriage, poverty and most unlawful and inhuman is female foeticide.

~ Suicide terminating ones life intentionally becos of depression, mental illness, under effect of drugs or to escape from shame, agony or financial difficulty. People having such tendencies need medical help along with spirituality.

~ Euthanasia > Another very sensitive and controversial issue. Medically assiting death raises moral and other social dilemmas. But there are some cases bought forward by media on request of the guardians which support it too in a way.

Originally posted by: shijhu

heres a question answer in how many words u want 😆

Thanks for the liberty😆

if u were da writer of sp how u wud have planned it at dis stage ??

I would made Nahar meet Saloni and know her side of truth. Nahar wld then nurse her back to normalcy, not letting others know abt this. Neel telling Nishi the truth. Maasa,Kakisa and Tara exposing Urvashi is front of Veer Kakasa. Next the plan to find Vedanth and of course return of Aditi😆

wot do u feel abt women getting tortured on roads ??

The depraved mentality of men who are seem to abuse the dubious power society granted them. Somewhere the same social system has to address the issue along with stricter implementation of laws and people helping out. And women must compulsorily learn self defence.

eve teasing in india r taking away peace from a girls mind comment

Eve teasing again comes out from the same mindset to get what u want by hook or by crook and of course the ingrained disrespect for women. Here I wld blame mothers and ok fathers too who never teach their sons to respect women. Of course the much debated gender😉 education shd be part of the course.

will post more laterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 👏

Yes Boss😊

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Originally posted by: ~Simran~

Hey Lavi...how is the week going so far...grilled enough? Getting grilled slowly😆

Here are my set of questions. Skep whatever you have answered before.

any siblings...names?

Yes, two brothers😊

whats the reason for your ID being realitybites?

ID well it has that element of real and truth having tinge of bitterness hence something which senstises u towards real, truth and right. (sounds good naa😳😆)

fav. subject?

Psychology, Biology, physics, and well any subject depends how its explained.

fav. food?

Veg food > Rajasthani, Gujarati, Mexican, Thai and all fried stuff😛 samosas pakoras, kachoris..... yummy😳

fav. store?

Shoppers Stop, Westside

fav movie?

Many movies....all Amol Palekar ones, Guru Dutt movies, Old AB movies, Bazaar, Umrao Jaan, Masoom, Arth, SRK's Yes Boss, Main Hoon Na, Om Shanti Om, Hrithik's KMG, Krissh, Hera Pheri, Maalamal Weekly, Mr & Mrs Iyer, and Govinda's Saajan Chale Sasural, Hero & coolie no 1 & more,

fav song?

Hindi songs: Dard e Disco, Main Agar kahoon,Main hoon naa, Kal ho na ho, Its rocking, keh do na you are my sonia, Aaj kal zameen par, aapki ankhon mein, dikhayi diye yu ki bekhud kiya, in ankhon ki masti ke, Koi mil gaya, Tujse naaraz nahi zindage, main koi aisa geet gau, Tere chehre se nazzar nahi, main shayar toh nahi, sagar kinaree....many more...

one best friend in IF? 😳 naam liya toh nazaar lag jayegi🤗

threee best friends in IF? You know most of them😳

wht u think of me? 🤗you are sweet, intelligent, compassionate, caring and trust worthy😳 just few words ..I can go on...

first friend in IF? Anjali.Nair..oh I miss her😍

hobbies?

Travelling,Music, Sketching, Reading, Adventure Sports, Movies, surfing the net esp IF😆

favorite color? I like all colors I go for the shades but nothing glossy or glaring to the eye.

fav designer label?

Ritu Kumar, Abu Jani & Sandeep Khosla, Abhishek Gupta, Manaj Ganjwani, Monisha Jaisingh

fav english movie?

Face off, Mask of Zorro, Shindlers List, Philedelphia, Batman Begins, Forrest Gump, A few Good men, As good as it gets, Chicago, Liar Liar, Ace Ventura, The Mask , Spiderman and more..

fav chocolate?

Cadburys Roast Almond, Snickers and Ferros Rocher

the fav day of ur life so far?

Fav days!! Many my first job,

ur ambition?

To become an excellent trainer and be among the best😳

scary/funny?

Funny

truth/dare?

Truth

lipstick/eyeliner?

Lipstick

mascara/lip gloss?

lip gloss

fav perfume?

La'Air DuTemps, Chloe, Goodlife, Premier Jour, D&G Feminine, CK one

icecream or chocolate?

Chocolate

gulab jamun or raas malai?

Gulab Jamun

slow songs or fast songs?

both depends on the mood actually

will be back with more....your not all the way grilled...

Sure dear Simz

Originally posted by: shijhu

hey lav i must comment beautiful answers not only to mine but to all da questions keep it up dear u have da leading capability 👏

Thanks Jhumi dear🤗 for appreciating and you are a ❤️❤️❤️sweetheart❤️❤️❤️

Originally posted by: realitybites

Great views Lavanya, very well answered...👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: arwax

Hi Lavanya

Here are some grilling qustions from me, I hope you will like them and enjoy the grilling. 😳 😆

Where do you live in India?

New Delhi

Are you married or a single?

Single

Do you read newspapers?... which section of the paper do you read first?

I love reading newspapers, headlines and then the edit.

What are your quidelines for comments?

I didnt understand this one

Do you have a policy about responding to email?

I respond to all my friends.

What are your top picks for health and wellness for the body, mind and spirit?

Eat good healthy food and also spicy tasty food but in moderation and exercise or do some physical activity and yes spirituality helps.

Do you believe in Ghosts?

No

Would you choose love or money and why?

Well depends which is better or more attractive proposition😉😆

If you were a monster, what would you be?

Monster and me nah..I am an angel☺️ ok if I had to be then the beast from Beauty and the Beast.

What makes you a little bit of a monster?

Injustice, lies, deceit and treachery makes me angry.

What would you do if your worst enemy did something unspeakable to you?

I would ensure the person realises the misdeed and then pray that Lord Shani dev does the needful. ( Lord Shani is the God who stands for righteousness and truth)

What primal emotions or drive you most often experience?

Happiness, smiles, tears and upsets.

How is your self steem?

Balanced and strong😳

You and your guy have to go out tonight, but he calls you at the last minute to say he's too tired...What would be your reaction?

A Guy never went so? I would give a hypothetical reaction. Too tired then I wld offer an attractive proposition, tough to refuse😉😆

What is your main consideration when ordering food out?

Firstly it has to Veg and then try choosing something different yet delicious.

What career would you most like to try out for a while?

Anything that excites me, writer, dancer, singing, sports like basketball, golf or anything

Your friend just lost a loved one,how would you help her cope?

To garner strength and be bold, be busy, to cherish the memories but look ahead in life

If you became a multi-millionaire what would you attribute to your sccess?

😆multi millionaire..attribute to hardwork, luck, God and parents's blessings

When you fall in love, you feel it in...

😕 never been in so but if u go by hindi movies then u sing and dance all around in beautiful locales🤣

You know someone loves you when they...

When a person showers care, affection and understanding.

No matter what, you can't imagine yourself being attracted to a guy who is...

Liar, criminal, chauvinist, ill mannered, illiterate, rude, unhygenic, egositic, eccentric .... I can go on😆

You prefer not to be friend with someone who is...

Manipulator, deceitful, opportunist, egositic and untrustworthy.

In group project, you are the one who...

sometimes leads, sometimes follows.

Talking about the weather is a...

Good and being aware and prepared.

You enjoy helping...

Yes I do but now to only good people.

If someone you have just met talks about their feelings, it makes you feel...

That the person needs to ventilate.

Shopping is something you.....

Enjoy and its fun bargaining too

Having the same thing for dinner every night...

Boring & deappetising

When it comes to risks, you prefer....

To take them but only if they are manageable ones

You prefer to focus on one....

thing or work at a time

You tend to keep things in...

simple, organized & manageable

When you talk, you choose your words...

Efficiently and aptly

You tend to seek out new...

knowledge, ideas and perspectives

You eat dessert...

Yes ice creams, gulab jamun, rasgulla and more

You would say you are more...

Honest, intelligent, caring, trusting and frank

On your days off, you usually...

Keep quiet and to my self

You base your important decision on...

Analysing the pros and cons and the best that can be done in the given circumstances

In your opinion, gossip is a...

Its a form of entertainment liked by some people but shdnt be used to harm someone.

If you find out someone is gossiping about you, you....

Expose the person and seek apology.

When someone's upset with you, you tend to listen to what....

The person's reason for being upset are and clarify that.

When you are hanging out with your friends, how often do you end up taking crap about people?

Almost never, I dont like associating with such people.

When are you tend to have your best ideas, is it when you are setting up or laying down?

Anytime it may be I am working or plain relaxing no firm sitn or posture. Its just that the thought process is active and u just relate a with b and connect with c and there u have it.

What do you think in, pictures or words?

The subject matter defines the way I will think.

What are you more interested in, ideas or facts?

Factual Ideas😆

Are you more mathematical or musical?

Honestly depends on the mood and the issue, if its abt finances/investment def mathematical and musical when relaxing or having fun.

How do you like to spend your holiday?

Relaxing, watching movie, outing with friends

In your opinion, It is just not holiday without...

Relaxation

What do you look forward to most each year?

New hopes, dreams and new experiences

What gifts are you most likely to give to your friends?

The things they like and wish to have😳

What are you better at remembering, names or faces?

Unique/beautiful names and attractive faces😆

How violent are you?

Not violent

Do you give people complements?

Yes as and when they deserve

Do you often catch yourself day dreaming?

No very rarely

Do you listen to music while you work?

Nopez

When you have a lot to do, what do you do first?

The imp and urgent thing or the fastest thing first.

How Sweet are you?

Very Sweet😳

Which one of the following statement reflects your beliefs more?

-Have a strong sense of right and wrong.
-What is right (or wrong) depends on the situation.

When going somewhere you have only been to a couple of times, do you go with your instincts on finding the way or map out directions where you are going?

Map out directions

What if you had to spend 24 hours by yourself - without emailing, phoning, instant mssaging, or talking to anyone else?

Not talking wld be tough but u missed TV😆 & reading

What do you think is your most attractive non-physical quality?

Communication

If your sweetie had a bad day, what would you do to cheer him up?

Again I can ans only hypothetically😊, few of his fav things😳 wld be done

You are going to a fancy party with your guy, describe the out fit you would wear...

My Dress

If you just won new car, what colour would you pick?

Silver or Dark blue😳

If you get jealous in a relationship, is it a sign that you are truly in love?

Nopez thats a effect of the bump from the wall😆

If someone is right for you, does it take you much time to figure it out?

No, I think there is a connection and like SRK said in DTPH a bell will ring😆😆

Is love something you cannot define, predict, or even truly understand?

Love is all about understanding each other. Do read this article its old but interesting.

https://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,977763-1,00 .html

What kind of music would the soundtrack to your life contain?

Soundtrack ..Its a beautiful life

What best describes your colouring style as a kid?

🤔Style was pratical and systematic and controlled

What colour sky do you like the best?

Sky blue with while clouds over

If you could have a new eye colour for a day, what colour eyes would you choose?

Black and dark brown

If you moved into a new house with white walls, how would you go about adding colour?

By putting on paintings, wall hangings, lamps, tapestry, drapery, crafts etc.

What is the best way to enjoy your favorite colour?

Wear it😊

Do you believe in love at first sight?

No

When you are in love, is it a wild ride?

Dont know but seeing others' yes😆

Is love a head rush for you?

No

Is a lot of compatibility (Education, Religion, Social class) superficial if you are truly in love?

When you are talking abt true love implying a well meaning relnship for a long period of time thent these factors are crucial. They contribute to make up your personality and are imp part of your true self, your likes, dislikes and views are shaped up by them.

Physical atraction is very important for everyone in relationships, could you over look some flaws if the chemistry is there?

Initially it is but what bonds a couple is their own understanding and care. The attraction wanes out fast and then the behavior rules. Yes as no one is perfect adjustment and tolerance are a must.

Would you do any thing for someone you love/loved?

Yes mostly but nothing illegal or immoral.

Is your work best, with deadlines or without deadlines?

Once I have committed then I work my best

Do you consider yourself more rational or compassionate?

Rational

In thirty words or less what makes you angry?

Lying, disrespect,schemings,

In thirty words or less what makes you laugh?

Jokes, hilarious scenes/dialogues, moments

In thirty words or less what makes you cry?

Sentimental things and mean and rude comments

In thirty words or less what makes you happy?

Things that cheer me up and nice, good events, moments

In thirty words or less what makes you sad?

Manipulations, greed, and opportunists

Have you ever sued anyone?

NO😆😆but had I been in US I wld have definitely sued someone😉

If you were to to spend a day with whom you love...who with...and how would you like to spend?

My friends for a movie & lunch,

Do you know any other language besides English?

Yes Hindi, Gujarati and some Spanish

Activities that you enjoy...

Spending time with family & friends, reading newspaper, buying vegetables, being on IF

Activities that you don't like...

Cleaning the mess😆, driving in traffic,

In thirty words or less tell us something about IFs...

Addictive, discussing TV serials & reld info of TV world, making friends from diff parts of world, creative siggys, avi's and contests.

In thirty words or less tell us something about SP...

Commendable story concept, good direction, creative twists and tracks, good performances, fast paced & engripping stories, entertaining along with focus on social issues.

Which other forum did you visit beside SP?

GKLB, DMG, DM, SRGMP

What are the rules you live your life by?

Following principles and values

Do you work?...What do you do?

Yes I am HR Consultant

Did you go to college/university?

Yes

What did you study at college/university?

Economics of Human Resources, Strategic Planning and Human Resource Management, Organizational Psychology and Behavior, Industrial Relations, Organizational Change ,Training and Development

What do you do a normal day after school/work?

Relax, watch TV, be on IF

If you could have any occupation at all what would it be?

Be a traveller for Travel & Living and visit all places

How would you describe yourself...

Simple, intelligent, honest, friendly

Your best personal quality...

Communication & honesty

First thing/s that you do when you wake up...

Do the daily ablutions

Last thing/s that you do before you go to sleep...

Brush my teeth

If you could be anyone else, you would be...

😍 I am happy being myself

Greatest gift that you have ever received...

A Chopard watch😳

Your strength...

Communication

Your weakness...

Trust too easily and very frank

What do you want to do with your life?

Live a happy life😳

What do you look for in a man?

Integrity, caring, Intelligent, educated, good sense of humour,committed, sincere ...list goes on😆😆

What occurrencies happen to make your day a good one?

Things go smoothly and systematically

Do you live in an apartment or house?

Apartment

What do you like to eat for breakfasts?

Poha, upma, paratha, toasts etc

Your favorite food...

Veg food > Rajasthani, Gujarati, Mexican, Thai and all fried stuff😛 samosas pakoras, kachoris..... yummy😳

Your favorite drink

Tea

Your favorite fruit/s...

Mango, Guava

Your Favorite vegetable/s...

Methi, aloo, bhindi,tomato, shimla mirch, brijnal and cabbage

Your favorite meat...

Dont eat meat, I am Vegetarian

Your favorite dessert...

Ice cream

Your favorite colour...

I like all colors just depends on the shade

Your favorite style of dressing...

Formal and comfortable

Your favorite hair style...

Short Hair keep changing

Your favorite jewelry...

Earings

Your favorite perfume...

Air du temps, Chloe, Good life, D&G Feminine

Your favorite cream...

Biotiques red sandalwood cream

Your favorite type of movie...

Comedy 7 entertaining mostly

Your favorite actors/actreses...

Many of them mentioning a few Amitabh B, Shah Rukh, Govinda, Akshay Kumar, Paresh Rawal, Hrithik Roshan, Nutan, Smita Patil, Sushmita Sen,Tabu, Juhi Chawla, Madhuri Dixit, Konkona Sen, Karishma Kapoor

Your favorite Tv show/s...

Current ones Saat Phere, DMG,

Your favorite music/songs...

So many all melodious nos and current hits

Your favorite newspaper/s...

HT, TOI & NBT

Your favorite Magazine/s...

Outlook, Reader Digest

Your favorite relaxation...

Sleeping😆

Your favorite sport/s...

Indians love cricket so😛

Your next favorite holiday destination...

Kerela, Gangtok, Shillong, Frankfurt, Munich

Countries you have visited....

I have been to Austria, Germany,

Well those were my grilling questions, if any are too personal or you don't want to answer them, pls don't. I respect that. 😳

Ok, so that should keep you busy for a while anyway. 😆


Yeah I completed them finally U know Arwa I think secretely u kept on increasing the ques😆😆😆

Joking,..thanks dear😛