Originally posted by: pams309
hi Raj
glad to see you back...
good set of questions, they made me think a lot! i tried my best to answer thm! hope i did justice!
ur lucky.number? : 3
ur fav.color? : Blue, n ofcourse i like bright colours ..ur choosy and artistic and you look for romantic love, like in fairytale, you always like to give ur best.😊
Optimistic or pessimist:- I try my best to be optimistic ..tht's good.one has to be optimistic in life always.👏
If ur in a good job and some unjustice is done with you, will u keep quite(since ur getting good perks) or fight for rights? : i cant keep quiet, i do fight for my rights! As a libran, i value justice! ..im also libran,cannot see injustice done with anyone..i raise the voice.😊
What are the four things, if applied sincerely in one's life will bring success?.. being honest with oneself, optimistic nature, being positive, love urself, and all around you, n ofcourse hardwork, n determination. hmmm..in my view there are 4 D's...discipline, dedication, determination, devotion..by following these four things one can surely be successful.
Many ppl nowadays say tht everything is pre-destined, so why do we do prayers or remedies?wat u think? yes, i agree everything predestined... if we believe in Geeta, we have to believe this. We pray God, to make the journey to the destiny easier n smoother! n i feel that he gives me(and everyone) the strength needed for tat! ..predestined are the fruits for the karmas we had done in previous life, tht we cannot change, but the present is in our hand, if we do gud now, surely our future will be gud, wat we had done in past we cannot change, but future, yes, we can.tht's y lord krishna says is in our hands but fruits he will give.by doing the remedy or prayers we get closer to Lord. We progress from tamoguna to rajoguna and from rajo-guna to sattva-guna, sort of purification is done.
What wud u want to be next in life?..why? every person has to take up many roles in life. For me the most important thing is to be a good wife, a good daughtr, a good mother, n a very good friend! i want to achieve that..tats what i want next! 😊
What's ur opinion abt the serials they are showing in tv? and women are shown in tota; negative way, barring few exceptions?doesnt it corrupts the mind of many lives? It depends on ones maturity..I do agree women are shown in total negative way! But, wont we all be sooooo happy to see all these negative characters b punished in serials? like we were waiting for Jijji to b exposed, n We want Kavs to b exposed etc etc... that mean ppl unconciously cant take negativity.. But nowadays, ppl enjoy more seeing those serials, and the makers also drag the story till no end,the punishment comes in the end and tht also jus for few episodes, dont u think they shud cut down this nuisance, many times ppl get fed up too by seeing those nonsense again n again.ant bure ka bura...but do ppl listen?😊
You value sanskaars, ethics,traditions or western lifestyle, where they give more value to their personal satisfaction and needs?
we have to change(somewhat) according to changing times, i agree to that... but our basic ethics, , n sanskars r not to be sacrificed in ny way..i value them.. there are positives n negatives in every society... we have to take all the good points, n ignore othrs.. sanskaars comes with us from previous life also,thts y u see many times thee child is more matured, quite understandin and helpful, these are signs.desires are never gng to end, if one desire is fulfilled, other is already waiting..so the person who changes or sacrifices the sanskaars is a mere puppet of his senses.
Given a chance or ur tempted..will u break those above things? Temptations are dangerous...everyone faces thm at some point of life. but thats when one has to think with their heads, not with their hearts... cant hurt my family! well-said👏👏
What are the four main pillars of successful marriage? Love, Love, Love, Love( if you have enough love in any relationship, everything else is automatically acheived)extreme love becomes obsession or brings suspicion n jealousy..the four main pillars are:-understanding, adjustment, both shud not have ego,forgive n forget attitude.mayb im wrong padma?..cos im not married, u knw better..😊😊
What's the most important part or duty of parents in upbringing the child? : make him/her a very good human being..
Whats the reason the children nowadays(not all but most of them) are becoming arrogant, thankless, selfish and rude? I feel the parents in those cases are too busy with their jobs n find lil time to spend with their kids... we cant blame kids, in fact they ape their parents( kids are somewhat reflections of their parents)... mostly! ...well said, one shud not run after making money only,its the duty of parents to give enough time for their kids, so tht they are not lost.
If ur kid says to you,''mom its my life, dont interfere in it.'' Whom u will blame for it?school, frnds, atmosphere or not giving them moral value and sanskaars? : i wonnt blame anyone but myself... it shows i have failed in some way! if you blame urself thn wat measures u will take to correct urself and ur child?why not parents think tht time?
cheers
pam
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