Isn't Tara's behavior unrealistic ?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: shali

Don't agree totally with you....

Yep, it's a bit over the edge.... to react like that....marring off you hubby with your sis...

but her pain is there... and portrait good...

Which part don't you agree with ???😕

Her pain is portrayed BUT a woman with infertility issues does not become senile like Tara has done and looses all logic, sense, decency and become highly riddicules.

The makers of the serial don't even know what a woman with infertility really feals and they try and make it on a subject where they have very little knowledge.

Let these story writers and actors go to some group meetings and support groups for woman who suffer infertility. There are even blogs where you can get an insight on a womans thoughts and feelings when she is at loss and feels like a looser for the body failing her.
But it doesn't make her senile where she forces her husband and sister to enter into a contract marriage.

Originally posted by: shali

Don't agree totally with you....

Yep, it's a bit over the edge.... to react like that....marring off you hubby with your sis...

but her pain is there... and portrait good...

pain? She's completely lost it!😡

Originally posted by: realitybites

Shali, I think you want to say that Ashlesha (Tara) as an actress is performing her role well, the yearning for child is not wrong but the unrealistic action & obsession is.

Thank you for understanding..... exactly what I mend.....

yeah,but its a little too much, I mean why would you mess up your whole entire marriage just for a kid, there are alot of other ways to arrange that..but true she wants a child yes, but marrying your own husband off to your sister is extreme.

Originally posted by: shali

Thank you for understanding..... exactly what I mend.....

Well THAT makes sense then .😊

Originally posted by: Aparna_BD

Isn't Tara's behavior highly highly exaggerated. You don't have women who are infertile beahing so un-reasobable, stupid and blind like this !!!!!!!!!!!

Who has met a woman who can't bear a child and turns completely lunatic to force her husband and her own sister to marry ??????

I don't agree with you here...You see when someone wants something really badly and if they dun get it...their sleep is infected...they can't sleep and come restless...due which they get hyper...and nearly mad...so i think Tara has those side-effects...for not sleeping 😛

lol...i was trying to think like the Saat Phere writer...for a logical explaination😆

Originally posted by: Dhruvie

I don't agree with you here...You see when someone wants something really badly and if they dun get it...their sleep is infected...they can't sleep and come restless...due which they get hyper...and nearly mad...so i think Tara has those side-effects...for not sleeping 😛

lol...i was trying to think like the Saat Phere writer...for a logical explaination😆

How do you come to this conclusion ? Have you any experience , knowledge, research on this subject ?

I can offer blogs(websites) where women even guys with such issues who desire parenthood go to vent. If you read their comments you know they want something very bad but aren't maniacs!!!!

It is honestly not funny but rather sad that an infertile woman is often portrayed as going "insane" with desire !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: Aparna_BD

How do you come to this conclusion ? Have you any experience , knowledge, research on this subject ?

I can offer blogs(websites) where women even guys with such issues who desire parenthood go to vent. If you read their comments you know they want something very bad but aren't maniacs!!!!

It is honestly not funny but rather sad that an infertile woman is often portrayed as going "insane" with desire !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yes...i have experience...my cousin can't conceive...she thinks about nothing but a child(normally a human wants its needs badly)...she even told her husband to divorce her if he wants and re-marry(may sound like a story..it isn't)...but he says no!(being realistic)...U SEE...a person who is depressed can do anything...depression if you may not know...leads to HIGH or LOW BP....in high BP a person becomes nearly crazy...and in Low BP they feel shattered...

I am not saying TAra is right....but she is depressed as portrayed...

and yes its not funny...i was just trying to ease my statement...anyhow...END of DiSCUssion!