Originally posted by: Dhruvie
yes...i have expenience...my cousin can't conceive...she thinks about nothing but a child(normally a human wants its needs badly)...she even told her husband to divorce her if he wants and re-marry(may sound like a story..it isn't)...but he says no!(being realistic)...U SEE...a person who is depressed can do anything...depression if you may not know...leads to HIGH or LOW BP....in high BP a person becomes nearly crazy...and in Low BP they feel shattered...
I am not saying TAra is right....but she is depressed as portrayed...
and yes its not funny...i was just trying to ease my statement...anyhow...END of DiSCUssion!
You may have seen your cousin suffer. I do hope family members were not adding to her suffering by making her agree to force her husband to re-marry ? Unless her in-laws torture a girl will never force her husband to re-marry due to lack of children.
High BP DOES NOT drive any one to brink of craziness !!!!!!!!!!! Nor does Infertility !!!!!!!!!!!! Only people drive women with infertility to insanity, she herself does not !!!!!
You don't have personal experience and may know understand this and thats fine.
Originally posted by: shali
It hard when a woman can't conceive but some also choose to do that..... I also have decided not to bare any children.... why.... Lot's off reason.... was it a easy decision NO..... got real depressed.... And still brings tears in my eyes......For me to understand Tara is easy because I have always dreaming off a child sins my 21 birthday.... now 14 years....and when a dream breaks....it's hurts.......
Shali there is no one who can understand Tara's position better than US (you and me)
This issue is very senstive and a reality for many couples !!!!!!
Edited by Aparna_BD - 19 years ago