saloni do not deserve nahar - Page 2

Originally posted by: shali

asha dear,

don't go made on saloni.... I can understand her feelings and the shock she went trough....her reaction is also normal.....she still has to deal with that....

Do you realy want too blame saloni for her feelings....DO YOU THINK SHE WILL LEAF NAHAR FOR THIS????

Ne, saloni loves nahar very much and the 7 phere she beliefs in will hold her.....and yep, saloni wont verget the things nahar did for her.....

shali, where is the question of shock comes,atleast nahar has given a hint that something makes him uneasy if somebody talks about that haveli,then it is better to keep quiet and enjoy life with him [which will make him to realise that he shd confess to her one day].he required some space/time to tell about his past. she never tells about her past [it is rewa who told about neel] and about family members but expect that he shd confess everything bcos he had saath phere with her. she expects it shd be one way traffic and not from other side.Instead of feeling pity for nahar suffered with chandni she is more curious to know how chandni died. what is she going to do with chandni. now.[ after her death]. I expected that saloni will be supportive to nahar and console him to forget past and look to the future.

Originally posted by: mom22ds

exaggeration -"saloni do not deserve nahar "
saloni has been hiding things from nahar, though she always wanted to tell, & there was always a reason, but she was hiding it for others reputation, not for her own sake. about, that she loved neel before, she was planning to tell this sooner or later. everything was a small issue, not as big as this one which could shatter Nahar.

but here its definitely nahar's mistake, and a very big shock for saloni, first thing is Nahar chosen her because he wanted to choose the opposite from his first love, not for what she is, isn't that a big enough shock to know that why he rejected shubhra over her.
she is so confused now, about the truth about chandani, & how she died... wouldn't she feel insecure in a place like this until the she knows the whole truth.

mom 22, he never wanted to repeat the same mistake which he did marrying chandni [for her beauty and complexion] ,so he preferred saloni for her good nature and did not give importance to beauty and complexion.[shubra's behaviour with nahar has reminded chandni so he never wanted to repeat the same mistake. so he clearly said that the girl shd be good natured and adjusting in joint family atmosphere. and did not give importance to the beauty of the girl.

This is really ridiculous. The fact is that mistakes were made on both parts. The only difference is that Nahar is hiding something that directly affects his relationship with Saloni. He keeps getting angry at her for things she has no knowledge about. Besides, have any of YOU ever walked into a room and had everyone suddenly stop talkiing? You feel so damn alienated and THAT is not a feeling anyone should have amongst their own family. I'm sorry...while Saloni needs to give Nahar a chance to explain everything--she is in every way justified in feeling betrayed. I don't know what other people think but when you get married, you share everything about yourself...you don't just "keep quiet" to keep things easy. Life and relationships are not that easy and will not work that way.

itna lamba chauda discussion saloni nahar ko lekar 😕 😆 😆 arre yaar, just chill and enjoy the serial - why so much research on it 😆

cummon guys.. nahar has killed sumone ..duh he is repenting on wat he did..and is tryin to b gud to saloni outta guilt..but i dont get one thing . nahar waz in love wit chandini and fought and got married to this gal..and den he fights wid her wen shez so sweet to him and den finally kils her... gosh al this doesnt make any sense..

Originally posted by: anumavilakandy

In my eyes Saloni's hurt and shock is completely justified. When Nahar heard that Saloni and Neel used to have feelings for each other..he also acted shocked and hurt. And besides..I don't know why saloni is being projected as some sort of goddess who does not feel pain..she is after all human..and a painful secret which she had to discover herself must hurt

hello anuma, nahar was shocked bcos saloni hide this matter from nahar,when rewa informed about their love of [neel and saloni] nahar never wanted to come in between these two and he arranged for marriage of neel and saloni in bombay with rewa's help but saloni refused to get marry with neel and said that neel is her past and her future life she wants to be with nahar. nahar reacted bcos kaveri manipulated to create misunderstanding between nahar and saloni and also tried to stop the marriage of nahar and saloni and tried to create problems between these two but she could not suceed. above all whenever nahar used to talk about neel she was keeping quiet and pretended as if she does not know much about him. this is fact.

Originally posted by: fannn

yeah agreed saloni isn't a saint..but you know, she keeps saying 'mummy pappa ke izzat ke liyae" and tolerates all humiliation by kaveri and Shubra.
Kaveri and Shubra will never be saloni's friends/well wishers inspite of what she did for them..

whereas Nahar has always stood by Saloni and she knows him well enough by now..

Saloni also has a past (neel) which she would have conveniently hidden if Nahar hadn't discovered himself 😕 Didn't Nahar understand Saloni and neel's story? Did he jump and break the engagement? No! So, Saloni needs to give him a chance.


She knew there was some strong secret in Purani dodi. She needs to deal with Nahar later after tbe party and speak to fly. members too, which she did. She can't just jump around.. moreover, chandni is dead!
She also needs to give him a chance and listen to his side of the story.
Hurt is one thing but she needs to listen to the entire story too..

Hope the truth about how chandni died comes out soon. I think that will be the secret linked to purani dodi directly.
anyways, why does nahar visit the dirty Purani dodi every night?

hai fann, I too agree with u, I am all the more disgusted with saloni's behaviour giving importance to the gift which naukarani gave to her telling somebody send that gift for her. what was so necessary to open that gift box, even if the chavi is found why she was in a hurry to open the door that day only leaving party. is it that important than attending the guest and enjoying the birthday atmosphere along with her relatives. I am sure this is also manipulation of jijasa and kaveri who stole the chavi after wearing the glouse and managed to make a duplicate chavi and made saloni crazy to open the door of that secret darwaza, and she became a victim of the plan who wanted to separate nahar and saloni. [who knows kaki sar may also be involved in this plan and taken sweet revenge and she is telling different story about chandni and nahar is telling different story about chandni.] I think nahar is telling lie that he killed chandni and trying to protect his brother and I assume brijesh must have killed her bcos of chandni's behaviour must have gone beyond limit.

Originally posted by: PiyaBawri

Come on now..saying she doesnt deserve someone like Nahar is a bit of a strech don't you think? If it was you in that situation you don't think you'd be hurt if your husband hid something like that from you?

Agreed that Saloni had a past too that Nahar discovered before her telling him and understood it etc. but does she/did she go and spend every night in some "sanctuary" for that love???? I don't think so!

I think she is totally justified in her anger and hurt right now. Of course at the same time, I do think with time she should atleast give Nahar one opportunity to completely explain what he wants to say and he should also tell her the COMPLETE truth this time including how Chandni died.

yeah i totally agree with u!

and they should both trust each other more!

Originally posted by: PiyaBawri

Come on now..saying she doesnt deserve someone like Nahar is a bit of a strech don't you think? If it was you in that situation you don't think you'd be hurt if your husband hid something like that from you?

Agreed that Saloni had a past too that Nahar discovered before her telling him and understood it etc. but does she/did she go and spend every night in some "sanctuary" for that love???? I don't think so!

I think she is totally justified in her anger and hurt right now. Of course at the same time, I do think with time she should atleast give Nahar one opportunity to completely explain what he wants to say and he should also tell her the COMPLETE truth this time including how Chandni died.

hello piya, u hv supported saloni's action and also put question mark that if we r in that place we would have acted like that is not agreed by me. if I am dark and continuously getting humiliation from own sister and bhabhi, and sometime from her mother also and above all the alliance which was fixed for saloni by a deal of 25 lakhs dowry and the rude behaviour of those persons towards saloni that too in front of her parents and the family were in trauma how to get rid of saloni [that too after her bombay trip to meet neel after he met with accident] her condition became more pathetic when shubra and kaveri made her life miserable she was bearing all these illtreatment.

but when she married a person like nahar who was very caring towards her she got a respected life in their house and everybody loved her very much and above all the humiliation her in laws faced bcos of saloni after marriage [to protct her ungrateful sister and family members] nahar was very supportive to her. what was so hurry to find out his past history while she has been keeping all her past history hiding from nahar. she could have a decent life instead of making him to irritate about asking his past. she shd have waited for some more time. it is her bad luck she knows the situation of her parents how they are living and this girl trying to act smart and she cannot come to her parent's house also kaveri is waiting to take revenge on her. why can't she be diplomatic .

i just hope saloni forgives nahar...he has been a very good husband and has always supported her in her bad times......right now she is hurt and angry and this is justified...if she cud forgive kaveri and shubra a million times,she shd forgive her husband also coz he is her well wisher unlike kaveri and shubra.