Saath Phere-Question

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Posted: 19 years ago
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ok so from what i know, getting married and thne saath phere means that you are going to be together for 7 lives, rt?

so if that is right. Say if somebody gets married twice in a life time. So that makes 14 pheree. does that mean that in every life time ur gna be married twice to same two people and first marriage will break up??? and that second marriage is what the guy/girl will live with for 7 lives?😕

someone please asnwer, this question is in my head for so long that i cant stop from thinking of the asnwer

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Posted: 19 years ago
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actually this saath phere concept come from old age in those days people used to marry most of the people marry only once not like this days can marry as many times as they want so they use dto believe that with sath phere you are goign to stay with your life partner for seven birth but that is nto true actually during saath phere "pandit" speack some mantra those are promises we give to our life partner that we will keep whole life like in bad time or in good time we will stay to gether, we will not hide things from each other, than husband will help financially (as in old age only male was earning) and woman will help at home, in first few phere man lead the woman and in last phere woman lead the man. as last phera is for death so she is tellign when death come she will ash god to take her before him (funny idea) as it is believed that "suhagan" death is very auspiciouse . because in those days woman's position was very bad so if husban died before them in some tribe they had "sati pratha" so woman has to kill herself with him. all those very old retual so al this belief came from old age so in this modren world all this does not make any difference but still actuall i can say for myself i believe in one marraige and after death no body knows waht happens so cannot say for seven birth.


sorry for long reply i hope i make thing bit clear
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I belief that you can marry a second time but you are not aloud too do the phere's again.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: shali

I belief that you can marry a second time but you are not aloud too do the phere's again.



😆ur funny man...... 😆 😆 but is it really true?????????????? 😕 .........
Edited by yummys - 19 years ago

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