Originally posted by: Kittya_Cullen
I do not believe that anyone here is unaware of the fact that our opinions do not dictate the dynamics of these actors' relationships. We simply see them as family/ friends, and a person usually wants the best for family and friends. As far as we Avina fans can see, Avinash and Rubina have been happy with each other, as such, we only want them to remain happy. Just like with my real life friends, I cannot dictate their romantic interests or decisions, however I can be happy for them and support them in their happiness. Even if they were to break up ( God forbid!!!!), we would still offer them our love and support, because we want them to be happy. For now, the obvious source of happiness for Avina is each other. I know nothing about Ravi and Sargun.
What we fans would like is that people be careful with the things they say regarding these good people. How would we feel if someone was saying or posting harmful things about our own relationships or those of our real life friends, especially people who don't even know them? I'm sure insulted, horrified, hurt, and angry are a few things that come to mind.
As the old saying goes, "If you have nothing good to say, please don't say anything."
This whole concept of good or bad is influenced by extreme infatuation to on screen pairs..
Of course if they have been married couple, it would be insulting to say that they may break or find new companion..
However they are eligible bachelors..they have their right to change/ review their partnership decision and no moral preachers or no legal system will question that.. In that light discussing about a possibility is not insult to them. Infidelity is an insult but that term only comes in picture when you are married!!!
If it was bad and insulting.. discussing n number of break-ups and relation rumour about Salman Khan, Sahid Kapoor,Priyanka, Ranbir, John, Bipasha would have been insulting too and they would not have been a mute spectator to these rumours and would have taken action..
Rule is simple, if you are a celebrity and not married, people would discuss.. everywhere in the world people discuss.. they discuss in blogs, facebook, papers.. magazines, tv.. everywhere..
Just because you are an extreme fan .. you can not dictate your own rule and force upon others.. of course you can create your own den like CB forum and rule it but do not expect your baseless rules and overly emotive sentiments to work everywhere.
Just take it this way- I as a Ravi fan has every right to discuss and wish that I would have liked it much better is he and Rubina was a real life couple.. How can you stop me from saying this just because you are just a fan of some pair !!
Edited by akash08 - 13 years ago
