Dual Member of the Week - Page 47

Originally posted by: sylvester

No. you did not miss the grades, I edited, so you must have written your comments at the same time I was editing. How could I miss giving you what you deserve for being susch a lovely MOTW.

Thanks very much.

I am about to think up some questions for Simi, but a very dear friend is visiting from Hawaii, and my 3 sisters and I are taking him out to lunch.

and to catch up on news.

Cheerio

Zain

Thanku once again Zai,u have been very kind to me.😃

Originally posted by: Awww

arre yaar jo tumne kiya hai,wo kissi ne nahi kiya hai,batao koi hai bhala jo chori chori apne he husband se baag mein milta ho😆😆how romantic😳

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Simi, where are the replies to my question???😳

Sowwy...they'll be here soon. 😳

Originally posted by: simtara

😆 Well, I make a few exceptions. 😊

Thank you 😳

u r welcome😊

I am a bit free and a lot bored....shall i give more questions....no new replies are coming in....😆😆

Originally posted by: simtara

If the rest of you is like him I'll even pay for the date! 😉

what are u coming over in- bus, train, plane...😆

Originally posted by: adi_0112

Some more questions (for both):Thanks Adi😊

1. We often see , when a will is read out, people cry...what are the four possible reasons which make them cry...?

There can be several reasons but let me think of four.

1.The first reason is very obvious and easy ,they love the person whose will is being read and they are crying because they are remembering that person.

2.Maybe they never knew that the person made a will otherwise they would have behaved differently to get the major portion of the property.

3.Maybe they did not get what they expected(gam ke aansoo) or they got much more than they expected(khushi ke aansoo)

4.Jab will read ki gayi to pata chala ki will banane wale ke paas sirf debts the aur wo ab unke beneficieries ko chukane honge.😆

2. A person should change with time- how much should a person change?

Only as much as is required to survive the change.We all know the theorey of the 'Survival of the fitteset.So to stay fit change urself but i would never compromise on my beliefs and principles.

3. Love, possessiveness and obsession-where does one end and the other begin?

Love is the most beautiful feeling and it is made up with faith,honesty and trust.

When in the feeling of love either of the partner begins loosing faith and trust and and honesty it automatically creates the fear of loosing the partner and thus this feeling of love changes into possesiveness and the partners don't give space to each other.

Obsession is the extreme form of the possesive feeling that the lovers can experience,not letting go of the partner at all and both possesiveness and obsession are the signs of a very unhealthy relations ship whic is verging on a break up.

4. what is the difference between an aquaintence, a friend and a great friend?

An aquaintence is someone whom u know casually,when you get to know him a little better,his and ur tastes,likes and dislikes are similar and u like spending time with him,he might become ur friend and when this friend becomes an important part of ur life,feels like a family member,knows ur problems even thoug u told him nothig,becomes indispensible for u ,he is what you would call a 'great friend'.

5. What according to you are the 8 golden rules of friendship?

These are my own rules of friendship,not in any particular order.

Trust ur friend,if he is ur friend he will be faithful to u and if he is not then he never was ur friend.
Give him his space,don't become possesive,he has a life besides u also.
Be there when he needs help just the way u would want him to be there.
Never probe his personal life until he asks u too.
Respect him.
Be a good listener.
Be respectful to his family
1. Try to know what he needs even before he tell you.

6. Imagine you are given a topic"heads I win, tails u lose" - please list out 5 points for both and against this topic.

can u explain a little further Adi,can't understand this one😕

7. Onece bitten twice shy... what happens if you get bit four times?

You get shy 8 times😆

8. "Out of sight, out of mind" - why?

not necessarily,it depends on who is out of sight,an acquaintance a great friend or a family member.I don't think that it would apply to the latter two,i have not seen my best friend,my brother and my mom for the last 2.5 years but they are always in my heart

It might be true for a person to whom u are not very attached and just know him superficially so its possible to forget him after a while.

9."Time and tide wait for none" - what's there hurry?

kabhi milenge to mujhe bhi yahi poochna hai,tide se to nahi per time se zaroor poochna hai ki aise bhi kya jaldi hai😆

10. What will be your reaction if someone says-"if i promise to miss you-will u go away"?

Depends on who is saying it and i'll do accordingly,might give him a dirty look,fight with him or threaten him😆

I'll tell u one incidence,whenever i remember it i laugh.

One day i just asked my husband jokingly that if I die will u marry again.I was expecting a very emotional reply ,imagining him holding my hand and telling me not to talk like that but he just laughed and said'Janeman tum ek baar marr ke to dekho,ek baar galti kar chuka hoon,dobara shaadi karne ki galti kabhi nahi karoonga😡😆.For a minute I was shocked and angry and then I started laughing .

11. Would you call a guy, whose feelings are reflected in his eyes as weak or a guy whose feeling are never visible as strong?

somebody who does not show his feeling is not necessarily a bad guy,i would take a chance and call the guy who does not show his feelings.

B. Aniji-this one is only for you:

if you were to invite 15 members to your house for dinner, who would they all be, and what would be in your menu?

Adi,Priya,Dolly,Simi,Bhasker,Manjudi,Kavita,Zee,MB,Ritzy,Sun y,Sunil,Rahul,Lata and Taran.

Menu to inse pooch kar hi bataoongi,ki inko kya banana aata hai,mere ghar jo aata hai usko khud cook karna parta hai😆jk

For Appetizers

Samosa and kebabs

Main course

Palak Paneer

Chicken tikka masala

aloo gobhi sabji

Raita

Dal makhani

Naan

Pulav

sweet dish

Gulab jamun and icecream.

For drinks

soft drinks and Red wine and dry fruits to go with them.

Originally posted by: ani11

B. Aniji-this one is only for you:

if you were to invite 15 members to your house for dinner, who would they all be, and what would be in your menu?

Adi,Priya,Dolly,Simi,Bhasker,Manjudi,Kavita,Zee,MB,Ritzy,Sun y,Sunil,Rahul,Lata and Taran.

Menu to inse pooch kar hi bataoongi,ki inko kya banana aata hai,mere ghar jo aata hai usko khud cook karna parta hai😆jk

For Appetizers

Samosa and kebabs

Main course

Palak Paneer

Chicken tikka masala

aloo gobhi sabji

Raita

Dal makhani

Naan

Pulav

sweet dish

Gulab jamun and icecream.

For drinks

soft drinks and Red wine and dry fruits to go with them.

Danka Sehr Anita: I finally get to wear the outfit !! Plus, for most case, will be in good company so look forward to the dinner - yummy menu, red wine and good company - Bole tho, aur kya chaheyey aapun ko - koi khidki bhi khat khataney ki zaroorat nahin ........😉 😆😆

Brilliant answers Aniji....😃👏

Toh bataiye...when do we come for the dinner....😳 kya menu hain wah wah...

P.s. small doubt-who is MB???