I am so sorry

I am so sorry to Vajpeyee ji..... I opened a thread because I really got khushike aansoon while watching him yesterday so wanted to appreciate him..... But some fellows just dont understand the meaning for which the thread is opened.....

Today I am really crying because the thread was closed with full of 4 pages personal attacks and 1 page of appreciation....

I am sorry to Vajpeyee ji and to the members and Dev team to have opened the thread

😭

It is really sad. I agree with you Abhi. Very unfortunate. The thread has nothing but personal attacks on each other.

Koi baat nahin Abhi..your post was great! 😛 👏

Now cheer up! 😳 😳 If not for us than for Amrita. 😉 🤗

Originally posted by: egghatcher

pick different battles friends ...... keep reverence at the height of pedestal that we keep parents at👍🏼

Agree 100%

But would like to say something. Everyone has their own idols and people to whom we look up to. We need to remember that if we do not like someone, whatever the critisism be, we cannot make comments which attack the personal integrity of the person or the attack be of a nature which is "below the belt".

And for the fans, if someone does make a mean or sleazy comment, we can easily argue without getting personal.

Everyone has a different pov and by itself, having a diff pov is not wrong. It is the way we write and the manner in which we write which is sometimes taken as being attacking, bashing etc.

Originally posted by: egghatcher

Swar_Raj Goldie Joined: 18 February 2006 Location: United States Posts: 2355

Posted: 03 November 2006 at 11:02am | IP Logged Abhi..you are so right. We all know what kind of sense of humor you have . You have shown it enought time. All I can say is I envy 😛 your intelligence 😆 may be this is how you respect your elders. my mistake...I am sorry 😃 and bravo to you 👏

Yah I saw this comment.... but I dont care what people talk of me my intelligence.... I am really upset the way people behaved on that thread.....

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Yah I saw this comment.... but I dont care what people talk of me my intelligence.... I am really upset the way people behaved on that thread.....

Abhi,

I have believed that if you are truly inspired by another, you show your respect or pay homage to that person by following the principles laid down by them.

Vajpayjee as a person has shown how to rise above petty behaviour and be magnanimous.

If you respect him, imbibe his values and be like him.

Everyone has a different pov, just respect it and go on.

Originally posted by: s.priya

Abhi,

I have believed that if you are truly inspired by another, you show your respect or pay homage to that person by following the principles laid down by them.

Vajpayjee as a person has shown how to rise above petty behaviour and be magnanimous.

If you respect him, imbibe his values and be like him.

Everyone has a different pov, just respect it and go on.

I never replied against anyone's POV except for Ron's remark about drinking.... u can give ur POV.... but go to that thread.... if u take appreciation and POV it is only 1 page.... and 4 pages is just personal attacks on each other.... the thread was not closed becaus of POV but the personal attacks.....

I am talking only about the personal attacks here

Originally posted by: s.priya

Agree 100%

But would like to say something. Everyone has their own idols and people to whom we look up to. We need to remember that if we do not like someone, whatever the critisism be, we cannot make comments which attack the personal integrity of the person or the attack be of a nature which is "below the belt".

And for the fans, if someone does make a mean or sleazy comment, we can easily argue without getting personal.

Everyone has a different pov and by itself, having a diff pov is not wrong. It is the way we write and the manner in which we write which is sometimes taken as being attacking, bashing etc.

I cannot agree with you more... Constructive criticism is fine... But why keep Criticizing and making comments that will hurt people's sentiments..

That thread was about Vajpayeeji but i was so shocked to see so much of personal attack in the thread...

Swar_Raj Goldie Joined: 18 February 2006 Location: United States Posts: 2355

Posted: 03 November 2006 at 8:28am | IP Logged kabhi_21 wrote: Pehli baar SRGMP dekhte hue aansoo apne aap mere aankhonse nikale jab maine is mahan hasti ko dekha aaj. I so regret that they telecast the program one week late here..... I respect this man Shri Atal Bihari Vajpeyee a lot. He is very modest and mentally very tough person. I voted for BJP/Shivsena only because I wanted him to be PM. He may not be as qualified as Mr. Manmohan Singh but for the Person he is, he was the best for PM position. When I saw him talking laughing with the children, I was so much taken that the tears rolled down automatically. when sameer said does he cut cake on birthday and the way he laughed.... the way he inspired them with poem..... he had also written a letter to Lil champs some weeks back.... Shri Vajpeyee sahab ko mera salaam, mera pranaam 👏 He truely is a man self made. 😆😆 Sorry Abhi, cannot argue on this with you. I also admire him. Mera Pranaam to him too👏👏👏

This was the first reply in that thread and should give you more idea where the thread went wrong

Abhi,

the problem is - when we are expressing our POV's we tend to go out and prove our point and if and in that course of time, proving the point turns into a personal attack...