I would never insult Sonu: Himesh - Page 4

Moderators are none on any side. When anyone makes such comments we take action. Have done it even against the ones whom you call the majority. Infact maybe we have taken more actions against them than you all. They have faced our wrath more than the minority you call....

But one interesting point I have noticed about HR fans here. They start with proper debate but when start getting counter replies to their points they start attacking the members who make the point.

Why do that?? Why not keep it as debate. Or is it that you want nothing can be said against HR here??? Debate is going on so keep it that way. Don't attack each other.

Originally posted by: ranig

Let's put it this way if there was an article on Sonu where he said something nice about HR. I would be the first one to say sorry about any comments about SOnu. Because it would reflect how I am as a person. I would feel ambarassed.

Hey Ranig, its nice that you feel that way.

But the world is full of people of different mentality. No one is fully good or no one is fully bad.

HR's detractors arent evil and HR's fans arent angels.

Why not have a healthy debate and relationship.

Originally posted by: ranig

Now if someone else see's the same post and then starts laughing again and invites their so called gang lords to continue to do the criticism of things which have nothing to do with him as an artist. I'm sorry to say but you try to act balanced , but your obviously not. I can show you many places where people have made comments which were a lot worse than this towards HR. There was no stopping from yourside obviously, because you were part of the gang.

Gang 😲

Reminds me of a Dialougue from the movie Angoor 😳

Well, we do not belong to any GANG.

Originally posted by: ranig

We need more balance moderators here not one's who pretend to be. I dont even LIke HR that much , but because of this forum and it's unhealthy abuse of those who think differently, I had to make a stand. There is an absolute limit.

😕 U took a stand on HR because he is abused in the forum and not because you like him.

Himeshji is a good person. I don't think that he said anything bad to Sonu.

Originally posted by: s.priya

Hey Ranig, its nice that you feel that way.

But the world is full of people of different mentality. No one is fully good or no one is fully bad.

HR's detractors arent evil and HR's fans arent angels.

Why not have a healthy debate and relationship.



Gang 😲

Reminds me of a Dialougue from the movie Angoor 😳

Well, we do not belong to any GANG.

😕 U took a stand on HR because he is abused in the forum and not because you like him.

Priya, I am sorry I have offended . You are the last person I would want to offend in this forum. But, yes this is my perspective. I do feel their is bias. But, if you feel that's not the case then there is really not much for me to do.

I am only trying to give a perspective which may not go with majority opinion. Yes, sometimes you take stands on things because of the true justice of it. It happens to me and I am not sure if it happens for others.

Eventhough, I'm not a Debo fan, I have defended him on many occasions. I am sure there are many people who can attest to that. That's the way I am.

About those individuals who have a perspective against Hr. I don't think their evil. Please don't put words in my mouth. I have close friends who don't like him. But, I do think when we things come out of our mouthes or hands we are responsible for those statements and just what I am saying is a reflection of my character so is what others are saying. I did not mean it to attack anyone, but sometimes we need to be shown a mirror of what we are doing.

About others not likeing him for his music . That's fine. But if someone says something nice then isn't it a natural reaction to say something nice too. Or atleast I thought say.

I guess at the end of the day we have a different perspective on this. S. Priya , you are the last person I would offend and I may have done inadvertently. Sorry about that again.

If you all feel I have done wrong. I hope to think about this and do some self reflection on my part.

see he din't say any hitng these media ppl they can do anything for a SENSATIONAL news i think he knows he doesn't have the best voice and sonu is a singer very talented he hasn't said anything to sonu.

No wonder Himesh made it to Rediff's "Celebrities people love to hate" list. 😊

Originally posted by: ranig

Let's put it this way if there was an article on Sonu where he said something nice about HR. I would be the first one to say sorry about any comments about SOnu. Because it would reflect how I am as a person. I would feel ambarassed. Now if someone else see's the same post and then starts laughing again and invites their so called gang lords to continue to do the criticism of things which have nothing to do with him as an artist. I'm sorry to say but you try to act balanced , but your obviously not. I can show you many places where people have made comments which were a lot worse than this towards HR. There was no stopping from yourside obviously, because you were part of the gang.

We need more balance moderators here not one's who pretend to be. I dont even LIke HR that much , but because of this forum and it's unhealthy abuse of those who think differently, I had to make a stand. There is an absolute limit.

rani, please don't feel bad but I couldn't stop myself from making this comment. You are saying here, "I dont even LIke HR that much , but because of this forum and it's unhealthy abuse of those who think differently, I had to make a stand.". But in another post, you said, "I think we all agree that Sonu is a more versatile singer and has been singing longer. But, Some of us might actually like Himesh voice and enjoy his songs too." I am assuming 'some of us' includes you. So, you are contradicting yourself.

I would like to mention one more thing. You said you had to make a stand because of this forum and 'its unhealthy abuse of those who think differently'. I don't know how to interpret this comment of yours from another post; I will ask you if the comment you made here is healthy or unhealthy. Now don't misunderstand me, I am just trying to differentiate between healthy and unhealthy abuse. Here is what you said, "Sonu's attitude is just plain poor. I remember on an award show he insulted udit narayan for always getting awards at his acceptance speach when he himself was awarded one. HIs attitude towards many people has been bad. This is not the first time. you'll find many articles regarding Sonu's rudeness. Sorry to get between your discussion, but I have to say that Sonu's behavior has not been the best for some time now. Babul Supriyo who was his best friend, is also very upset at him. He said Sonu's behavior was very rageful and he used many bad words towards him." I am sure he didn't mean to insult Uditji; he must have said it in a humorous way. I will not go deeper in this issue since I had already posted my views in that thread (http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=387313&T PN=13).

The topic was about Himesh and Sonu's comments on each other but you brought out award show, Udit, Babul, etc. to prove Sonu has bad attitude. So, people like me who thought it was not fair towards Sonu had to come up with counter replies.

Kanta , i appreciate the response, but it is true that as I am a fan of his songs, I always preferred Sonu and that's why I think he is more versatile and stated it so.
The things we were discussing and if you take my statement out of context it wont make any sense. But, we were on the topic of arrogance and who is more arrogant specifically that. People were giving their perspective as to why Hr is arrogant and I honestly did feel Sonu was very arrogant for a long time so that is why I put my point of view.

As singers, Sonu is 100 times better. But, for me not the best. Hr has a voice of his own, but is limited with range. I think he is a good composer.

That is my perspective. In fact I felt you had kind of attacked me by telling me to refrain from making comments regarding Babul Supriyo. I brought out Babul Supriyo out because I read his article and felt that would be another example of his Sonu's arrogance in the linde of discussion.

Anyway, that story is over and I have a lot to think about. I obviously have hurt Priya's sentiments who I respect. But, I do feel and I will not change my stance on this that there is bias in this forum. I have many examples where moderators have participated in anti Hr discussions. That is fine they have the right to. But, an outsider will obviously feel that can be bias. When the powers that be are on your side of the debate things are different.

Now, I hope I have not offended you, but I needed to be open about my perceptions expecially around the statments you made around me. I had to defend myself. About Sonu, I have decided that I don't want to really comment on him anymore, because I am seeing him in concert and I want to really go with an open mind. Maybe my perception will change. Your pictures were nice and It was nice for you to post them.

I hope you will take my response in the right spirit. I will also think about what you have said. In general, I have decided to lay low key for a while, but will respond to people directly talking to me. tHANKS

rani, if you go back and read my comment again, I think you'll have a better understanding of what I tried to say there. Here is what I said in response to your above Sonu/Babul statement, "I don't know what happened between them, so I will avoid pointing figure at one person. It's better to refrain yourself from making such comments about personal relationships unless you know them personally." The last sentence where I said 'it's better to refrain yourself' was just for the sake of explanation. It didn't mean explicitely you. That 'yourself' includes me as well. I apologize to you if you took it personally or if it has hurt you.

Comeon Let it go, there have been numerous arguments about HR, there have been a lot of times the moderators are accused of being pro-"someone". In fact there was one moderator here who had a tag, #1 fan of HR or something, she used to get killed on this forum, but all the moderators are pretty even handed, sometimes they join into the playful banter, but on a whole they are pretty even handed

About people being offensive, there are same # on both sides, depending on which time of a day you are here. I would not repeat the offensive words mentioned, but happens, people sometimes write in a passion, you have to respect it and let it go.

In the end we all are here to have fun and if possible read something enlightening

But to tell you the truth I am tired of seeing these many PRO-Himesh/Anti Himesh threads here. For Heavens sake he is not even related to Lil Champs competition, but then again who else will rile up people on this forum 😉